How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?

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How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?  Emotions arise from thinking, but emotions are deeper and more effective than thoughts and resolutions. To keep the mind happy and life successful, always having good feelings and good wishes towards everyone is the best management of emotions. In practical terms, no matter what feelings someone has, we should behave with good intentions towards him. His behavior or conversation should not influence , rather we should behave with him in such a way that our good conduct becomes effective on him. It is possible that his behavior may change,  because positive energy is more powerful than negativity. If we are disturbed by the unfair behavior of others and misbehave with them, then understand that our positive power has been defeated. 
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when the mind goes away from the feeling of regret and we stop thinking that we wish we lived in the past,it becomes much easier to face the challenges of life!!

When the mind goes away from the feeling of regret and we stop thinking that we wish we lived in the past, it becomes much easier to face the challenges of life. We focus on today.teaches something. It never happens that life goes on like a beautiful story.when we understand this,then living becomes easy. Then the scope of our thinking becomes so wide that small changes in life do not affect us easily. When we are not affected by small changes,then somewhere we prepare ourselves for big changes.

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  1. Tine de Jong11 July 2021 at 01:50

    Beautiful writing, Sometimes we are indeed too hard on ourselves. It is unrealistic to think that everything in your life will go as you planned. We cannot expect ourselves to always make the right choices. Because it is so difficult to let go, regret can indeed have a major negative impact on both body and mind. Our inner critic does not allow us to be mild about our mistakes. Regret is a powerful and valuable mechanism that affects our mind from time to time. And to then try to think in a other way, we can also correct our mind but takes time.

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  2. - R y k @ r d o -11 July 2021 at 02:45

    Texto muito instigante e salutar de ler. Não existe no mundo quem tenha feito sempre as escolhas certas. No erro está inserta aprendizagem da vida.
    .
    Domingo feliz.
    .
    Pensamentos e Devaneios Poéticos
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  3. São11 July 2021 at 03:08

    I think like Rykardo!

    Salut!

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  4. Jenn Jilks11 July 2021 at 03:58

    It is very difficult to let go of the past.

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  5. Christine11 July 2021 at 04:26

    Wise words

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  6. José maria11 July 2021 at 05:06

    Hola, bonito texto.
    Buen día.
    Saludos

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  7. Dionisio Álvarez T. (DAT)11 July 2021 at 05:23

    Hola Rajani Rehana, cuanto mencionas respecto al pasado se ha de considerar desde el recuerdo, pero sin el ansias de emularle...lo pasado, pasado está, y hemos de despertar al presente con todo el énfasis y la mejor voluntad...
    Un abrazo

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  8. Supriyadi11 July 2021 at 05:51

    Do you like Poem? your text so beautifull.

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  9. ellie11 July 2021 at 05:52

    nice words.

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  10. Stevenson Q11 July 2021 at 06:52

    Beautiful words to encourage and live by as this new week begins!

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  11. retazosmios11 July 2021 at 07:56

    Así esa amiga, muy buena filosofía la tuya.
    Cordiales saludos y buena semana.

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  12. Carmen Cardeñosa11 July 2021 at 08:09

    Fabulous post.
    A cordial greeting.

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  13. Divers and Sundry11 July 2021 at 08:11

    Inspiring. "Be here now" as the saying goes.

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  14. A.S.11 July 2021 at 08:11

    Life is a permanent change and we have to be prepared to keep up with this inevitable evolution.
    Everything happens very quickly today.

    A hug, Rejani

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  15. dsnake111 July 2021 at 08:11

    I like your message. Very positive! :)

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  16. Mariette VandenMunckhof-Vedder11 July 2021 at 08:46

    Dearest Rajani,
    Your blog looks nice but I hate it when every time wanting to click for placing a comment, a Pdf download pops up. Maybe that too is the reason that your blog only yields 26 when checking for its webpresence...
    Hugs,
    Mariette

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  17. carlos perrotti11 July 2021 at 10:08

    Inspiring prose, friend. Life is risk. Change is constant...

    Hugs.

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  18. Marianela Beauty Tips11 July 2021 at 10:48

    Good text

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  19. Elephant's Child11 July 2021 at 11:15

    We can learn from our regrets as well - but shouldn't dwell on them.

