How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?

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How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?  Emotions arise from thinking, but emotions are deeper and more effective than thoughts and resolutions. To keep the mind happy and life successful, always having good feelings and good wishes towards everyone is the best management of emotions. In practical terms, no matter what feelings someone has, we should behave with good intentions towards him. His behavior or conversation should not influence , rather we should behave with him in such a way that our good conduct becomes effective on him. It is possible that his behavior may change,  because positive energy is more powerful than negativity. If we are disturbed by the unfair behavior of others and misbehave with them, then understand that our positive power has been defeated. 

when the mind goes away from the feeling of regret and we stop thinking that we wish we lived in the past,it becomes much easier to face the challenges of life!!

When the mind goes away from the feeling of regret and we stop thinking that we wish we lived in the past, it becomes much easier to face the challenges of life. We focus on today.teaches something. It never happens that life goes on like a beautiful story.when we understand this,then living becomes easy. Then the scope of our thinking becomes so wide that small changes in life do not affect us easily. When we are not affected by small changes,then somewhere we prepare ourselves for big changes.

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  1. Beautiful writing, Sometimes we are indeed too hard on ourselves. It is unrealistic to think that everything in your life will go as you planned. We cannot expect ourselves to always make the right choices. Because it is so difficult to let go, regret can indeed have a major negative impact on both body and mind. Our inner critic does not allow us to be mild about our mistakes. Regret is a powerful and valuable mechanism that affects our mind from time to time. And to then try to think in a other way, we can also correct our mind but takes time.

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  2. Texto muito instigante e salutar de ler. Não existe no mundo quem tenha feito sempre as escolhas certas. No erro está inserta aprendizagem da vida.
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    Domingo feliz.
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    Pensamentos e Devaneios Poéticos
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  3. I think like Rykardo!

    Salut!

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  4. It is very difficult to let go of the past.

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  5. Hola, bonito texto.
    Buen día.
    Saludos

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  6. Hola Rajani Rehana, cuanto mencionas respecto al pasado se ha de considerar desde el recuerdo, pero sin el ansias de emularle...lo pasado, pasado está, y hemos de despertar al presente con todo el énfasis y la mejor voluntad...
    Un abrazo

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  7. Do you like Poem? your text so beautifull.

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  8. Beautiful words to encourage and live by as this new week begins!

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  9. Así esa amiga, muy buena filosofía la tuya.
    Cordiales saludos y buena semana.

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  10. Fabulous post.
    A cordial greeting.

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  11. Inspiring. "Be here now" as the saying goes.

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  12. Life is a permanent change and we have to be prepared to keep up with this inevitable evolution.
    Everything happens very quickly today.

    A hug, Rejani

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  13. I like your message. Very positive! :)

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  14. Dearest Rajani,
    Your blog looks nice but I hate it when every time wanting to click for placing a comment, a Pdf download pops up. Maybe that too is the reason that your blog only yields 26 when checking for its webpresence...
    Hugs,
    Mariette

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  15. Inspiring prose, friend. Life is risk. Change is constant...

    Hugs.

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  16. We can learn from our regrets as well - but shouldn't dwell on them.

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  17. Es importante perdonar y pensar que cada día empieza la vida...Tus palabras nos hacen reflexionar y darnos cuenta de que todos en la vida sufrimos y hay que seguir adelante con esperanza.
    Gracias por tus comentarios.
    Mi abrazo y mi cariño.

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  18. Bonito texto para reflexionar un buen rato. Un beso y feliz semana

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  19. Bonito texto, é impossível faxer as escolhas certas, com os erros a gente vai aprendendo ..
    Bjs

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  20. Palavras sábias que nos deixam a pensar... a Vida, cada dia que passa, vai-nos dando ensinamentos .
    Bem haja pela sua visita.
    Um abraço.

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  21. Another good post about life. Life does change when we least expect it. We need to go forward and remember God gives us strength when needed. We need to care for people when they need help as well. Have a good day!

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  22. ¡Hola! Me ha encantado, me ha parecido una gran inspiración justo ahora que me siento super desmotivada.
    Besosss ♥

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  23. Great sentiment. I know I tend to look back a lot, and that can hinder us moving forwards for sure. Nice posting!

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  24. Una gran reflexión cuando uno deja el quizá pudo ser así y te atreves hacer lo que sueñas las cosas son mejor. Te mando un beso y te deseo una buena semana

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  25. I agree with you 😘! Thank you for the post!

