Where there is love, there is no place for expectations!
Having expectations is a normal human nature. Having expectations from others is not a bad thing.but one should be prepared for its consequences. Even a child has expectations from his parents that his hunger and thirst will be taken care of. As his life progresses,his expectations from family, society and government also increase. Not everyone can live up to our expectations, and when these are not fulfilled, it can have a negative impact on our quality. It can also change our outlook towards life. A person wants the best in every situation. And when this doesn't happen, disappointment arises. It is necessary to bear the pain of expectations being broken, and this should be seen as the result of karma of destiny. It is natural to accept that where there are expectations, there is suffering. Yet it is not difficult to adopt an open attitude towards the world. Before having expectations from others, we need to take care of our strength, ability and limitations. It is also true that it is better to stay away from a place where your expectations are not valued. With age, expectations also reduce and everything seems futile. Keeping yourself busy, spending time with loved ones and being absorbed in meditation is the solution to this sorrow.
Where there is love, there is no place for expectations. Be tolerant.
Tolerância sempre é necessária!
ReplyDeleteE nem sempre as expectativas viram realidades! beijos, chica
Unas perspectivas y reflexiones sumamente interesantes sin duda alguna, que nos ayudan a ver posibles situaciones desde un ángulo mayormente realista. Saludos desde Mallorca.
ReplyDeleteWell written and lovely photos :-D
ReplyDeleteSome people are prone to getting their hopes up very easily, so they can suffer greater disappointment.
ReplyDeleteI agree.
DeleteEstar cercano a quienes nos son cercanos es saludable y tratarlos con tolerancia ayuda a pasar sus malos ratos. Un abrazo. Carlos
ReplyDeleteOh very beautiful photo
ReplyDeleteOgólnie w życiu warto podchodzić z pewną dozą dystansu i nie za dużych oczekiwań. Łapać to co daje nam los.
ReplyDeleteDziękuję za komentarz ♥ Również pozdrawiam ♥
Angelika
It is difficult to set aside our expectations, I think, and greet people with warm and open hearts. But it is so important.
ReplyDeletePer fortuna fin da piccolo sono stato abituato a non farmi mai molte aspettative su nulla ma le esperienze positive le gradisco sempre con piacere e ne gioisco.
ReplyDeleteUn caro saluto.
Coucou ma douceur
ReplyDeleteje te souhaite , une bonne jsoirée et une bonne fin de semaine , après un épisode de gros orages mais sans dégâts chez moi le soleil est revenue ici dans le haut de France , prends bien soin de toi .
Mille doux bisous du ♥
Love that yellow flower.
ReplyDeleteUne belle fleur!
ReplyDeleteEn prenant de l'âge on modère ses espoirs et ses attentes, effectivement !
Très bonne soirée
joli post ,;
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Bonsoir
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à demain
passe une bonne soirée
🪶 Hello, when opens on Monday,
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Wishes it's natural in humans...
ReplyDeleteAnna
Wishing for and wanting is such a natural process.
ReplyDeleteHola guapísima, un buen post y unas fotos preciosas. Feliz día. Besos
ReplyDeleteWe should never have high expectations of anything.
ReplyDeleteThis is such a thoughtful and profound reflection.
ReplyDeleteExpectations are indeed a natural part of being human, but learning how to live with them — and without them — is a lifelong journey. I especially resonate with the idea that where there is love, there should be no expectations. Love, in its purest form, asks for nothing in return.
Thank you for this gentle reminder.
One must be tolerant of oneself and others, it is said wisely.
DeleteBeautiful blog
ReplyDeleteGood and wise statement
ReplyDeleteGreetings
Hm. I will respectfully disagree. I have high expectations of myself and the people in my household. I think that helps them, and myself, to aim for something better than merely surviving. It gives us direction. Can those expectations be adjusted? Yes, and they are often. However, I'm a firm believer in setting plans/goals/hopes & then working like crazy to reach them. It's true, I can't expect things of people outside my control, and I think that's where we have to raise our hands and be okay with whatever comes.
ReplyDeleteMniej oczekiwań mniej rozczarowań ... :)
ReplyDeleteGreat post. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI try my best not to get upset over things that are outside my control, but I still have high expectations for myself, even though I'm a senior. Happy July!