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  20. Bill11 July 2021 at 11:19

    Well witten wise words!

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  21. Amy Johnson11 July 2021 at 12:42

    Great advice!

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  22. Mª Jesús Muñoz11 July 2021 at 12:50

    Es importante perdonar y pensar que cada día empieza la vida...Tus palabras nos hacen reflexionar y darnos cuenta de que todos en la vida sufrimos y hay que seguir adelante con esperanza.
    Gracias por tus comentarios.
    Mi abrazo y mi cariño.

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  23. EL DESVAN DE VICENSI11 July 2021 at 13:47

    Bonito texto para reflexionar un buen rato. Un beso y feliz semana

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  24. Amélia 11 July 2021 at 14:18

    Bonito texto, é impossível faxer as escolhas certas, com os erros a gente vai aprendendo ..
    Bjs

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  25. MARIPA11 July 2021 at 14:25

    Palavras sábias que nos deixam a pensar... a Vida, cada dia que passa, vai-nos dando ensinamentos .
    Bem haja pela sua visita.
    Um abraço.

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  26. Porventura escrevo11 July 2021 at 15:19

    Beautiful and amazing post

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  27. Grandmabeckyl.blogspot11 July 2021 at 16:18

    Another good post about life. Life does change when we least expect it. We need to go forward and remember God gives us strength when needed. We need to care for people when they need help as well. Have a good day!

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  28. VALERIAAA11 July 2021 at 16:23

    ¡Hola! Me ha encantado, me ha parecido una gran inspiración justo ahora que me siento super desmotivada.
    Besosss ♥

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  29. Greg11 July 2021 at 17:30

    Great sentiment. I know I tend to look back a lot, and that can hinder us moving forwards for sure. Nice posting!

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  30. J.P. Alexander11 July 2021 at 17:54

    Una gran reflexión cuando uno deja el quizá pudo ser así y te atreves hacer lo que sueñas las cosas son mejor. Te mando un beso y te deseo una buena semana

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  31. Ирина Полещенко11 July 2021 at 18:47

    I agree with you 😘! Thank you for the post!

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  32. Maggid11 July 2021 at 19:54

    Your words are truly insightful.
    AND - the artwork is stunning!
    Thank you Very Much!!

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  33. Jim12 July 2021 at 00:20

    Thanks for visiting my blog.

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  34. Ingrid Zetterberg12 July 2021 at 02:36

    Los cambios siempre nos afectan de alguna forma Rajani. La mayoría de las personas somos seres rutinarios, al menos a mí me encanta mi rutina....y los cambios bruscos no me gustan. Un abrazo. (Cuando visites mi blog por favor traduce del español al inglés mis poemas, y podrás darme tu opinión, me encantaría que así lo hicieras. Un abrazo.

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  35. Ingrid Zetterberg12 July 2021 at 02:38


    Changes always affect us in some way, Rajani. Most of us are routine beings, at least I love my routine ... and I don't like sudden changes. A hug. (When you visit my blog please translate my poems from Spanish into English, and you can give me your opinion, I would love for you to do so. A hug.

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  36. RO12 July 2021 at 02:40

    What a wonderful and thought-provoking post. Also, thanks so much for stopping by to visit. Hugs, RO

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  37. Margaret D12 July 2021 at 03:33

    Good words - me I just take it in my stride.

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  38. María Gómez12 July 2021 at 03:36

    Such a beautiful text! Sometimes it is really important to think about ourselves and let go of our self restraining thoughts. Have a lovely week!

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  39. Graça Pires12 July 2021 at 03:37

    Viver cada dia como se fosse o único. Gostei da reflexão.
    Uma boa semana com muita saúde.
    Um beijo.

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  40. Filifionka12 July 2021 at 06:22

    Wise words 😊!!!

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  41. Rhodesia12 July 2021 at 06:30

    Thanks so much for your visit and the comment much appreciated. keep well Diane

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  42. Ygraine12 July 2021 at 06:49

    Such beautiful and inspiring words. Yes, we all need to see the bigger picture if we are to live happier and more fulfilled lives!😊😊
    Have a good day, dear friend!

