Where there is love, there is no place for expectations!
Having expectations is a normal human nature. Having expectations from others is not a bad thing.but one should be prepared for its consequences. Even a child has expectations from his parents that his hunger and thirst will be taken care of. As his life progresses,his expectations from family, society and government also increase. Not everyone can live up to our expectations, and when these are not fulfilled, it can have a negative impact on our quality. It can also change our outlook towards life. A person wants the best in every situation. And when this doesn't happen, disappointment arises. It is necessary to bear the pain of expectations being broken, and this should be seen as the result of karma of destiny. It is natural to accept that where there are expectations, there is suffering. Yet it is not difficult to adopt an open attitude towards the world. Before having expectations from others, we need to take care of our strength, ability and limitations. It is also true that it is better to stay away from a place where your expectations are not valued. With age, expectations also reduce and everything seems futile. Keeping yourself busy, spending time with loved ones and being absorbed in meditation is the solution to this sorrow.
Where there is love, there is no place for expectations. Be tolerant.
Tolerância sempre é necessária!
ReplyDeleteE nem sempre as expectativas viram realidades! beijos, chica
Tener expectativas no es malo, solo cuando las cosas que deseamos nos abandonan, y buscamos, seguimos buscando lo mejor.
DeleteGracias
Unas perspectivas y reflexiones sumamente interesantes sin duda alguna, que nos ayudan a ver posibles situaciones desde un ángulo mayormente realista. Saludos desde Mallorca.
ReplyDeleteWell written and lovely photos :-D
ReplyDeleteSure. Agree
DeleteSome people are prone to getting their hopes up very easily, so they can suffer greater disappointment.
ReplyDeleteI agree.
DeleteHola guapísima, muchas gracias por el post, muy buenas reflexiones. Feliz día.
DeleteI completely agree with you.
DeleteEstar cercano a quienes nos son cercanos es saludable y tratarlos con tolerancia ayuda a pasar sus malos ratos. Un abrazo. Carlos
ReplyDeleteOh very beautiful photo
ReplyDeleteOla Sakuranko...
DeleteOgólnie w życiu warto podchodzić z pewną dozą dystansu i nie za dużych oczekiwań. Łapać to co daje nam los.
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Angelika
Hi Angela......
DeleteIt is difficult to set aside our expectations, I think, and greet people with warm and open hearts. But it is so important.
ReplyDeletePer fortuna fin da piccolo sono stato abituato a non farmi mai molte aspettative su nulla ma le esperienze positive le gradisco sempre con piacere e ne gioisco.
ReplyDeleteUn caro saluto.
Coucou ma douceur
ReplyDeleteje te souhaite , une bonne jsoirée et une bonne fin de semaine , après un épisode de gros orages mais sans dégâts chez moi le soleil est revenue ici dans le haut de France , prends bien soin de toi .
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Love that yellow flower.
ReplyDeleteUne belle fleur!
ReplyDeleteEn prenant de l'âge on modère ses espoirs et ses attentes, effectivement !
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Nice... love to read this....
DeleteWishes it's natural in humans...
ReplyDeleteAnna
Hi Anna...
DeleteWishing for and wanting is such a natural process.
ReplyDeleteHola guapísima, un buen post y unas fotos preciosas. Feliz día. Besos
ReplyDeleteWe should never have high expectations of anything.
ReplyDeleteThis is such a thoughtful and profound reflection.
ReplyDeleteExpectations are indeed a natural part of being human, but learning how to live with them — and without them — is a lifelong journey. I especially resonate with the idea that where there is love, there should be no expectations. Love, in its purest form, asks for nothing in return.
Thank you for this gentle reminder.
One must be tolerant of oneself and others, it is said wisely.
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ReplyDeleteGood and wise statement
ReplyDeleteGreetings
Hm. I will respectfully disagree. I have high expectations of myself and the people in my household. I think that helps them, and myself, to aim for something better than merely surviving. It gives us direction. Can those expectations be adjusted? Yes, and they are often. However, I'm a firm believer in setting plans/goals/hopes & then working like crazy to reach them. It's true, I can't expect things of people outside my control, and I think that's where we have to raise our hands and be okay with whatever comes.
