Myexperience

Acknowledge your fears, doubts and anxieties. Step up. Work on your goals until you achieve them. Along the way, you may encounter objections and ridicule. Those people are not necessarily bad, but the universe may have sent them to test you on how committed you are to your goals.

You must have often heard someone around you saying that such a person did not live up to their expectations or he is very disappointed with such a thing. There are some people who start expecting from themselves beyond their capabilities and then when they are not able to fulfill expectations then they start being unhappy with themselves. It means to say that the heavy burden of expectations snatches away the happiness of human beings. Whether those expectations are from someone else or from yourself. But when we set our expectations with reality in mind , disappointment is rarely encountered. In fact , the happiness that suddenly happens when something good happens,it doesn't meet the expected things, because on the occasion of sudden happiness, you would not have set your expectations. Don't expect impractical things from anyone.

Jealousy is not a mere thought within us. Over time it becomes a process of our living. All the time, there is a comparison going on in our mind. Why others have more? Why others better than us? This fever of comparison, clinging to the body,stifles the power of thinking. Our confidence weakens and only complaints from life remain. The day when comparison becomes unnecessary, even jealousy does not find a place to live within us.

Some people are so emotional that they take even the smallest things to heart. Such people do not have control over their emotions. Feelings like irritability, annoyance,anger,guilt and fear surround them all the time. These feelings of theirs keep them prisoner and they are not able to live freely . So just listen to yourself and live freely.

Whether to apologize or forgive,it is easy as well as difficult.  Admitting one's own fault and forgiving the fault of others is what makes us human. Forgiveness is neither a bargain nor a trick. Forgiveness is that surface of the mind, where both the one who accepts his mistake and the one who forgives wins. Forgiveness makes us better.

Desires must be there, but having desire alone is not enough. Similarly, not everything can be achieved just by having information. We have to act on our desires. You have to use your knowledge while doing the work. Till we do not work, either we talk in air or we are scared.if you keep sitting, you are afraid, you work, you are overcome by fear. People are sad about the situation, but don't do anything to improve it. At the same time, some people use their dedication and energy to make every day better.

When the mind goes away from the feeling of regret and we stop thinking that we wish we lived in the past, it becomes much easier to face the challenges of life. We focus on today.teaches something. It never happens that life goes on like a beautiful story.when we understand this,then living becomes easy. Then the scope of our thinking becomes so wide that small changes in life do not affect us easily. When we are not affected by small changes,then somewhere we prepare ourselves for big changes.

We all try to do better in every area of life. Trying to get good marks in student life, trying to perform better in job and taking care of everyone at family level are all our efforts for betterment.but sometimes it seems that the amount of effort we put in is not getting the results. As many successful people as there have been in the world, they have never given up on their desire to learn during their endeavours. To gain proficiency in a task,it is necessary to become a student and learn the nuances of that task.