    Big Hugs xxx

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  43. Rocío G. Tizón12 July 2021 at 07:07

    Awesome!
    Regards.

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  44. Rita12 July 2021 at 07:22

    One thing we can count on in life is change. :)

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  45. Luísa Fernandes12 July 2021 at 07:30

    Olá, boa tarde!
    Um belíssimo texto reflexivo e inteligente. O passado e o presente são elos de ligação profundos. Pois, ninguém tem uma varinha mágica para ligar e desligar quando muito lhe apraz. O futuro a Deus pertence e o interlocutor da historia pode ser cada um de nós. Então espalhemos boa semente, para que a colheita seja sã. Gostei da mensagem.
    Um bem-haja, pela sua visita.
    Abraço de paz e bem.
    Luísa Fernandes




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  46. Fá menor12 July 2021 at 07:57

    Muito belas e verdadeiras palavras!
    Gostei muito. Grata.
    O passado só nos serve na medida em que nos ensina algo para o presente, projectando o futuro.

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  47. Jorge Donato12 July 2021 at 08:19

    Estupenda reflexión...saludos

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  48. Mariazita12 July 2021 at 09:08

    Uma excelente reflexão.
    É difícil desligarmo-nos do passado. Ele deve servir de ensinamento para o presente e o futuro.
    Gostei muito.

    Desejo uma semana feliz
    Beijinhos
    MARIAZITA / A CASA DA MARIQUINHAS

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  49. Rawknrobyn.blogspot.com12 July 2021 at 10:09

    The moment is all we have.
    Take care.

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  50. Ananka12 July 2021 at 10:42

    This is so true. :-D

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  51. Mundos Distintos12 July 2021 at 10:55

    Sabías palabras. Tienes toda la razón. 🙆🏻‍♀️✨

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  52. Diana12 July 2021 at 11:46

    It is true but sometimes it's hard to do.

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  53. Juvenal Nunes12 July 2021 at 12:00

    Aprendemos com as nossas vivências e, por isso, devemos guardar sempre as memórias do passado.
    Bela imagem.
    Abraço amigo.
    Juvenal Nunes

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  54. Felix the Crafty Cat12 July 2021 at 12:34

    Such great words and feeling. Thank you for visiting me too. Happy thoughts, Angela xXx

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  55. Liz A.12 July 2021 at 14:12

    I don't know. Sometimes it's hard to look forward, especially if you don't want what's coming.

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  56. Beatriz Martín12 July 2021 at 14:25

    Profunda y entrañable texto, un saludo desde mi brillo del mar

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  57. O Árabe12 July 2021 at 14:28

    Belo e verdadeiro texto! Aquele que insiste em prender-se ao passado, não consegue viver o presente; menos ainda, construir o futuro! Meu abraço, boa semana.

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  58. Lowcarb team member12 July 2021 at 15:19

    Good to read these words :)

    All the best Jan

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  59. manuela barroso12 July 2021 at 15:35

    O passado é o chão , em parte, da nossa sabedoria. Mas nada se repete porque o tempo não o permite na sua essência. Resta - nos viver o melhor possível o presente, uníco momento que nos pertence. O resto é curto demais para dar relevância aos pequenos nadas a que tantas vezes damos demasiada importância.
    Muito, muito pertinente o seu excerto !
    Beijinhos

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  60. Gumer Paz12 July 2021 at 15:35

    Your words are a good basis to meditate on it, without a doubt.
    A greeting from Spain :))

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  61. Te amando, irei pela eternidade. 愛12 July 2021 at 15:37

    Olá Rajani Rehana...
    gratidão por compartilhar tão lindo texto que amei ler 🙏
    Amor, alegria e muitas realizações é o que sinceramente
    desejo para todos os momentos da sua vida ,feliz semana ❣️
    Com meu carinho abraços 💖🌷🙏

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  62. Sakuranko12 July 2021 at 15:39

    I don´t want to live in the past I prefer the present

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  63. JuanRa12 July 2021 at 15:52

    Thank you for visiting my photobook and for your comment.

