We have to make our heart big!
Remember that our biggest enemy is our bad nature.
As soon as our nature becomes soft, we will get respect from everywhere, not contempt.
Changing the place does not make a crow a cuckoo. Changing the school does not change the class.changing the class depends on our ability and eligibility and the studies of the whole year etc.
As soon as we face a difficult situation, we adopt an escapist attitude, but do not change our nature and nature.water is important, not well; the destination is important, not the path.
Similarly, in life, not only soft speech, but also appropriate language and self- conscious behaviour are important. We are often influenced by others. If someone praises us, we become happy. If we are called intelligent, we start considering ourselves clever. On the contrary, if we are called stubborn, angry, selfish and greedy, then anxiety spreads in the mind. As long as we keep getting influenced by others, our nature can not improve, because we are not able to recognize ourselves after getting influenced by others. Just a water in a small vessel heats up faster than in a large vessel, similarly if our heart is small, then the tide of jealous, hatred and feelings of revenge rise very fast.
Therefore, we have to make our heart big.
Hello!
ReplyDeleteI spent so many years of my life being influenced by what others told me, that I grew up thinking that I was not interesting, intelligent, beautiful or good enough to live in the world. No longer! Fortunately, I learned about the things that you point out in your text, even though I was already a mature woman when I started to change the people in my life.
Sometimes, when almost everyone keeps telling you how 'wrong' you are, the problem is not you, but the people you are surrounded by.
People are influenced by others or by the system, becuse we were 'trained' in school to do so.
ReplyDeleteIt's difficult to escape of this habit. And we succeed to do this only if something happen in our life, that wake us. There are some authors that could change our perspective. One of them could be David R. Hawkins. Just a thought...
All the best to you!
You wrote a very interesting post. Your words are true. In my opinion, these words aren't easy, they make you think.
ReplyDeleteI salute you!
Well written :-D
ReplyDeleteMuy cierto.
ReplyDeleteCuanta verdad hay en tu articulo.
ReplyDeleteSaludos.
Muito lindo e temos mesmo que assim pensar e viver: sem dar bola para o que outro9s dizem ou pensam de nós! beijos, chica
ReplyDeleteQuerida amiga, es cierto, mucha verdad en tu texto.
ReplyDeleteCariños y te dejo un beso, que tengas un hermoso día
Bardzo mądre i prawdziwe. Dobry post i daje do myślenia. Warto usiąść i przemyśleć wszystko na spokojnie. Pozdrawiam serdecznie z Krakowa
ReplyDeleteMake waves out of our guts. Cheers!
ReplyDeleteOlá! Muito interessante o teu texto. Ele traduz um comportamento muito comum que retira autoestima e que pode levar a um estado depressivo. É fundamental não nos deixarmos influenciar por ninguém, devemos seguir o nosso pensamento e agir de acordo com o que entendemos ser o mais correto. Na vida, temos que tomar as nossas próprias decisões sem que alguém possa influenciar o que pensamos. Só assim seremos verdadeiramente livres para poder seguir os caminhos que queremos seguir na nossa vida.
ReplyDeleteFelicito-te pelo teu excelente texto!
Sagge parole. Un post che fa riflettere su come ci lasciamo coinvolgere da quanto pensano gli altri, che per certi versi è inevitabile, ma dobbiamo anche fidarci di più di noi stessi. Un saluto
ReplyDeleteCierta y verdadera visión de la vida y cómo ser uno mismo. Toda capacidad depende de nosotros mismos y su contexto. Éste también juega un rol muy importante. Un niño con hambre no reacciona de la misma manera que otro bien alimentado. Sólo como ejemplo.
ReplyDeleteEso sí, si no hay amor, si no hay corazón, se es miserable.
El amor es el motor de la vida!
Agradecendo e retribuindo vista ao meu blog.
ReplyDeleteTudo de bom.
El escapismoes algo así, como la actitud del avestruz. A los problemas o impases se les pone la cara, que implica afrontarlos. Un abrazo. Carlos
ReplyDeleteNon facciamo influenzare dagli altri, cerchiamo di ragionare col nostro cuore e la nostra testa! Saluti
ReplyDeleteLovely post, thought provoking too.
ReplyDeleteÈ un post che fa riflettere. Dobbiamo cercare di pensare con la nostra testa e di non farci influenzare troppo dalle opinioni degli altri.
ReplyDeleteBuona domenica 😘
Hola, un texto muy bueno, de la esencia no se puede escapar.
