Nothing happens in life by escapism, unless the situation is changed.changing the place does not solve the problem.
Remember that our biggest enemy is our bad nature.
As soon as our nature becomes soft, we will get respect from everywhere, not contempt.
Changing the place does not make a crow a cuckoo. Changing the school does not change the class.changing the class depends on our ability and eligibility and the studies of the whole year etc.
As soon as we face a difficult situation, we adopt an escapist attitude, but do not change our nature and nature.water is important, not well; the destination is important, not the path.
Similarly, in life, not only soft speech, but also appropriate language and self- conscious behaviour are important. We are often influenced by others. If someone praises us, we become happy. If we are called intelligent, we start considering ourselves clever. On the contrary, if we are called stubborn, angry, selfish and greedy, then anxiety spreads in the mind. As long as we keep getting influenced by others, our nature can not improve, because we are not able to recognize ourselves after getting influenced by others. Just a water in a small vessel heats up faster than in a large vessel, similarly if our heart is small, then the tide of jealous, hatred and feelings of revenge rise very fast.
Therefore, we have to make our heart big.
Hello!
ReplyDeleteI spent so many years of my life being influenced by what others told me, that I grew up thinking that I was not interesting, intelligent, beautiful or good enough to live in the world. No longer! Fortunately, I learned about the things that you point out in your text, even though I was already a mature woman when I started to change the people in my life.
Sometimes, when almost everyone keeps telling you how 'wrong' you are, the problem is not you, but the people you are surrounded by.
People are influenced by others or by the system, becuse we were 'trained' in school to do so.
ReplyDeleteIt's difficult to escape of this habit. And we succeed to do this only if something happen in our life, that wake us. There are some authors that could change our perspective. One of them could be David R. Hawkins. Just a thought...
All the best to you!
You wrote a very interesting post. Your words are true. In my opinion, these words aren't easy, they make you think.
ReplyDeleteI salute you!
Well written :-D
ReplyDeleteUn buenisimo mensaje querido amigo, nos cambia el saber que hay que avanzar y lo logramos aprendiendo, ojalá ensanchemos el corazón para cambiar el mundo
DeleteUn abrazo
Muy cierto.
ReplyDeleteCuanta verdad hay en tu articulo.
ReplyDeleteSaludos.
Muito lindo e temos mesmo que assim pensar e viver: sem dar bola para o que outro9s dizem ou pensam de nós! beijos, chica
ReplyDeleteQuerida amiga, es cierto, mucha verdad en tu texto.
ReplyDeleteCariños y te dejo un beso, que tengas un hermoso día
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ReplyDeleteSagge parole. Un post che fa riflettere su come ci lasciamo coinvolgere da quanto pensano gli altri, che per certi versi è inevitabile, ma dobbiamo anche fidarci di più di noi stessi. Un saluto
ReplyDeleteAgradecendo e retribuindo vista ao meu blog.
ReplyDeleteTudo de bom.
El escapismoes algo así, como la actitud del avestruz. A los problemas o impases se les pone la cara, que implica afrontarlos. Un abrazo. Carlos
ReplyDeleteNon facciamo influenzare dagli altri, cerchiamo di ragionare col nostro cuore e la nostra testa! Saluti
ReplyDeleteLovely post, thought provoking too.
ReplyDeleteÈ un post che fa riflettere. Dobbiamo cercare di pensare con la nostra testa e di non farci influenzare troppo dalle opinioni degli altri.
ReplyDeleteBuona domenica 😘
Hola, un texto muy bueno, de la esencia no se puede escapar.
ReplyDeleteSaludos👋
Such an inspiring post!
ReplyDeleteHai proprio ragione.
ReplyDeleteLe tue parole sono molto sagge.
Thank you for reading my post
ReplyDeletePues, sólo uno sabe qué consejos escuchar. Y si no los pido, no me los den.
ReplyDeleteSaludos
A wise, true and excellent reflection.
ReplyDeleteHola amiga, totalmente de acuerdo contigo con tu escrito con tus letras llenas de razón.
ReplyDeleteGracias por tu visita a mi blog.
Te dejo un beso y que la vida te sonría hoy y siempre.