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  26. Your words are truly insightful.
    AND - the artwork is stunning!
    Thank you Very Much!!

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  27. Thanks for visiting my blog.

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  28. Los cambios siempre nos afectan de alguna forma Rajani. La mayoría de las personas somos seres rutinarios, al menos a mí me encanta mi rutina....y los cambios bruscos no me gustan. Un abrazo. (Cuando visites mi blog por favor traduce del español al inglés mis poemas, y podrás darme tu opinión, me encantaría que así lo hicieras. Un abrazo.

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  29. Changes always affect us in some way, Rajani. Most of us are routine beings, at least I love my routine ... and I don't like sudden changes. A hug. (When you visit my blog please translate my poems from Spanish into English, and you can give me your opinion, I would love for you to do so. A hug.

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  30. What a wonderful and thought-provoking post. Also, thanks so much for stopping by to visit. Hugs, RO

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  31. Good words - me I just take it in my stride.

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  32. Such a beautiful text! Sometimes it is really important to think about ourselves and let go of our self restraining thoughts. Have a lovely week!

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  33. Viver cada dia como se fosse o único. Gostei da reflexão.
    Uma boa semana com muita saúde.
    Um beijo.

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  34. Thanks so much for your visit and the comment much appreciated. keep well Diane

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  35. Such beautiful and inspiring words. Yes, we all need to see the bigger picture if we are to live happier and more fulfilled lives!😊😊
    Have a good day, dear friend!

    Big Hugs xxx

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  36. One thing we can count on in life is change. :)

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  37. Olá, boa tarde!
    Um belíssimo texto reflexivo e inteligente. O passado e o presente são elos de ligação profundos. Pois, ninguém tem uma varinha mágica para ligar e desligar quando muito lhe apraz. O futuro a Deus pertence e o interlocutor da historia pode ser cada um de nós. Então espalhemos boa semente, para que a colheita seja sã. Gostei da mensagem.
    Um bem-haja, pela sua visita.
    Abraço de paz e bem.
    Luísa Fernandes




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  38. Muito belas e verdadeiras palavras!
    Gostei muito. Grata.
    O passado só nos serve na medida em que nos ensina algo para o presente, projectando o futuro.

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  39. Estupenda reflexión...saludos

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  40. Uma excelente reflexão.
    É difícil desligarmo-nos do passado. Ele deve servir de ensinamento para o presente e o futuro.
    Gostei muito.

    Desejo uma semana feliz
    Beijinhos
    MARIAZITA / A CASA DA MARIQUINHAS

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  41. Sabías palabras. Tienes toda la razón. 🙆🏻‍♀️✨

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  42. It is true but sometimes it's hard to do.

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  43. Aprendemos com as nossas vivências e, por isso, devemos guardar sempre as memórias do passado.
    Bela imagem.
    Abraço amigo.
    Juvenal Nunes

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  44. Such great words and feeling. Thank you for visiting me too. Happy thoughts, Angela xXx

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  45. I don't know. Sometimes it's hard to look forward, especially if you don't want what's coming.

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  46. Profunda y entrañable texto, un saludo desde mi brillo del mar

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  47. Belo e verdadeiro texto! Aquele que insiste em prender-se ao passado, não consegue viver o presente; menos ainda, construir o futuro! Meu abraço, boa semana.

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  48. Good to read these words :)

    All the best Jan

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  49. O passado é o chão , em parte, da nossa sabedoria. Mas nada se repete porque o tempo não o permite na sua essência. Resta - nos viver o melhor possível o presente, uníco momento que nos pertence. O resto é curto demais para dar relevância aos pequenos nadas a que tantas vezes damos demasiada importância.
    Muito, muito pertinente o seu excerto !
    Beijinhos

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  50. Your words are a good basis to meditate on it, without a doubt.
    A greeting from Spain :))

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  51. Olá Rajani Rehana...
    gratidão por compartilhar tão lindo texto que amei ler 🙏
    Amor, alegria e muitas realizações é o que sinceramente
    desejo para todos os momentos da sua vida ,feliz semana ❣️
    Com meu carinho abraços 💖🌷🙏

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  52. I don´t want to live in the past I prefer the present

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  53. Thank you for visiting my photobook and for your comment.

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  54. Adorável publicação!
    Bjins de boa semana
    CatiahoAlc.

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  55. Very good reminder! So true!

