How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?
How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind? Emotions arise from thinking, but emotions are deeper and more effective than thoughts and resolutions. To keep the mind happy and life successful, always having good feelings and good wishes towards everyone is the best management of emotions. In practical terms, no matter what feelings someone has, we should behave with good intentions towards him. His behavior or conversation should not influence , rather we should behave with him in such a way that our good conduct becomes effective on him. It is possible that his behavior may change, because positive energy is more powerful than negativity. If we are disturbed by the unfair behavior of others and misbehave with them, then understand that our positive power has been defeated.
good post
ReplyDeleteI prefer to spend time with myself and relax doing things that please me rather than trying to please others.
ReplyDeleteyes that is true :). A good pause is needed from time to time :)
ReplyDeleteHUgs!
Agreed
ReplyDeleteWell said! We need to balance our emotions , and that requires distancing from others, for a while.
ReplyDeleteInteresting post, sometimes it becomes necessary to keep distance...
ReplyDeleteBela imagem! Meu sonho é ver uma estrela cadente e fazer um pedido!
ReplyDeleteBoa semana!
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Nice post...
ReplyDeleteBoa tarde
ReplyDeleteA mente é complexa, precisamos de equilíbrio, um tempo para refletir e deixar que pensamentos de paz façam morada, um forte abraço.
Beautiful blog !
ReplyDeleteAs feridas sempre doem, imagem linda abraços
ReplyDeleteDear Rajani, if you feel overwhelmed, depressed or frustrated, practice EMDR regularly,
ReplyDeleteit is very good therapy. You will feel comforted.
Love xx
I agree with what you write
ReplyDeleteIt takes time and effort to be able to heal one's wounds.
I carry my wounds inside me
I gradually acquired the ability to control my emotional and physical reactions whenever I was exposed to images, sounds, or thoughts that reminded me of the past
Good morning from Greece with love
My words desapeared?
ReplyDeleteWounds hurt and leave scars. But never give the person that injured you one more second of your life by fearing them.
ReplyDeleteThis is a nice post, thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteΜπορεί οι πληγές να πονάνε, αλλά είναι στο χέρι μας να τις κλείσουμε, αφού το μυαλό είναι δικό μας και οι επιλογές δικές μας.
ReplyDeleteΑς αγαπήσουμε τον εαυτό μας και να τον αγκαλιάσουμε...το έχει ανάγκη!!
Να περνάς όμορφα με ότι κάνεις...χαιρετισμούς από Κρήτη -Ελλάδα.
Obrigada pela sua partilha!
ReplyDeleteTodos temos de ter um pouco de solidão e saber caminhar com ela!
Beijinhos!
🌸🌷🌸 Megy Maia
This is a good post! 🤓
ReplyDeleteSo true, you could be hurting inside and no one would know. Take care, enjoy your day and happy weekend.
ReplyDeletegreat...
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ReplyDeleteVery good and true post. Well done!
ReplyDeletePost interessante!
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ReplyDeleteInteresting post
ReplyDeleteagree with you~
ReplyDeleteVery good and thought provoking post! Very relatable as well.
ReplyDeleteÉ verdade, Rajani. Eu diria, mesmo, que todas elas são invisíveis; até para os nossos próprios olhos. E são as que mais dano nos causam! Meu abraço, boa semana.
ReplyDeleteVelmi zajímavé.
ReplyDeleteBuon ferragosto
ReplyDeleteTienes todísima razón pues las heridas que puedan ser sufridas por la mente muchas veces no se aprecian desde fuera, y se llevan calladamente dentro. Pero lo bueno del paso del tiempo es que la mayoría de estas heridas cicatrizan y se curan. Y lo cierto es que una persona debe intentar siempre ser plena, feliz y alegre en lo máximo posible.
ReplyDeleteLife isn't always easy and at times it's not going to be goodness in the mind due to health issues or financial problems, sadness. Sometimes just praying to God helps me through my days. More peaceful days even though waiting for the hard times to be gone.