ReplyDeletewell say ....
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ReplyDeleteAgree with you
Deletei agree.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this thoughtful post. Aloha!
ReplyDeleteQue postagem belíssima!
ReplyDeleteA flor amarela deu uma energia tão positiva 'as palavras, obrigada!
Linda a reflexão, um aprendizado para a vida!!
Tenha uma ótima semana!
Güzel blog.
ReplyDeleteQué reflexión tan profunda y verdadera. Las expectativas forman parte de nuestro camino como seres humanos, pero aprender a soltar las que nos duelen, aceptar nuestras propias limitaciones y las de los demás, es un acto de madurez y amor propio.
ReplyDeleteQuizás la clave esté ahí: en vivir con apertura, sin exigir tanto, pero sin perder la esperanza. Porque donde hay amor genuino, el dar deja de depender del recibir.
Gracias por compartir un pensamiento tan necesario.
Unmet expectations can be devastating for sure.
ReplyDeleteHaving expectations is part of the human experience. So is disappointment. It's how we evolve.
ReplyDeletethey say "expect nothing and you will never be disappointed'"!! i am a dreamer, i'm not sure i agree with that!!
ReplyDelete🪶 Hello,
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I believe that you harvest what you planted. Have a beautiful day!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for visiting my blog.
ReplyDelete**"Let go of places that don’t value you. With time, expectations fade, and what once mattered feels lighter. Fill your days with love, purpose, and peace—where these thrive, expectations disappear. Stay patient, stay kind."**
ReplyDeleteAgree with your words
DeleteYeah, finding peace often means letting go of expectations, especially where love is concerned.
ReplyDeleteGracias, por tu visita
ReplyDeleteSaludos
It's nicely written.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing.
Have a great week.
Olá!
ReplyDeleteObrigada por sua visita.
Saudação fraterna
Bom dia, Rajani.
ReplyDeleteÉ das mais belas e reflexivas as suas
ponderações. Um brinde aos leitores
que poderão absorver a ideia de que as
expectativas, não raras vezes, bloqueiam
a harmonia de determinadas relações.
Aplausos e um terno abraço.
You only write "Great blog" and "Please read my post" in your comments. I don't like it. If you read my posts, you would write different words. So I'm sure you never read my posts, so I won't read yours.
ReplyDeleteO amor, traz-nos muitas vezes ilusões e utopias. E nesse contexto, criamos por vezes expectativas que saem goradas. O que cria um ambiente desagradável à relação.
ReplyDeleteÓtimo texto, amiga.
Gostei de ler.
Abraço e bom fim de semana.
Mário Margaride
Hello!
ReplyDeleteVery good reflection.
Best regards.
I think humans are hard wired to have expectations as you said- and then there is hopeful ones...those are the tricky ones. Flower is beautiful!
ReplyDeleteTolerance towards others. So important and really, so simple.
ReplyDeleteThank you =)
ReplyDeleteNice post. I love the yellow flower <3
Merci de votre visite et com''
ReplyDeleteBonne semaine bisous
'Be tolerant.' Wise advise.
ReplyDeletecoucou bonjour merci pour ta visite sa fait plaisir
ReplyDeletetres beau blogs bon mardi bisou thérèse
Yes, the destruction of having expectations is sometimes real.
ReplyDeleteThe flower is very beautiful.
ReplyDeleteGood reflection and beautiful pictures.
ReplyDeleteThe expectations, from my perspective, are a waste of time, energy and emotions.
ReplyDeleteSo we must let go all our expectations if we want an equilibrium in our life. And indeed,
love could be a solution.
All the best, Rajani.
I think that meeting your own expectations can also be a source of happiness, while failing to do so can lead to frustration.
ReplyDeleteA different perspective on this matter allows us to see the benefits.
Best regards.🤗
Olá!
ReplyDelete"Precisamos cuidar de nossas forças, habilidades e limitações. "
Se não cuidamos, ficamos à mercê do outro.
Tenha dias abençoados!
Abraços fraternos
Jag är ju gammal - fyller 80 i morgon - så jag har inga större förväntningar. Bara förhoppning att man får leva några år till och att man inte får alzheimer!
ReplyDeleteKRAM-Susie