ReplyDeleteMniej oczekiwań mniej rozczarowań ... :)
ReplyDeleteGreat post. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI try my best not to get upset over things that are outside my control, but I still have high expectations for myself, even though I'm a senior. Happy July!
ReplyDeletewell say ....
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ReplyDeleteAgree with you
Deletei agree.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this thoughtful post. Aloha!
ReplyDeleteQue postagem belíssima!
ReplyDeleteA flor amarela deu uma energia tão positiva 'as palavras, obrigada!
Linda a reflexão, um aprendizado para a vida!!
Tenha uma ótima semana!
Ola Adriana...
DeleteGüzel blog.
ReplyDeleteQué reflexión tan profunda y verdadera. Las expectativas forman parte de nuestro camino como seres humanos, pero aprender a soltar las que nos duelen, aceptar nuestras propias limitaciones y las de los demás, es un acto de madurez y amor propio.
ReplyDeleteQuizás la clave esté ahí: en vivir con apertura, sin exigir tanto, pero sin perder la esperanza. Porque donde hay amor genuino, el dar deja de depender del recibir.
Gracias por compartir un pensamiento tan necesario.
Unmet expectations can be devastating for sure.
ReplyDeleteHaving expectations is part of the human experience. So is disappointment. It's how we evolve.
ReplyDeletethey say "expect nothing and you will never be disappointed'"!! i am a dreamer, i'm not sure i agree with that!!
ReplyDelete🪶 Hello,
ReplyDelete🍃 May your weekend flow into a deep rhythm,
🍃 Like a foam book with wandering pages.
🍃May the freshness of the woods, discreet and maternal,
🍃 Offer you the living glow of an original peace.
🍃 May your footsteps resonate on the moving earth,
🍃Touching every sound of living nature.
🍃 That a curious stream, in its sincere detours,
🍃 Wall your thought with light whispers.
🍃 Seize the moment that passes like a fruit of joy,
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🍃 Finds its colors in the disheveled grass.
📜Bisous 💋☙⚜ 🅁🄴🄶🄸🅂 - 🄵 ⚜❧
I believe that you harvest what you planted. Have a beautiful day!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for visiting my blog.
ReplyDelete**"Let go of places that don’t value you. With time, expectations fade, and what once mattered feels lighter. Fill your days with love, purpose, and peace—where these thrive, expectations disappear. Stay patient, stay kind."**
ReplyDeleteAgree with your words
DeleteYeah, finding peace often means letting go of expectations, especially where love is concerned.
ReplyDeleteGracias, por tu visita
ReplyDeleteSaludos
It's nicely written.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing.
Have a great week.
Olá!
ReplyDeleteObrigada por sua visita.
Saudação fraterna
Bom dia, Rajani.
ReplyDeleteÉ das mais belas e reflexivas as suas
ponderações. Um brinde aos leitores
que poderão absorver a ideia de que as
expectativas, não raras vezes, bloqueiam
a harmonia de determinadas relações.
Aplausos e um terno abraço.
You only write "Great blog" and "Please read my post" in your comments. I don't like it. If you read my posts, you would write different words. So I'm sure you never read my posts, so I won't read yours.
ReplyDeleteO amor, traz-nos muitas vezes ilusões e utopias. E nesse contexto, criamos por vezes expectativas que saem goradas. O que cria um ambiente desagradável à relação.
ReplyDeleteÓtimo texto, amiga.
Gostei de ler.
Abraço e bom fim de semana.
Mário Margaride
Hello!
ReplyDeleteVery good reflection.
Best regards.
I think humans are hard wired to have expectations as you said- and then there is hopeful ones...those are the tricky ones. Flower is beautiful!
ReplyDeleteTolerance towards others. So important and really, so simple.
ReplyDeleteThank you =)
ReplyDeleteNice post. I love the yellow flower <3
Merci de votre visite et com''
ReplyDeleteBonne semaine bisous
'Be tolerant.' Wise advise.
