Leave the desire to get along with everyone!!🤗🤗

We try to keep everyone happy. Our desire to get the company of others increase so much that we do not care about our own happiness. But, sometimes it has to be understood that now is the time to walk away from those people who do not love you. It is possible that this is the most difficult time of your life and it is also possible that it is also the most important for you. What to do in such a situation, stop loving those people who are not ready to understand your love or stop understanding those people who do not want to change themselves. We want everyone to be with us, but it doesn't happen. Even if the people you have spent the most time with leave you, disrespect you, or cut you out of their lives, you still go out of your way to be loved by them.      So somewhere you are not respecting yourself. It is important to understand that you are not for everyone and not everyone is worthy of you.

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  1. eliminate negative things/people and believe me you'l live a lot better

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  2. Scegliere le persone giuste, con cui condividere la nostra vita...
    Un caro saluto,silvia

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  3. Fine reflection indeed.
    Many greetings

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  4. ...you need to make yourself happy first.

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  5. yes, it is difficult.. indeed. but it is needed - otherwise, we end by becoming ill...
    Hugs!

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  6. A veces la culpa es nuestra por no decir NO, por estar siempre, con los años se aprende, he descubierto que siendo yo feliz lo son los que me quieren. Un abrazo

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  7. It is impossible to please everyone.

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  8. Standing ovation for this post. You have all the reason in the world. We're "serial pleasers" just so we're not alone.
    A big hug.

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  9. Una reflexión con la que coincido totalmente, no se puede contentar a todo el mundo, y muchas veces nos olvidamos de nosotros mismos en ese intento. Besos :D

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  10. Ciao Rajani, thank you very much for your comment on my blog (I think that Blogspot had a sort of bug because I got it 10 times and it went to spam. Fortunately I checked it).
    I read this post and I can perfectly relate to your words. This doesn't happen only with love or friendship but also concerning job. When you see that there's a place where you are not loved and where your bosses think you're a failure and treat you like you really were it, just remember that not everybody is for everybody. So feel free to do your best and find something else.
    I got ill because of a similar situation and it has been one of the most awful experiences of my life.
    Take care and have agreat weekend. I hope to see you again on my blogs!

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  11. Il rispetto di noi stessi
    Nn è cosa facile da iniziare dalla sincerità x le
    debolezze proprie. Facile essere troppo comprensivi con noi stessi

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  12. So much truth. Find your tribe.

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  13. Thank you for this wise reminder!

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  14. It's a long and difficult learning process, but I also think it's important to learn this and break free from people who just pull you down.
    All the best - Traude
    https://rostrose.blogspot.com/2023/03/costa-rica-8-kapitel-nationalpark.html

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  15. Verissimo! Me è molto difficile quando si ama veramente e profondamente staccarsi da una persona negativa con la quale si sono già vissuti oltre 60 anni.
    Un carissimo saluto

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  16. Bellissimo blog!! leggi il mio post!! ;)

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  17. hola
    bonitas palabras
    Besotesssssssssss

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  18. And you keep coming asking to follow your blog with trivial and stereotyped posts? Look they didn't interest me at all, I love to read more interesting thingsAnd you keep coming asking to follow your blog with trivial and stereotyped posts? Look they didn't interest me at all, I love to read more interesting things

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  19. Interesting post. A necessary analysis. Ciao

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  20. Ciao. Un post davvero interessante. Un saluto cordiale.

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  21. Beautiful blog. Please read my post
    enrico

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  22. Hay personas negativas, que te bajan la moral y otras llamadas medicinas, que sacan de ti, la mejor versión. Hay que buscar las segundas y huir de las primeras.

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  23. Amar a si mesmo é pré-requisito para se amar os outros, quem se desama não sabe amar.

    Um abraço. Tudo de bom.
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  24. Buena entrada, Rajani.
    Saludos!!

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  25. I like spirited discussion and wish more people could argue with one another while still getting along.

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  26. Extraordinary reflection. The final sentence says it all "It is important to understand that you are not for everyone and not everyone is worthy of you."