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  64. Reflexos Espelhando Espalhando Amig12 July 2021 at 17:03

    Adorável publicação!
    Bjins de boa semana
    CatiahoAlc.

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  65. Amelia12 July 2021 at 17:31

    Very good reminder! So true!

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  66. Vivì12 July 2021 at 21:27

    Un bel articolo...complimenti Rajani!

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  67. Las Locuras de Ahyde12 July 2021 at 23:09

    Hola! me gustaron mucho tus palabras. Feliz dia. Besos

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  68. Vae13 July 2021 at 00:16

    have a nice day! thanks for stopping by

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  69. yo leo Novela13 July 2021 at 00:39

    Genial post

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  70. Serena Miles13 July 2021 at 00:46

    hola
    bonitas palabras, sobre todo positivas
    Besotesssssssssssss

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  71. pequicosas13 July 2021 at 00:56

    Beautiful!!!
    =^.^=

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  72. Romy Matthias13 July 2021 at 01:36

    Veränderungen und Loslassen gehören zum Leben einfach dazu. LG Romy

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  73. Federica Simoni13 July 2021 at 02:43

    Grazie per la visita al mio blog. Complimenti per l'articolo. Buona giornata

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  74. Alice (scrAPpamondo)13 July 2021 at 03:12

    Beautiful words and image

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  75. Maria Rodrigues13 July 2021 at 03:39

    Excellent and wise reflection.
    The important thing is to learn from past events, but live the present as best as possible.

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  76. Rajani Rehana13 July 2021 at 04:49

    Thank you for reading 😊

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  77. PerthDailyPhoto13 July 2021 at 05:06

    There is no point in dwelling on the past, if things need to change today is the best time to start ✨ Lovely image to go with your words Rajani.

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  78. Nancy Chan13 July 2021 at 05:28

    Wise words. Have a beautiful day.

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  79. Ester13 July 2021 at 05:56

    Debería venir a leerte todos los días porque se respira paz. pero el verano me hace ir despacio y apenas visito a los amigos. Gracias y un abrazo

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  80. Fatyma Silva13 July 2021 at 07:00

    Do passado devemos guardar as boas lembranças e o aprendizado, é vida que segue e cada dia é um novo recomeço.

    Querida Rajani, seja sempre bem vinda.
    É um prazer te receber em meu blog.
    Abraço!

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  81. Jeanie13 July 2021 at 07:35

    Your posts are so very thoughtful and provide much to contemplate. Thank you for visiting my blog.

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  82. Bob Bushell13 July 2021 at 08:32

    Beautiful image and profile writing.

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  83. Kathy Leonia13 July 2021 at 09:17

    so pretty image!

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  84. Tinta en las olas13 July 2021 at 11:23

    Hermosas palabras. Saludos

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  85. Catalin13 July 2021 at 11:39

    Life is a constant learning.

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  86. Giorgio13 July 2021 at 12:10

    Great post! You're right, as we have to be ready for challenges.

    Thanks for visiting my blog!

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  87. sandy13 July 2021 at 12:39

    This is so true - thank you ...good reminder. I always found staying Present - was the best place to be. Then the Source of all - Universe can move in miraculous ways and make the path clear.

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  88. Rafaela Biscassi13 July 2021 at 12:58

    Nice Words.

    www.paginasempreto.blogspot.com.br

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  89. Maty Marín. Viviendo. 13 July 2021 at 15:43

    Beautiful! Thanks a lot for your visit ti muy blog. I am here and very happy. 💙💙💙💙

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  90. Maty Marín. Viviendo. 13 July 2021 at 15:45

    Oh, sorry... "To my"...

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  91. Irma14 July 2021 at 00:26

    Beautiful picture and wise words.
    Greetings Irma

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  92. Saruski14 July 2021 at 00:41

    Nice dear!!!

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  93. Beebeebabs14 July 2021 at 04:13

    Nice - thanks for sharing

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    1. Recomenzar14 July 2021 at 05:07

      Rajani Rehana said...
      Your blog is amazing.

      Lo unico que buscas es que te lean

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  95. Maré Viva14 July 2021 at 07:25

    Life is today and now, it's not worth looking at the past!