♥️🌹🥀🥀👋👋
Gran blog
ReplyDeleteI live in the real world but escape to the land of make believe or fantasy from time to time as a way to check out and recharge myself. This would be a problem if I didn't know the difference but thankfully I do. I am lucky to have such a good life
ReplyDeleteHola,
ReplyDeleteGracias por la entrada.
Besos desde Promesas de Amor, nos leemos.
Beautiful blog
ReplyDeleteGreat blog.
ReplyDeleteGreetings Irma
Bela mensagem!
ReplyDeleteHay mucha profundidad en tus reflexiones... Personalmente, me quedo con el concepto de agua y pozo como propósito de vida.
ReplyDelete¡Saludos cordiales desde Chile! =)
You are so right!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with your ideas, Rajani Rehana.
Regards.
Una muy buena entrada y bien cierta, los problemas no se resuelven con mudarse de lugar, los problemas hay que afrontarlos y solucionarlos. Después si decides cambiar de lugar que vayas sin mochila. Un besote.
ReplyDeleteHermosas palabras, que te llevan a la reflexión, saludos
ReplyDeletePATRICIA F.
Kiitos postauksestasi.
ReplyDeleteHello, thanks to your visit to my blog and comment, I have discovered you, and tell you that I have loved reading such a beautiful text and reflection. Kisses and good day
ReplyDeleteMuy cierta la reflexión, gracias por pasar.
ReplyDeleteInteresting Post.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing
Thank you so much kind people 🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteSuperbe blog
ReplyDeleteBravo.
Querida amiga, totalmente de acuerdo contigo.
ReplyDeleteAbrazos y te dejo un beso, que tengas un precioso fin de semana
This reflection emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and inner transformation over external changes. It reminds us that true growth and respect come from nurturing a gentle and self-aware nature, rather than seeking escape through changing our circumstances.
ReplyDeleteI wish you a lovely weekend. You are invited to read my new blog post: https://www.melodyjacob.com/2022/10/how-to-break-out-of-nzu-addiction.html
Bonjour
ReplyDeleteMerci pour ton gentil passage sur mon blog.
Oui il faut agrandir notre coeur et être à l'écoute, très beau ton texte avec une ravissante fleur.
Bon dimanche.
Amicalement.
Bonjour
ReplyDeleteMerci pour ton passage chez moi, un texte tellement vrai.
Je n'ai pas trouve ou m'abonné...Bon dimanche à bientôt
Thank you so much kind soul authors.
ReplyDelete¡Hola! Buenas reflexiones, muchas veces cuenta el punto de vista de la persona. Un abrazo ❤️
ReplyDeleteBuen blog y buenas palabras las tuyas Rajani. Te pongo un link de tu blog en el mio. Saludos
ReplyDeleteMuy cierto, te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteGreat words.
ReplyDeleteWe change from within.
ReplyDeleteHola: pase por aquí a leerte. Es verdad muchas veces vivimos según lo que los demás opinan o piensan y en realidad, tenemos que ser nosotros mismos. Me gustó este artículo. Adelante. Abrazos para vos. Susana de Alas de Papel
ReplyDeleteThought provoking post.
ReplyDeleteGreat post -- interesting topic and well-written! God bless.
ReplyDeleteKindness is the key that opens and allows us to heal hearts. Thank you for sharing such beautiful thoughts!
ReplyDeleteAn excellent and interesting reflection very well placed... Thanks.
ReplyDeleteI have a meditation for Peace... 🕊️
Greetings🌼
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This is something I have been working on for a long time now, and am finally realizing who I really a, not just what others think of me. I have had a few harsh words thrown at me throughout my life, and they affected me a lot. I am happy to say that now I know I am not the things they said, and that when someone says horrible or negative things, it is more about them than me. Lovely post.
ReplyDeleteGreat text to reflect on ourselves.
ReplyDeleteEin wunderbarer Beitrag.
ReplyDeleteLiebe Grüße
Kerstin und Helga
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us! Aloha!
ReplyDeleteWhat an interesting post. I like the ideas of making out hearts big and showing more kindness out in the world. :)
ReplyDeleteWell said and encouraging words. We need more kindness in the world.