ReplyDeleteAn interesting read, I ask God often to give me strength and guidance to get me through the day
ReplyDeleteTruth. I think that most wounds to the mind are invisible to many - which doesn't discount the pain they can cause.
ReplyDeleteGreat Post, very interesting. I agree
ReplyDeleteI agree, nice blog!
ReplyDeleteThis is a good post!
ReplyDeleteStay well. Find your own space. Keep balanced.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your words. Beautiful post.
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ReplyDeleteso very true...i did enjoy reading this!!
ReplyDeleteWonderful imagry to go with these wise words. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteVery trus, I agree with you.
ReplyDeleteCiao Rajani, è importante avere il proprio spazio per ritrovarsi e aver cura di sé, così poi si potrà star bene con gli altri. Un saluto a te!
ReplyDeleteTime heals all wounds.
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading
ReplyDeleteYour post got me thinking. Best wishes 🙂
DeleteVery wise are your words. In my opinion, the memory of bad things is very long. In my opinion, bad things can be forgiven, but never forgotten!
ReplyDeleteMy friend, I salute you!
Interesting.
ReplyDelete¡¡Tienes mucha razón en lo que planteas!!
ReplyDeleteLas heridas emocionales tardan mucho en sanar... y a veces, nunca llegan a curarse del todo....
Quizás, alejarse del mundo sea útil por un tiempo.... pero, (y esta es una opinión personal) no creo que sea una solución definitiva.
¡Saludos y gracias por la visita! =)
merci pour le commentaire sur mon blog
ReplyDeleteon a été gâtés cette année avec les étoiles
Toutes les blessures de l'esprit ne sont pas visibles c'est tout à fait vrai et comme les étoiles chacun peut suivre sa bonne étoile pour vivre enfin sereinement et apaisé !
ReplyDeleteTodo lo que no causa dolor, queda ahí, como un mal recuerdo el latencia. Por eso emerge el dolor que no ha sanado, para cuando menos se piensa, hacerse presente sensiblemente, y debemos prepararnos para buscar sacarlo de latencia y sanarlo, para evitar su manifestación constante. Un abrazo. Carlos
ReplyDeleteThis is very true. Some wounds take a long time to heal.
ReplyDeleteSo true and something i have had to do with a few family members!!! Thanks so much for your visits!! I hope you are having a great week!!
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Deb
Hello
ReplyDeleteRajani,
ReplyDeleteGrande verdade nessa publicação
que nos remete a muitas
reflexões.
Bjins de gratidão
CatiahoAlc.
I agree completely
ReplyDeleteI am not sure if a retreat is a solution. From my perspective we have to find a way
ReplyDeleteto keep calm our mind even in a noisy space. This is quite difficult, but there are masters
who can teach us. The mind is fabulous and we have to take care of it, by any means!
Thank you for the post. All the best to you!
Todo lo que nos ocasiona
ReplyDeletedolor, jamas se borra, siempre
nos queda, un placer visitarte.
Besitos dulces
Siby
I love your post, I agree with you. All the best.
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ReplyDeleteMuchas gracias Rajani por tu nueva entrega compartida.
ReplyDeleteLa psiquis o mente humana es compleja. El mundo de las emociones que también la conforman, mucho más. Saber controlarlas o manejarlas es vital para mantenerse saludable. Ellas pueden destruir un vínculo o deteriorar a la misma persona.
Lo que jamás debe hacerse es juzgar al otro por sus actitudes. Siempre hay una raíz o causa de cómo actúa determinada persona.
En pocas palabras has logrado llevar a la reflexión un asunto humano vital.
Te saludo con estima.:)
Estoy de acuerdo con lo que dice Kostas ante todo tu bien estar, se consecuente con nuestras decisiones, lo que nos causa dolor nunca se olvida pero hay que aprender a vivir con ello, sin que afecte al trascurso de tu vida
ReplyDeleteYes, that's true.
