Showing posts from April, 2022

If you lose yourself, what will you win?

The ability to live life the way you want, with the people you choose and in the circumstances you choose,  doing only the things that make you happy. when you decide on your definition of success in every area, you will immediately see what things you need to do more or less to make your life ideal.  Usually the biggest thing stopping you from moving forward in the direction of your dreams are you favorite excuses and lack of self-discipline. it's not that you don't know what to know this very well.  But what you should do, whether you feel like doing it or not, you don't do it because you don't have the discipline.  Success is possible only when you over come your natural tendency to choose the easy path.  Lasting success is only possible if you discipline yourself to work hard for a long time, because without self-discipline, hard work is directionless. 

Expectations increase dissatisfaction !!

You must have often heard someone around you saying that such a person did not live up to their expectations or he is very disappointed with such a thing. There are some people who start expecting from themselves beyond their capabilities and then when they are not able to fulfill expectations then they start being unhappy with themselves. It means to say that the heavy burden of expectations snatches away the happiness of human beings. Whether those expectations are from someone else or from yourself. But when we set our expectations with reality in mind , disappointment is rarely encountered. In fact , the happiness that suddenly happens when something good happens,it doesn't meet the expected things, because on the occasion of sudden happiness, you would not have set your expectations. Don't expect impractical things from anyone.