ReplyDeleteSaludos👋
Totalmente de acuerdo. No hay que dejarse influir por nadie. Hay que vivir la vida con empatía y honestidad, poniendo amor en todo lo que hacemos. Cómo bien dices no por cambiar de lugar, cambias tú forma de ser, sino lo haces tú. Un texto precioso, profundo y reflexivo. Admirable. Un abrazo grande
ReplyDeleteSuch an inspiring post!
ReplyDeleteUno de mis amigos me dice: tu enamorada no te respeta, en este momento esta paseando acompañada de un forastero, ¡debes terminar con ella! Yo, de estas lides sabia poco y decidi romper con ella. Dias despues, este mismo amigo me pregunta porque no ando con ella y cuanso le respondi que termine con ella, me pregunto: ¿por que?
ReplyDeleteEn ese momento me jure que jamas permitiria que nadie, ¡nadie! se metiese en mi vida.
Y he cumplido al pie de la letra lo que me jure,
Jamas he comentado con nadie mis problemas sentimentales, economicos o sociales
Hai proprio ragione.
ReplyDeleteLe tue parole sono molto sagge.
Thank you for reading my post
ReplyDeletePues, sólo uno sabe qué consejos escuchar. Y si no los pido, no me los den.
ReplyDeleteSaludos
A wise, true and excellent reflection.
ReplyDeleteHola amiga, totalmente de acuerdo contigo con tu escrito con tus letras llenas de razón.
ReplyDeleteGracias por tu visita a mi blog.
Te dejo un beso y que la vida te sonría hoy y siempre.
♥️🌹🥀🥀👋👋
Gran blog
ReplyDeleteI live in the real world but escape to the land of make believe or fantasy from time to time as a way to check out and recharge myself. This would be a problem if I didn't know the difference but thankfully I do. I am lucky to have such a good life
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading my post
ReplyDeleteBeautiful words what you wrote. But I don't let others influence me easily with people that tries it. I once learned psychology and there I also learned how to apply scientific knowledge and to understand what people think, feel, want and or do. And so that's what I sometimes reap the benefits of now. Sometimes not convenient but easy if there will be someone who will want to influence me. I do have a small reaction to this because you always write a reaction to my Good blog but I would like to hear more than just those words. Because those only say you like it but not what. Sorry that is my opinion because a good comment is what I also always give with you with what I read or see. This is not an attack but something to think about when you visit a blog.
ReplyDeleteHola,
ReplyDeleteGracias por la entrada.
Besos desde Promesas de Amor, nos leemos.
thanks for this post!
ReplyDeleteAnd your comments on my blog
Beautiful blog
ReplyDeleteGreat blog.
ReplyDeleteGreetings Irma
Bela mensagem!
ReplyDeleteHay mucha profundidad en tus reflexiones... Personalmente, me quedo con el concepto de agua y pozo como propósito de vida.
ReplyDelete¡Saludos cordiales desde Chile! =)
You are so right!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with your ideas, Rajani Rehana.
Regards.
Una muy buena entrada y bien cierta, los problemas no se resuelven con mudarse de lugar, los problemas hay que afrontarlos y solucionarlos. Después si decides cambiar de lugar que vayas sin mochila. Un besote.
ReplyDeleteHermosas palabras, que te llevan a la reflexión, saludos
ReplyDeletePATRICIA F.
Kiitos postauksestasi.
ReplyDeleteHello, thanks to your visit to my blog and comment, I have discovered you, and tell you that I have loved reading such a beautiful text and reflection. Kisses and good day
ReplyDeleteMuy cierta la reflexión, gracias por pasar.
ReplyDeleteInteresting Post.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing
Thank you so much kind people 🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteSuperbe blog
ReplyDeleteBravo.
It is always extremely interesting to read your articles, so positive, and with very interesting points of view.
ReplyDeleteQuerida amiga, totalmente de acuerdo contigo.
ReplyDeleteAbrazos y te dejo un beso, que tengas un precioso fin de semana
This reflection emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and inner transformation over external changes. It reminds us that true growth and respect come from nurturing a gentle and self-aware nature, rather than seeking escape through changing our circumstances.
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Bonjour
ReplyDeleteMerci pour ton gentil passage sur mon blog.
Oui il faut agrandir notre coeur et être à l'écoute, très beau ton texte avec une ravissante fleur.
Bon dimanche.
Amicalement.
Bonjour
ReplyDeleteMerci pour ton passage chez moi, un texte tellement vrai.
Je n'ai pas trouve ou m'abonné...Bon dimanche à bientôt
Thank you so much kind soul authors.
ReplyDelete¡Hola! Buenas reflexiones, muchas veces cuenta el punto de vista de la persona. Un abrazo ❤️
ReplyDeleteBuen blog y buenas palabras las tuyas Rajani. Te pongo un link de tu blog en el mio. Saludos
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