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  56. Un bel articolo...complimenti Rajani!

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  57. Hola! me gustaron mucho tus palabras. Feliz dia. Besos

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  58. have a nice day! thanks for stopping by

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  59. hola
    bonitas palabras, sobre todo positivas
    Besotesssssssssssss

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  60. Veränderungen und Loslassen gehören zum Leben einfach dazu. LG Romy

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  61. Grazie per la visita al mio blog. Complimenti per l'articolo. Buona giornata

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  62. Excellent and wise reflection.
    The important thing is to learn from past events, but live the present as best as possible.

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  63. There is no point in dwelling on the past, if things need to change today is the best time to start ✨ Lovely image to go with your words Rajani.

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  64. Wise words. Have a beautiful day.

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  65. Debería venir a leerte todos los días porque se respira paz. pero el verano me hace ir despacio y apenas visito a los amigos. Gracias y un abrazo

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  66. Do passado devemos guardar as boas lembranças e o aprendizado, é vida que segue e cada dia é um novo recomeço.

    Querida Rajani, seja sempre bem vinda.
    É um prazer te receber em meu blog.
    Abraço!

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  67. Your posts are so very thoughtful and provide much to contemplate. Thank you for visiting my blog.

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  68. Beautiful image and profile writing.

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  69. Life is a constant learning.

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  70. Great post! You're right, as we have to be ready for challenges.

    Thanks for visiting my blog!

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  71. This is so true - thank you ...good reminder. I always found staying Present - was the best place to be. Then the Source of all - Universe can move in miraculous ways and make the path clear.

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  72. Nice Words.

    www.paginasempreto.blogspot.com.br

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  73. Beautiful! Thanks a lot for your visit ti muy blog. I am here and very happy. 💙💙💙💙

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  74. Beautiful picture and wise words.
    Greetings Irma

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      Your blog is amazing.

      Lo unico que buscas es que te lean

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  76. Life is today and now, it's not worth looking at the past!

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  77. Me ha gustado mucho el escrito y así es cómo deberíamos actuar.La imagen es preciosa.Besicos y gracias por comentar en mi blog

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  78. Hola guapa, un texto precioso. Feliz día. Besos

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  79. I like how you write small phrases using simplicity. Many people go on and on
    about the subject, and you get the point across with a few powerful words.
    Thank you for visiting us often, I appreciate it very much.

    ~Sheri

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  80. Me encanta tu reflexión. Aceptar los errores cometidos y aprender de la experiencia para mirar hacia adelante. Auto flajelarse te debilita y mina la confianza en uno mismo.

    Un placer leerte.

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  81. I like how you've given a little intro at the start. Truly amazing work there Rajani and congratulations!

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  82. Hello!! such a beautiful post, thanks for sharing.

    Blessings!!

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  83. Me ha gustado mucho tu blog. Tus publicaciones son para reflexionar y muy bonitas. Me quedo por aquí leyendo. Un saludo, y gracias por haberte pasado por el mío.

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  84. Beautiful post!

    Boa semana!

    Jovem Jornalista
    Instagram

    Até mais, Emerson Garcia

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  85. Live, learn...
    learn and live
    The cycle of life
    You don't live in the past, but learn from it.

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  86. Ciao con abbraccio e sorriso.

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  87. This is beautiful. Thanks for stopping by.

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  88. Thank you =)

    Really nice post, I like it.

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  89. Inspiration is all around us to always keep moving forward

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  90. ¡HOLA, HOLAAAAA!

    Escribes muy bien.

    ¡SE MUUUUUUUUUY FELIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIZ 🥰🥰🥰!

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  91. I really like what you wrote. We must live like that, let the past go, let it go, to be always new, innocent, free!

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  92. Good advice. Thanks for your visit.

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  93. Estou de acordo com sua ideia. Obrigado pela sua vista.
    Carinho,
    Jorge

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  94. Aprender a perdonarse es fundamental y eso se consigue de la mano de Dios.

    Abrazo.

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  95. This is such a 'Good Word.' Exactly the reminder I needed for today.
    Thank You! 💙

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  96. Thank you for the kind words left at Windward!
    Greetings

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  97. Excellent! Thanks!
    Live today; without forgetting the milestones that have been built for us in the journey of life. Without the melancholy of yesterday, but with gratitude.

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  99. Muy interesante post!! Es una uena reflexión La vid cambia y debemos pensar enseguir adelante siempre. Beso

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