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  27. I agree with your words!
    I salute you from finally spring Poland!

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  28. Cierto, hay personas que lastiman, pero...yo no seria capaz de quitarlos de mi vida, quiero pensar que tambien dejaran algo importante en nosotros que no ayude a crecer...
    Un abrazo

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  29. Olá, realmente teu post tem muitas verdades, gostar de si e respeitar-se em primeiro lugar. Um abraço. https://enfimsetenta.blogspot.com/

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  30. Suele pasar cuando las personas le temen demasiado a la soledad y terminan cayendo en complacer a todos y se olvidan de si mismos.
    Muy buena reflexión Rajani, abrazos

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  31. Totally agreed, although it hurts us at first to remove them from our lives but then with time we will rejoice.
    Happy week.
    Best regards.

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  32. hi, good blog, congratulations

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  33. Очень хороший блог. Хочу читать все Ваши посты! Со всеми ладить не получится - у всех разные взгляды, разное воспитание. Если Вам близки мои взгляды на семью, друзей, занятие цветами - добро пожаловать в мой блог!

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  34. Es indudable que uno debe estar con quienes nos ofrezcan una real amistad, y sean sinceros, lejanos de un tratamiento hipócrita. UN abrazo. Carlos

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  35. Inegável verdade! O importante é estar bem como você, não com os outros; estar bem consigo mesmo é o primeiro passo para ser feliz! Meu abraço, boa semana.

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  36. Good words that you wrote. Even if a person doesn't like you, be kind to them anyway. A few friends are better than no friends. God bless.

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  37. Hai ragione. Preferisco essere sola invece di ingannare me stessa.

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  38. En total acuerdo contigo.

    Abrazos.

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  40. Hola, amiga.
    A veces, lo mejor es dejarse llevar por la vida y no luchar contra lo que te depara el destino, intentar sacar todo lo bueno que te ofrece e ignorar lo negativo.
    Gracias por tu visita a mi blog. Un abrazo

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  41. I've had a lot of trouble getting away from people who didn't do me any good or trying to please others at all costs and that's really not worth it. And I really agree with what you said: It is important to understand that you are not for everyone and not everyone is worthy of you.

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  42. Thanks to all of you for your kind compliments

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  43. We really try to make everyone happy. And when we realize that this is impossible, life becomes easier.

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  44. Above all things, be true to yourself.

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  45. I think it's important to remember ourselves, our needs, our happiness regardless of whether others love us or not. Let me explain: if others love us, respect and recognize our value, it's right to think about their needs but not just theirs! We must always remember that we too are important! This is essential to be able to live a balanced relationship with others.
    Even more so if the people we surround ourselves with and to whom we direct all our energy and attention don't reciprocate! ;-)

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  46. I agree with that.
    Sometimes you need to think of you in first place.
    xo
    www.pamlepletier.com

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  47. Truth. The only person we have to live with is ourselves.

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  48. Mi fa piacere leggerti sul blog ma solo per chiedermi di leggere il TUO non mi piace. Le esperienze ne ho tante da 79 anni e tutti ne abbiamo. Sinceramente saranno interessanti cool ecc. ma non fanno per me. Sinceramente non so bene inglese e le traduzioni google lasciano a desiderare. Buona vita.

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  49. Rajani, your post is wise. We need to understand these thoughts. Thank you.

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  50. Hello! Such a wise advice on this post!

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  52. Thank you so much everyone 🙏🙏

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  53. Ne gardez que le positif et les personnes bonnes et saines avec vous !

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  54. Concordo plenamente com seu post!

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  55. Concordo com você, seu texto é muito verdadeiro.

    Obrigada pela visita.

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  56. Thank you for coming my blog .Welcome.

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  57. Yes some people not worth to spend too much effort.

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  58. Happiness comes from within ...

    All the best Jan

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  59. What you said sounds true. We treasure the friendship with our friends but we may separate from each other because of differences of opinion. I share that we want everyone to be with us but it does not happen.

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