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  96. CHARO14 July 2021 at 07:35

    Me ha gustado mucho el escrito y así es cómo deberíamos actuar.La imagen es preciosa.Besicos y gracias por comentar en mi blog

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  97. El Rincón de Mònica 0514 July 2021 at 07:49

    Hola guapa, un texto precioso. Feliz día. Besos

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  98. Red Rose Alley14 July 2021 at 08:27

    I like how you write small phrases using simplicity. Many people go on and on
    about the subject, and you get the point across with a few powerful words.
    Thank you for visiting us often, I appreciate it very much.

    ~Sheri

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  99. Rajani Rehana14 July 2021 at 08:35

    Thank you for reading 😊

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  100. Galilea14 July 2021 at 08:37

    Me encanta tu reflexión. Aceptar los errores cometidos y aprender de la experiencia para mirar hacia adelante. Auto flajelarse te debilita y mina la confianza en uno mismo.

    Un placer leerte.

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  101. yessykan14 July 2021 at 13:22


    I like how you've given a little intro at the start. Truly amazing work there Rajani and congratulations!

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  102. BookLover14 July 2021 at 14:32

    Hello!! such a beautiful post, thanks for sharing.

    Blessings!!

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  103. Carla Guerrero - cg14 July 2021 at 15:30

    Me ha gustado mucho tu blog. Tus publicaciones son para reflexionar y muy bonitas. Me quedo por aquí leyendo. Un saludo, y gracias por haberte pasado por el mío.

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  104. Jovem Jornalista14 July 2021 at 17:04

    Beautiful post!

    Boa semana!

    Jovem Jornalista
    Instagram

    Até mais, Emerson Garcia

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  105. Lucia14 July 2021 at 17:42

    Live, learn...
    learn and live
    The cycle of life
    You don't live in the past, but learn from it.

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  106. Vivì14 July 2021 at 21:07

    Ciao con abbraccio e sorriso.

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  107. DVArtist14 July 2021 at 22:48

    This is beautiful. Thanks for stopping by.

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  108. TORO SALVAJE15 July 2021 at 06:00

    Fabulous blog

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  109. Yasmina Rosa Wölkchen15 July 2021 at 12:47

    Thank you =)

    Really nice post, I like it.

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  110. Erik16 July 2021 at 00:22

    Interesante.

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  111. Elisabete16 July 2021 at 02:42

    Wonderful photo!
    Keep safe.

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  112. Carol L16 July 2021 at 03:36

    Inspiration is all around us to always keep moving forward

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  113. Bemelë3216 July 2021 at 04:03

    ¡HOLA, HOLAAAAA!

    Escribes muy bien.

    ¡SE MUUUUUUUUUY FELIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIZ 🥰🥰🥰!

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  114. Raquel Loio16 July 2021 at 04:16

    I really like what you wrote. We must live like that, let the past go, let it go, to be always new, innocent, free!

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  115. J C16 July 2021 at 05:24

    Good advice. Thanks for your visit.

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  116. Jorge Sader Filho16 July 2021 at 05:32

    Estou de acordo com sua ideia. Obrigado pela sua vista.
    Carinho,
    Jorge

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  117. Bisma Rauf16 July 2021 at 07:04

    Thanks for sharing! Beautiful advice!

    Bisma Rauf / Instagram

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  118. Meulen17 July 2021 at 07:44

    Aprender a perdonarse es fundamental y eso se consigue de la mano de Dios.

    Abrazo.

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  119. Maggid17 July 2021 at 08:02

    This is such a 'Good Word.' Exactly the reminder I needed for today.
    Thank You! 💙

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  120. Maré Viva20 July 2021 at 02:07

    Thank you for the kind words left at Windward!
    Greetings

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  121. Grace 20 July 2021 at 15:57

    Excellent! Thanks!
    Live today; without forgetting the milestones that have been built for us in the journey of life. Without the melancholy of yesterday, but with gratitude.

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  123. hanna27 July 2021 at 20:18

    Muy interesante post!! Es una uena reflexión La vid cambia y debemos pensar enseguir adelante siempre. Beso

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