ReplyDeleteSiempre me ha gustado contemplar estrellas fugaces y siempre que puedo me desplazo para reunir las condiciones adecuadas y poder verlas. Momento en que me siento feliz.
ReplyDeleteSaludos cordiales.
É verdade amiga. Nem todas as feridas são visíveis. Mas apesar disso, são muitas vezes as mais dolorosas.
ReplyDeleteBom fim de semana.
Beijinhos.
Mário Margaride
http://poesiaaquiesta.blogspot.com
Our mind is weaker than our body, let's take care of it...
ReplyDeleteRealmente, somos um todo psicossomático, em que tudo se interliga e influencia. O nosso bem estar depende de um equilíbrio que nem sempre dominamos.
ReplyDeleteAbraço amigo.
Juvenal Nunes
I like your post. Congratulations. Great! 🌹
ReplyDeleteGood!
ReplyDeleteMuy buena tu publicación, sin dudas las heridas del alma tardan en sanar, pero la vida y los años me enseñaron que estar bien conmigo misma es fundamental para sanar.
ReplyDeleteSaludos.
PATRICIA F.
Buenos consejos.
ReplyDeleteGracias.
Nice write-up/post. I am reminded of the lyrics of the song, "Hard to say I'm sorry" - "Everybody needs a little time away....". Here's a link to a YouTube link to the song, if you like to listen to it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=liG0mxlZao0
ReplyDeleteThanks for visiting my blog.
Interesante texto, hay que sanar las heridas es necesario . La imagen es hermosa. Beso
ReplyDeletebalance of emotions...that's a main point
ReplyDeleteSo true.
ReplyDeleteFind your own space，take care !
ReplyDeleteMe siento identificada. Acertado relato
ReplyDeleteSaludos
Halo, saya dari blog yang beberapa waktu lalu Anda kunjungi.
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My pleasure .
ReplyDeleteLa soledad con uno mismo es necesaria. Escuchar nuestro interior es sanador.
ReplyDeleteMil besitos y feliz semana.
Reality
ReplyDeleteTrue. Thank you for visiting my blog.
ReplyDeleteAre you ok？
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ReplyDeletegreat post
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ReplyDeleteI just lost my husband so I am sad. I really needed to read your post today. I will focus on the positive and take on the day now. Thank you.
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ReplyDeletemerci pour le commentaire sur mon blog
bonne semaine
Agreed! Very well said. Thanks for stopping over at my blog!
ReplyDeleteHola. Gracias por compartir tu reflexión. Saludos.
ReplyDeleteMost of the wounds of the mind are invisible. But the blood from them is all too visible in terrible actions and harsh words.
ReplyDeleteContundente y coherente reflexión.
ReplyDeleteLa mente es inquieta, y a veces no vemos lo que nos quiere decir.
Saludos.
Una reflexión muy acertada. En ocasiones, las heridas de la mente tardan en sanar y necesitamos un tiempo para alejarnos de todo y, simplemente, pensar.
ReplyDeleteUn saludo!
El equilibrio emocional es la clave para poder llevar una vida más saludable.
ReplyDeleteSaludos, Rajani!
Beautiful blog.
ReplyDeleteTotally agree, there are wounds of that type that never heal.
ReplyDeleteBest regards.
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ReplyDeleteBeautiful blog
ReplyDeleteThat is good advice. We do need to step away from the chaos of the world. It does the body and mind good. Thanks for the gentle reminder. ; )
ReplyDelete~Sheri
bel artcle qui me parle bien !! depuis des mois je suis enfermée dans ma peine à l'écart du monde car impossible de parler, d'expliquer mon ressenti...j'ai mal...Mais seule ! Merci pour le passage sur mon blog !
ReplyDeleteGostei dessa sua postagem!
ReplyDeleteBom fim de semana.
Según mi ver quien se aleja de Dios y su infinita bondad es que se empieza a llenar su mente y corazón de ideas infecundas que solo tristeza llena y mucho más...
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What a wonderful words ! It's like a miracle to watch the life like a children , to be Young in the Head.
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