ReplyDeletecoucou bonjour merci pour ta visite sa fait plaisir
ReplyDeletetres beau blogs bon mardi bisou thérèse
Yes, the destruction of having expectations is sometimes real.
ReplyDeleteThe flower is very beautiful.
ReplyDeleteGood reflection and beautiful pictures.
ReplyDeleteThe expectations, from my perspective, are a waste of time, energy and emotions.
ReplyDeleteSo we must let go all our expectations if we want an equilibrium in our life. And indeed,
love could be a solution.
All the best, Rajani.
I think that meeting your own expectations can also be a source of happiness, while failing to do so can lead to frustration.
ReplyDeleteA different perspective on this matter allows us to see the benefits.
Best regards.🤗
Olá!
ReplyDelete"Precisamos cuidar de nossas forças, habilidades e limitações. "
Se não cuidamos, ficamos à mercê do outro.
Tenha dias abençoados!
Abraços fraternos
Jag är ju gammal - fyller 80 i morgon - så jag har inga större förväntningar. Bara förhoppning att man får leva några år till och att man inte får alzheimer!
ReplyDeleteKRAM-Susie
great post - it is much easier to live if we do not have expectations and we are prepare for different ways, things , deeds.
ReplyDeletebest regards
Napisane prosto w punkt!
ReplyDeletePozdrawiam serdecznie, no i piękne kadry!!
very true words. I try not to have expectations. Enjoy your week and thankyou for visiting my blog this week.
ReplyDeleteWell said, thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic. I try not to put my own expectations on others. And I have learned--I am learning--to be grateful even when things don't turn out the way I had expected or hoped. To 'hold' my expectations loosely.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful blog
ReplyDeleteThank you for visiting my blog
ReplyDelete🪶 Bonjour,
ReplyDelete🌾Que cet après-midi s’ouvre en paix profonde,
🌾 Comme un souffle sacré que le silence inonde.
🌾 Que l’esprit en toi s’élève, libre et radieux,
🌾 Porté par la sagesse d’un murmure précieux.
🌾 Que chaque instant t’offre une étincelle divine,
🌾 Dans la danse du ciel où la lumière chemine.
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🌾 Respire l’invisible ce qui transcende les jours.
🌾 Bon après-midi, que le ciel t’entoure d’harmonie,
🌾 Et que l’âme en toi célèbre sa propre infinie.
📜 Bisous💋 🅁🄴🄶🄸🅂 🐾⛱♡
Está Alamanda amarela chamou minha atenção. Tenho dela no quintal. Lindos reflexivo texto sobre expectativas. Melhor não te-las. Nos frustramos quando elas não nos correspondem. Abraços.
ReplyDeleteWise words, thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteExactly. Expectations are completely normal. Without them, our lives would be meaningless; we would do anything, eat anything, etc. We need a purpose in life.
ReplyDeleteThis post really resonated with me, expectations often bring disappointment, but accepting this truth helps us find peace. I especially like the idea that love frees us from the burden of expectations. Staying present with loved ones and practicing tolerance is such a meaningful way to live.
ReplyDeleteYour thoughts are extraordinary and your reflections are very profound. A very interesting post. Hugs and best regards.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind comments.
ReplyDeleteWisdom spoken Nice Blog
ReplyDeleteLovely pictures! Very wise comments.
ReplyDeleteWell said. We have to understand our own strengths and circumstances too.
ReplyDeleteNorman Juster has the most brilliant chapter on Expectations in The Phantom Tollbooth. Lovely pics.
ReplyDeleteThanks for visiting!
ReplyDeleteGreat post!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful yellow amanda.
ReplyDeleteYour article is full of conscious truths.
Thanks for dropping by my blog. Thanks for inviting me over.
Much♡love
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ReplyDeleteMy approach for the subject.
All the best to you!
Great post, Rajani! :-)
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ReplyDeleteNice post
ReplyDeleteWhat you said makes a lot of sense.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the sharing. Sometimes, to love too much can be hurting too. I am still learning to live a grateful life.
