Myexperience

It is important to set your own limits,but it is not right to imprison yourself in too many limits. Avoiding always socializing with others or considering entertainment as a waste of time, alienates us from others and leads us to loneliness. Many things may be really unnecessary, but finding meaning in everything was not needed. it is better that we move from a calm mind to a balance.

Jealousy is not a mere thought within us. Over time it becomes a process of our living. All the time, there is a comparison going on in our mind. Why others have more? Why others better than us? This fever of comparison, clinging to the body,stifles the power of thinking. Our confidence weakens and only complaints from life remain. The day when comparison becomes unnecessary, even jealousy does not find a place to live within us.

Some people are so emotional that they take even the smallest things to heart. Such people do not have control over their emotions. Feelings like irritability, annoyance,anger,guilt and fear surround them all the time. These feelings of theirs keep them prisoner and they are not able to live freely . So just listen to yourself and live freely.

Whether to apologize or forgive,it is easy as well as difficult.  Admitting one's own fault and forgiving the fault of others is what makes us human. Forgiveness is neither a bargain nor a trick. Forgiveness is that surface of the mind, where both the one who accepts his mistake and the one who forgives wins. Forgiveness makes us better.

You have to make efforts to fulfill your desires. But it's not good to be restless to get only one thing. Balance has to be maintained. You have to move ahead by explaining your mind. Then many times even after doing everything, the hands are left empty.it is said that whatever is made for us will reach us, even if it is buried under two mountains. What is not for us, even if it is buried between your lips,is left behind.

As long as there is breath, everyone is alive. But, when some of our dreams, our desires, our voice and style are associated with living,then our life becomes something else. Then in that life no one else,we have our own glimpse. My aim is not only to survive,I also have to be successful. And I would love to do it with some  passion, compassion, some humor and in my own style.