Leave the desire to get along with everyone!!π€π€
Expectations increase dissatisfaction !!
You must have often heard someone around you saying that such a person did not live up to their expectations or he is very disappointed with such a thing. There are some people who start expecting from themselves beyond their capabilities and then when they are not able to fulfill expectations then they start being unhappy with themselves. It means to say that the heavy burden of expectations snatches away the happiness of human beings. Whether those expectations are from someone else or from yourself. But when we set our expectations with reality in mind , disappointment is rarely encountered. In fact , the happiness that suddenly happens when something good happens,it doesn't meet the expected things, because on the occasion of sudden happiness, you would not have set your expectations. Don't expect impractical things from anyone.
eliminate negative things/people and believe me you'l live a lot better
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...you need to make yourself happy first.
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ReplyDeleteA veces la culpa es nuestra por no decir NO, por estar siempre, con los aΓ±os se aprende, he descubierto que siendo yo feliz lo son los que me quieren. Un abrazo
ReplyDeleteIt is impossible to please everyone.
ReplyDeleteStanding ovation for this post. You have all the reason in the world. We're "serial pleasers" just so we're not alone.
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True. Life is short.
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ReplyDeleteCiao Rajani, thank you very much for your comment on my blog (I think that Blogspot had a sort of bug because I got it 10 times and it went to spam. Fortunately I checked it).
ReplyDeleteI read this post and I can perfectly relate to your words. This doesn't happen only with love or friendship but also concerning job. When you see that there's a place where you are not loved and where your bosses think you're a failure and treat you like you really were it, just remember that not everybody is for everybody. So feel free to do your best and find something else.
I got ill because of a similar situation and it has been one of the most awful experiences of my life.
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So much truth. Find your tribe.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this wise reminder!
ReplyDeleteIt's a long and difficult learning process, but I also think it's important to learn this and break free from people who just pull you down.
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Verissimo! Me Γ¨ molto difficile quando si ama veramente e profondamente staccarsi da una persona negativa con la quale si sono giΓ vissuti oltre 60 anni.
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Buena entrada, Rajani.
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I like spirited discussion and wish more people could argue with one another while still getting along.
ReplyDeleteExtraordinary reflection. The final sentence says it all "It is important to understand that you are not for everyone and not everyone is worthy of you."
ReplyDeleteI agree with your words!
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Cierto, hay personas que lastiman, pero...yo no seria capaz de quitarlos de mi vida, quiero pensar que tambien dejaran algo importante en nosotros que no ayude a crecer...
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ReplyDeleteSuele pasar cuando las personas le temen demasiado a la soledad y terminan cayendo en complacer a todos y se olvidan de si mismos.
ReplyDeleteMuy buena reflexiΓ³n Rajani, abrazos
Totally agreed, although it hurts us at first to remove them from our lives but then with time we will rejoice.
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I've had a lot of trouble getting away from people who didn't do me any good or trying to please others at all costs and that's really not worth it. And I really agree with what you said: It is important to understand that you are not for everyone and not everyone is worthy of you.
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ReplyDeleteWe really try to make everyone happy. And when we realize that this is impossible, life becomes easier.
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ReplyDeleteAbove all things, be true to yourself.
ReplyDeleteI think it's important to remember ourselves, our needs, our happiness regardless of whether others love us or not. Let me explain: if others love us, respect and recognize our value, it's right to think about their needs but not just theirs! We must always remember that we too are important! This is essential to be able to live a balanced relationship with others.
ReplyDeleteEven more so if the people we surround ourselves with and to whom we direct all our energy and attention don't reciprocate! ;-)
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ReplyDeleteSometimes you need to think of you in first place.
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What you said sounds true. We treasure the friendship with our friends but we may separate from each other because of differences of opinion. I share that we want everyone to be with us but it does not happen.
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