ReplyDeleteTotalmente de acuerdo. Un saludo desde España
ReplyDeleteI like to read your posts, but the ads are overwhelming.
ReplyDelete你好！
ReplyDeleteWise words! Take care, enjoy your day and the week ahead.
ReplyDeleteThank you for visiting my blog .Thanks a lot .
ReplyDeleteThank you so much all of you for your appreciating
ReplyDeleteBoa tarde e uma excelente quarta-feira, com muita paz e saúde.
ReplyDeleteOlá.
ReplyDeleteCriar expectativas em relação a pessoas é um passo certo para a decepção. Chega um momento em que aprendemos que as pessoas são falhas, erram, mentem, discordam, mudam de ideia...então é sempre ir bom devagar com as expectativas que dependam de terceiros.
Hola guapísima, muchas gracias por el post, muy buenas reflexiones. Feliz día.
ReplyDeleteA beautiful picture!! Thanks so much for stopping by!!
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Deb
Debbie-Dabble Blog
Que texto profundo e necessário.
ReplyDeleteVocê conseguiu traduzir a natureza frágil e ao mesmo tempo inevitável das expectativas, lembrando que elas nascem até antes de sabermos o que a vida é. Gostei muito da forma como trouxe o equilíbrio: não se trata de negar o que sentimos, mas de aprender a lidar com a dor que surge quando algo não se cumpre. A lembrança de que o amor verdadeiro dispensa expectativas é, para mim, o ponto mais luminoso porque onde há amor, há aceitação, e onde há aceitação, há paz.
😘
Fernanda
im afraid I have high expectations despite being old! disappointments are inevitable of course.
ReplyDeleteThank you for visiting me. We have had high expectations here in the USA but at this time they are being destroyed by an authoritarian government moving faster than we can even react to, our democracy is vanishing before our very eyes. It is a sad time for many of us.
ReplyDeleteQuerida amiga, coincido contigo
ReplyDelete♥Abrazos y te dejo un besito♥
Qué tengas un Feliz Día.
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Pace e bene per tutto il mondo!!
ReplyDeleteTener expectativas es humano...
ReplyDeleteMuy interesante.
¡Feliz día, Rajani Rehana!
Nice post and beautiful photos
ReplyDeleteWhat a sincere reflection… accepting and managing our expectations is a path to serenity. You invite us to view life with love and tolerance, leaving space for what truly matters. Big hugs!
ReplyDeleteÈ normale avere delle aspettative. A volte rischiamo di rimanere delusi , ma anche questo è normale. Vuol dire che, la prossima volta, non ci aspetteremo più niente da quella persona ! Saluti.
ReplyDeleteSer tolerante sempre bjs.
ReplyDeleteMy problem right now is having high expectations for myself and my new job! It's very difficult and I hope to overcome it.
ReplyDeleteLas fotos hermosas el texto, real, no siempre vemos cumplirse las espectativas pero si hemos de mantener la esperanza en alto
ReplyDeleteUn abrazo
Profunda reflexión, gracias por compartirla.
ReplyDeleteBesos
Yes, expectations can be problematic, especially when they're unrealistic. Disappointment will appear in every life. It's important to be able to deal with this in a healthy way.
ReplyDeleteTexto muito bem redigido. Parabéns. A tolerância, como a expectativa, do jeito que vejo, é a base de uma sociedade pacífica, justa e inclusiva. Muito bom.
ReplyDeleteUnconditional love is rare. You get it from dogs. Hopefully your parents and maybe your children. From anyone else, you have to earn it. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I think expectations are fair.
ReplyDeleteWise words.
ReplyDeleteThank you for visiting my blog, Rajani - so nice to visit here as well!
ReplyDeleteQuerida amiga, te deseo de corazón un
ReplyDelete♥¡Feliz inicio de semana!♥
♥Abrazos y te dejo besitos♥
♥♥♥♥♥♥GRACIAS♥♥♥♥♥♥
La violenza è la parte nascosta del nostro essere e con l'amore si può farla sempre tacere.