ReplyDeletePase por si tenías otro post, veo que no, y te dejo mis mejores deseos, que la salud el amor y la paz te acompañe, hoy y siempre. ♥️🙏🙅
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ReplyDelete"A water in a small vessel heats up faster than in a large vessel" A very nice analogy. Like a summary of the text. I liked it very much. Congratulations
These are steps that require courage and awareness. Good advice, short and clear. Thanks for your sharing
ReplyDeleteVery timely words;
ReplyDeleteChanging places certainly doesn't solve anything.
Solving problems with patience and wisdom changes
your life.
I loved your text.
Have a good week.
Janicce.
Querida amiga, que tengas un hermoso y feliz día
ReplyDeleteCariños y besos
Questo è un post molto interessante Ci fa riflettere.grazie.
ReplyDeleteInteresting thoughts
ReplyDeleteAll the best
Traude
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Lindas as flores!!
ReplyDeleteUma cor púrpura belíssima!!
Lindo o seu texto Rajani!
Tenha um maravilhoso final de semana!! :)))))
Gran reflexión! Te aplaudo 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
ReplyDeleteGreat blog.. Thanks.. ✔😊
ReplyDeleteWise words, thank you.
ReplyDeleteMirarnos dentro.Nosotros mismos somos el problema. Un abrazo
ReplyDeleteVery interesting and accurate your article, very much agree
ReplyDeleteBest regards
You write always also good blogs.
ReplyDeleteWe are easily influenced by the opinions of others, and that vulnerability prevents us from recognizing our authentic essence. Only when we take control of our nature and stop running away, we can grow and be respected for who we are deep inside.
ReplyDeleteHave a great week, bisous.
What a beautiful reminder. Especially at this time when people throw words like it means nothing.
ReplyDeleteMe sumo a los comentarios favorables . Para leer tu texto tego que traducirlo. Gracias por tu visita al blog de Josefa.
ReplyDeleteAhora sí he podido leer tan interesante escrito. Me ha encantado. Todos estamos influenciados por las personas que nos han tratado. yo por mis abuelas y mi madre.Puramente machistas. Como casi todas las de esa época, y aunque reacioné. aun quedan residuos. Un abrazo.
ReplyDeleteExcellent article, thanks for your visit and footprint
ReplyDeleteMerci pour ta visite
ReplyDeleteSuperbe ton blog
Bises
Beautiful and clear post
ReplyDeleteQuerida amiga, que tengas un precioso día lleno de felicidad
ReplyDeleteAbrazos y besitos
El mayor regalo que te pueden hacer en la vida es creer en ti, mismo. Es algo que siempre te va a dar fuerza y confianza, y te impulsa para querer mejorar.
ReplyDeleteBonita entrada.
Pero porque se cambian las letras?
ReplyDeleteI totally agree! Change, happiness, willingness and courage come from inside of us. The surroundings can influence until a certain point but it is up to us to decide if we are going to run or stay and face whatever is coming.
ReplyDeleteहेलो रजनी 🙂 खुद से या अपनी समस्याओं से दूर भागना कभी भी अच्छा समाधान नहीं है। चुनौतियों का सामना करने की क्षमता परिपक्वता को दर्शाती है। आप अपने बारे में बहुत सी बातें सीख सकते हैं और अपने दिल और दिमाग में होने वाले परिवर्तनों पर सचेत प्रभाव डाल सकते हैं। यह आसान नहीं है, लेकिन प्रयास के लायक है...
ReplyDeleteVoila qui est de toute beauté , quiétude et bien être ! merci !
ReplyDeleteYes, that is true. Creativity helps keep us expanded.
ReplyDeleteIt is pretty difficult to escape the noise all around us. Yes we have to take care of our soul.. our heart :)
ReplyDeleteHugs!!
Bonjour il faut être gentil mais dans une certaine limite pour ne pas se faire manger très bel article
ReplyDeleteen effet il faut agrandir son coeur
très bon dimanche et merci pour ta visite
bisous d'une petitefleur
Interesting post. Inspiring too.
ReplyDeleteХорошие слова!
ReplyDeleteBonjour
DeleteJoli post Il faut être gentil c'est mieux
En ce lundi ensoleillé je passe te souhaiter une bonne journée.
Bonne nouvelle semaine
bisous Brigitte
hello 🤍,
ReplyDeletea wonderful post, true about our life .. makes you think..
- best regards, I wish you good days and beautiful moments 😊🍀🌞
Beautiful Pics!
