How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?

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How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?  Emotions arise from thinking, but emotions are deeper and more effective than thoughts and resolutions. To keep the mind happy and life successful, always having good feelings and good wishes towards everyone is the best management of emotions. In practical terms, no matter what feelings someone has, we should behave with good intentions towards him. His behavior or conversation should not influence , rather we should behave with him in such a way that our good conduct becomes effective on him. It is possible that his behavior may change,  because positive energy is more powerful than negativity. If we are disturbed by the unfair behavior of others and misbehave with them, then understand that our positive power has been defeated. 

A big time of our life is spent waiting.Wait for someone to love us, call us, understand us, give us a chance to love them.

A big time of our life is spent waiting.Wait for someone to love us, call us, understand us, give us a chance to love them. The more this wait for our happiness associated with others increases, the more the sadness inside us increases. We want to get happiness from others,we do not want to create them ourselves.it is better not to look at your lack of emotions.

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  1. Tão lindas e certas palavras! Temos que ser felizes por nós mesmos, não apenas esperar motivos.Criemos! Beijos ,chica

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  2. Tienes mucha razón, no podemos dejar pasar el tiempo esperando a que ocurra lo que deseamos, siempre hay en el momento presente algo que nos hace disfrutar de la vida.

    ¡Un abrazo!

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  3. No tenemos que estar esperando siempre, también podemos dar el paso nosotros.

    Abrazos.

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  4. This is true. Good words and love the picture :-D

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  5. O amor é isso, gostar mais de quem
    nem sempre gosta da gente.
    Beijos.

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  8. Hola, agradezco mucho tus visitas a mi blog, me quedo aquí también te mando un abrazo grande

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  9. Very thought provoking post.:)

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  10. Con lo divertida que puede llegar a ser la soledad una vez que la conoces al detalle...

    Saludos!

    J.

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  11. Oh so powerful and true post~ I need to live more the present
    xx

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  12. Muito interessante!
    A lei da vida...

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  13. Absolutely true.
    Thanks for sharing this great post!
    Keep healthy and safe

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  14. Deep thoughts. Things never happen by chance and I have learned from experience that everything I have given has always come back to me, when I needed it!
    Greetings from Italy
    Ciao Susanna

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  15. Ciao...felice di conoscerti e complimenti per il tuo blog che ho trovato molto interessante. A presto, spero.

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  16. share our sadness, happiness, and every good things are very nice.

    good sharing

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  17. Eccomi qui da te, mi piacerebbe riuscire a leggere i tuoi post ma non trovo il traduttore, mi dispiace. Alla prossima.
    sinforosa

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  18. ciao, il tuo blog è molto bello, grazie per essere passata dal mio blog.
    Barbara

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  19. Nascemos com a ideia de que só somos amados, se for pelos outros, que nem pensamos na possibilidades de amar a nós mesmos. Muito bom teu texto poético.
    Abraço e bom fim de semana.

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  20. Eizirrik (2008) frames the genesis of psychological suffering within the scope of early models of object relationship and the quality with which such experiences were carried out, felt and recorded in this stage of development, since they tend to remain as an inducing matrix for future relationships.

    I hope your experiences are working out!

    Merry Xmas

    Humberto

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  21. Hou have really to being a message. Great work.

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  22. Wise words and so true!
    Happy Sunday, have a great new week ahead.

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  23. This is an adorable photo.
    And the words are very meaningful and go to the heart!

    Thanks for the nice comment with me.

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  24. Cinta memang selalu membawa kebahagiaan

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  25. Verissimo!!! Complimenti per il bl8g

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  26. Muito bom o seu post.Very good your post. Precious words.

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  27. Wise words, at first we should look happiness inside us. Best regards

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  28. Te devuelvo la visita agradecido

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  29. Tienes un blog bonito e interesante. Enhorabuena

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  30. The world is somewhat divided between cynics and idealists with wide ranges of transition between one and the other. It is clear which group you belong to. A kiss.

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  31. Hi Rajani - Thank you for your recent comment on my blog which allowed me to find yours. :-) I agree with you that we spend too much of our lives waiting on others. Recently, the past year expecially, I have felt my own awareness increasing. I am now finding more happiness within myself by focusing on the present moment. I try not to worry with the past or future. I try to focus more on the natural world. For example, last summer, for the first time, I installed two hummingbird feeders. Now, a few of the fascinating little birds are frequent visitors to my feeders and they bring joy into my life. So, thanks again, joy to you, and best regards from Seattle. John

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  32. Muchas gracias por tu visita.

    Un saludo

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  33. You really have deep and inspiring thoughts! Congratulations for this Blog, it enriches the hearts!

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  34. Saúdo-te de Portugal.
    As tuas palavras são delicadas e doces a contrastar com a situação pandémica mundial.
    Haja Esperança. É ela que nos acalenta e nos faz ter pensamentos positivos e criar uma humanidade para além fronteiras.
    Gostei muito de te ler.
    Um abraço e que estejas sempre bem.

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  35. That is very true. Thank you. Also thank you for visiting my blog.

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  36. Que bonito , me encanta, enhorabuena, saludos y feliz 2021.

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  37. Świetny post. Jak najbardziej się z Tobą zgadzam.
    Pozdrawiam i zapraszam na nowy post :) magdatul-fan.blogspot.com.