ReplyDeleteNoi piccoli esseri umani ne facciamo assai meno della violenza che poi tra i popoli diventa guerra non la vorremmo ma siamo gli ultimi a decidere.
Che la pace sia con te
Beautiful post 😍 Have a nice day 😊
ReplyDeleteÉ uma das coisas que a idade nos ensina, Rajani: dimensionar as nossas expectativas, reduzindo as decepções. Meu abraço, boa semana!
ReplyDeleteExpectativas são como sonhos: iluminam a nossa vida, enquanto brilham... mesmo que possa ser amargo o despertar! Meu abraço, boa semana.
ReplyDeleteGracias bella por tus comentarios, que tengas una hermosa semana
ReplyDeleteBesos
Simply fantastic blog
ReplyDeleteConcordo com você. Beijos, muitos.
ReplyDeletelinda flor linda cor obrigada pela sua vesita desejo uma linda e feliz semana bjs saude
ReplyDeleteConcordo plenamente com as tuas palavras!
ReplyDeleteBjxxx,
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Gracias por visitar mis blog.
ReplyDeleteQue tengas un hermoso día
Besos
Ciao Rajani, è giusta la tua riflessione. Avere troppe aspettative non aiuta nelle relazioni. Bisognerebbe vivere accettando di più gli altri per come sono! Un caro saluto!
ReplyDeleteEs realmente interesante como abordas el tema de las espectativas. sinceramente los humanos somos destructores de esas cosas, estamos acostumbrados a defraudar y ser defraudados.
ReplyDeletemuchas gracias por tu visita a mi blog.
saludos grande
Stopping having expectations about life is the first step towards a freer life...
ReplyDeleteKisses!!
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Buen fin de semana.
ReplyDeleteWise words. Expectations can really shape our emotions... both good and bad. Learning to let go and focus on inner peace is so important...
ReplyDeleteSão Reflexões magníficas para serem "mastigadas" lentamente. Post positivo. Parabéns.
ReplyDeleteBeijo,
SOL da Esteva
Tener claro primero
ReplyDeletelo que es bueno para neustro corazón y así guiar el pensamiento...
el amor es transversal.
Abrazos.
Muito bom. Gosto das suas postagens. Parabéns!
ReplyDeleteRajane,
ReplyDeleteque reflexão linda e profunda sobre expectativas! Realmente, elas fazem parte da nossa natureza humana, mas é na compreensão dos limites próprios e alheios que encontramos serenidade.
Concordo plenamente: onde há amor genuíno, as expectativas se suavizam, dando lugar à tolerância, à paciência e à entrega. Meditação, presença junto aos que amamos e autoconhecimento são verdadeiros bálsamos para lidar com as frustrações inevitáveis.
Obrigada por compartilhar essas palavras tão sábias .
🙏🏻
Fernanda
Querida amiga, paso a desearte un feliz fin de semana, se feliz.
ReplyDeleteAbrazos y te dejo un besito
Pretty flower.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful blog.
ReplyDeleteGreetings Irma
Interesting blog
ReplyDeleteEl amor es mas complejo de lo que creemos a veces creamos expectativas sobre cosas de las que no tenemos control pero necesitamos tener eso de vez en cuando.
ReplyDeleteFeliz inicio de semana.
Blog de Bea- recomendaciones, animes, juegos & más!.
Hi thank you for your visit!
ReplyDeleteUn punto di vista molto interessante che fa riflettere.
ReplyDeleteUn abbraccio 😘
Escelente blog ameno e interesante enhorabuena
ReplyDeleteatentos saludos .jr.
I think when I was younger I had high expectations for everything, but over time that has diminished, because things don't always happen the way we expect or imagine. It's best to focus on what we can do for ourselves, on improving ourselves, instead of placing high expectations on others or on things we have no control over.
ReplyDeleteAll your comments are much appreciated and treasured.
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ReplyDeleteGracias bella por tus visitas, agradecida.
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