ReplyDeleteBeijos e Abraços,
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ReplyDeleteKlik dobry:)
ReplyDeleteTrudno byc człowiekiem z wielkim sercem. Tacy szlachetni ludzie często są zgniatani przez szubrawców.
Pozdrawiam serdecznie.
bonjour superbe post , bravo , je vais m'abonné chez toi, bonne journée a bientôt
ReplyDeleteA beleza das flores e da vida está nos olhos de quem as vê!!
ReplyDeleteLinda reflexão!!
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ReplyDeleteone day someone asked his Yoda-like life master for opinion and advice:
ReplyDelete- I must leave this town, I want live in the middle of the wood...
- why?...
- I don't feel good here... the people look at me badly... even the walls of houses look at me badly...
- okay, maybe it's good idea... maybe you need some rest... but it's quite possible, that there in the middle of the wood, after some time, the trees will begin look at you badly...
- why?... how it's possible?...
- maybe nobody looks at you badly, only your mind looks at you badly...
best regards :)
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ReplyDeleteGreat blog
ReplyDeleteTrès intéressant, merci et bonne fin de journée !
ReplyDeleteI think I mostly agree with your opinion. I really like the last sentence. Best regards ✨️
ReplyDeleteagree.....
ReplyDeletegreat thought
Lovely post, have a nice day
ReplyDeleteBuena reflexión, estoy de acuerdo.
ReplyDeleteSaludos y gracias por tu visita.
Omg, this is so lovely post. Thank you. Best! Best regard Vivi
ReplyDeleteQue tengas un precioso fin de semana Rajani
ReplyDeleteVery nicely written. It's so nice to read <3
ReplyDeleteGreetings and I invite you to see my new painting :)
Le piccole azioni quotidiane possono contribuire a costruire un mondo più empatico e accogliente.
ReplyDeleteHola! un buen post. Besos
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ReplyDeleteKażdą zmianę trzeba zacząć od siebie... :)
DeleteYes, let's not be influenced by other people's comments and lose ourselves.
ReplyDeleteGood luck to you !
Nice blog and great post. Have a good weekend.
ReplyDeleteGood post.
ReplyDeleteThis is such a powerful and thought-provoking message! I completely agree that true change comes from within, not from escaping or changing our external circumstances. It's a reminder that we need to work on our own nature, cultivating patience, self-awareness, and resilience. When we master our own thoughts and actions, respect and peace naturally follow. Thank you for sharing these deep insights on the importance of personal growth and not letting external praise or criticism define us..
ReplyDeleteUna bonita reflexión¡¡¡¡¡
ReplyDeleteA verdade sobre a mudança interna e a importância de expandir nosso coração realmente ressoou em mim. Obrigado por compartilhar essas palavras tão sábias e necessárias.
ReplyDeleteAgree with you, we need to learn in life...
ReplyDeleteIt's a very good post. I was very inspired. Thank you. I live in Turkey and there are difficult times. As a people, our morale is low. Your article came up very much💖
ReplyDeleteGreat post
ReplyDeleteThis is a very interesting post.
ReplyDeleteBSR C'EST EN CE JEUDI QUE JE VIENS TE
ReplyDeleteSOUHAITER UNE BONNE FIN DE JOURNEE ET
BONNE SOIREE GROS BISOUS
TON CHOUCHOU
Olá
ReplyDeleteUma excelente reflexão
Gostei muito.
Abraço**
Interesting post and yes, change is hard...
ReplyDeleteInteresting to think about this.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this beautiful writing
ReplyDeleteUn monde d'amour de respect et d'écoute aiderait tant de gens a se valoriser
ReplyDeletebonjour et bonne et agréable journée
ReplyDeleteje te souhaite un bon weekend avec du soleil j'espère pour toi aussi car ici en lorraine soleil
ma fille est bien arrivée à LONDRES
Superbe bonne soirée
ReplyDeleteBisous d'une petitefleur
Valuable post!
ReplyDeletePensar que existe la posibilidad del buen equilibrio....
ReplyDeleteQuién lo desee puede conseguirlo. Es... (tomo también como ejemplo, el pozo) como un pozo lleno de agua pura y cristalina para todo aquel que la desee.
Y lo mejor... que es gratis. Sólo hay que querer beber de ella. Entonces... todo será increíblemente distinto :)
Un gusto, Rehana 🏙