Myexperience

Not all wounds of the mind are visible. External wounds heal, but internal wounds take time to heal. As soon as we are hurt a little , our sadness starts deepening again. The mind is tired,it starts considering itself as a loser. Returning to work after a period of restlessness and prolonged sadness is possible, with just a little preparation. The world of the mind is as simple as it is complex . Sometimes the roots of mental health lie amidst feeling of frustration and hopelessness. Shakes too much. Whether at home or outside ,it becomes necessary  to keep distance from everyone for sometime, in order to maintain the deteriorating balance of emotions.

If asked are you happy with your life, what would be your answer? For most of the people the answer is 'NO'. There is a lot in our life which we do not like and which we want to change. What is that thing that increases our distance from happiness. The biggest mantra to live the life you want is to do whatever you say. Whether it is a promise made to someone else or a promise made to oneself. In fact, when we are serious about keeping our promises,we actually start getting serious about life.This habit not only strengths relationship but also takes you closer to your dreams. Promise what you have the ability to deliver deliver. If the sailor does not know which way he is going , the direction of the wind doesn't matter.It means that you should know in which works to put your energy.

If you want to attain God, then don't run away from the world. God never has any relation with fugitives.   Courage is needed to accept the challenge. Agreed that in courage one has to fall, one has to get hurt, but that is the only way. You ever see, most of the children from very comfortable homes are not intelligent. because there is no challenge. Intelligent children come from homes where there is a lot of struggle. If there is a lot of protection and there  is no struggle, then the spine is broken. The more you struggle, the stronger your spine becomes. I do not ask you to run away from the world, but to wake up from the world.

The day you learn to walk among thorns and walk among thorns and don't prick thorns, just understand that day that you have become worthy. Wisdom is born out of struggle.             Reward comes from accepting life's challenges.  Losing, falling, rising. Abuses will be said thousand times, you will get angry. With a thousand times of experience, you will understand that it is futile to burn yourself. Someone else is abusing, it is futile to punish oneself. A day will come when bad words will not cause anger within you.  The same day a thorn within you will become a flower. The peace you will get on that day, if you become calm here amidst the bad words, then your peace will have liveliness. 

Make your life like a heaven, in which only those people can enter, who can take care of each other. Can hear each other and stay connected to each other. You are not the only one responsible for saving others. It is not your job to explain to others every moment, at every step. It is true that you want people to like you, but not at the cost where you start neglecting yourself. You are the maker of your own destiny and you have as much right to be loved by others as you do to others. Lead yourself toward good relationships. Spend time with people who understand you, want to be with you.  You will see things changing very soon. 

We try to keep everyone happy. Our desire to get the company of others increase so much that we do not care about our own happiness. But, sometimes it has to be understood that now is the time to walk away from those people who do not love you. It is possible that this is the most difficult time of your life and it is also possible that it is also the most important for you. What to do in such a situation, stop loving those people who are not ready to understand your love or stop understanding those people who do not want to change themselves. We want everyone to be with us, but it doesn't happen. Even if the people you have spent the most time with leave you, disrespect you, or cut you out of their lives, you still go out of your way to be loved by them.      So somewhere you are not respecting yourself. It is important to understand that you are not for everyone and not everyone is worthy of you.