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  38. Zu den Gedanken passend ein schönes Foto, das auch
    berührt und all das ausdrückt, was du geschrieben hast,
    was ich sehr beeindruckend finde.
    Gefühle und Hoffnungen dürfen niemals erkalten.
    Liebe Grüße und eine lichterfüllte Weihnachtszeit und
    einen gesunden Start in das neue Jahr, Karin Lissi

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  39. Thank you so much for reading my blog

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  40. Bellas palabras felices fiestas y que venga un magnifico nuevo año

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  41. Para hacer felices a los otros, primero debemos ser felices nosotros. UN abrazo. Carlos

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  42. Definitely we do spend a lot of time waiting..and what can we do in the mean time? When I look back, I wish I had spent more time learning things, reading things while the emotion of waiting kept me sad and stuck. Thanks for the post! It definitely is inspiring!

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  43. I Disagree!!! Waiting for the positive things doesn't necessarily mean one experiences negative things or sadness. No one person can make you happy, you do realize that right???? How sad it is if you are depending on others for your own happiness. I have found true joy comes from my relationship with Christ/God. Happiness is a fleeting emotiOn depending on circumstances. Joy is deeper.

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  45. Linda essa imagem!
    Desejo um Natal pra ti e todos os teus com muita fé, esperanças e muita paz.
    Que a maior promessa do Ano Novo seja o fortalecimento da nossa fé, e esperança de dias melhores.
    Um abração!

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  46. Dziękuję za odwiedziny.
    Żyjemy w dziwnych czasach zamknięcia przed drugim człowiekiem.

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  47. Because read your meaning
    I feel like coming

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  48. So true...and so powerful a message here...that we should all listen to.
    True happiness can only be found within ourselves, so why wait for someone else to make us feel that way??
    I will leave here inspired...thank you so much!😊😊

    Stay safe and happy 🙏🙏🙏

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  49. Tienes razón, la felicidad está adentro,

    Paz

    Isaac

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  50. Thank you so much for reading my blog

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  51. Good reflection of understanding love, friend.

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  52. Un saludo Rajani Rehana. Gracias por visitar mi blog. Feliz Navidad.

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  53. Hola!! que buena entrada, espero de vuelta tu visita,

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  54. Hi Rajani Rehana, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours. John

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  55. True Happiness is intrinsic is only when one feel love and happiness inside them, that they can extend to others. If you wait for someone else to make you feel happy or fulfill then one will continue to wait happy holidays.

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  56. Interesting post. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you.
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  57. Thank you so much for reading my blog 😊 merry Christmas 🎄

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  58. Merry Christmas to you too!
    Thanks for visiting my blog.
    Best regards /Marika

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  59. This is a truly sad (and beautiful) post. We need to rely on ourselves more. Soooo much more. Thank you for visiting my blog.

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  60. Beautiful blog, beautiful painting.

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  61. HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎉🍾🎈🎁🎇...with lots of love and hugs xxx

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  62. This is very true! We have to love ourselves, not look to others! Thanks for coming by my blog! Big Hugs!

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  63. is so true
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  64. That's a lovely post. Thanks.

    Greetings from London.

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  65. A lovely photo. How I long for the days when we are courageous enough to look to ourselves for happiness.

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  66. That is a beautiful picture. Many of us, myself included, depend on others to make us happy. 2021 resolution should be "Be Happy ourselves before we can make others Happy." TQ for a stimulating thought.

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  67. Rather than wait for affirmation from others we could reach out to them. Make a phone call. Understand them. Let them know we love them. It is probable that they are also waiting.

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  68. It is so true that many spend their life, reliving the past. That can be self destructive.
    Thanks for visiting my site!

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  69. Thank you so much for reading my blog

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  70. I know too many people who look to others to make them happy, when all they need is to find their own happiness within themselves.

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  71. Betul itu menunggu orang mencintai saya dan saya mencintai dia.

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  72. Hi Rajani,
    you really wrote a great post! You're right, as you highlight the relationship between our happiness and the behavior of other people.
    Thanks for asking me to visit your interesting blog.
    Have a nice weekend!

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  73. Boa tarde Rajani. A foto ficou muito linda.

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  74. Ricambio la visita al tuo bellissimo blog
    Un saluto
    Giorgio

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  75. Palabras sabias. Un gusto leerte. Saludos

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  76. Pues sí, nos pasamos la vida esperando, sin entender que la felicidad está en cada uno de nosotros. Por ello, quien no sabe se feliz, no puede serlo.

    Un saludo

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  77. Siempre esperamos algo, vivir no es otra cosa que llegar a la muerte. No soy pesimista, pero es lo que hay.

    Saludos

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  78. Muy buenos días y que razón llevan tus letras. La vida es una espera constante y no debemos permitirlo ...y en todo caso mientras se espera hay que seguir viviendo y procurar encontrar la felicidad dentro de nosotros mismos , es la que nos interese y la verdadera. Gracias por tu visita . Un abrazo y feliz día.

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  79. ¡Hola! Me ha gustado mucho la reflexión, me ha transmitido la felicidad y la melancolía de la vida, gracias por compartir. Un saludo.

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  80. make yourself happy first��

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  81. All things start with a dream, add action and it becomes a part of life. Your picture of the girl catching fire flies is beautiful

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  82. O mundo está nas mãos daqueles que têm a coragem de sonhar e correr o risco de viver seus sonhos.

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  83. Saludos desde Andalucia,España...

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