How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?

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How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?  Emotions arise from thinking, but emotions are deeper and more effective than thoughts and resolutions. To keep the mind happy and life successful, always having good feelings and good wishes towards everyone is the best management of emotions. In practical terms, no matter what feelings someone has, we should behave with good intentions towards him. His behavior or conversation should not influence , rather we should behave with him in such a way that our good conduct becomes effective on him. It is possible that his behavior may change,  because positive energy is more powerful than negativity. If we are disturbed by the unfair behavior of others and misbehave with them, then understand that our positive power has been defeated. 

Forgiveness makes us better!!

Whether to apologize or forgive,it is easy as well as difficult. 
Admitting one's own fault and forgiving the fault of others is what makes us human.
Forgiveness is neither a bargain nor a trick. Forgiveness is that surface of the mind, where both the one who accepts his mistake and the one who forgives wins.
Forgiveness makes us better.

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  1. Perdonar creo que es algo bastante dificil, para algunos más para otros menos. Eso sí, no creo que yo lo haya cultivado pero siempre trato ♥

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  2. Forgiveness can be a challenge. Sometimes forgiveness can be confused with condoning what someone has done to us. 🙄

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  3. Concordo inteiramente!

    Beijos.

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  4. If we don't forgive others, it only hurts ourselves. When we forgive, we feel more
    free, like a heavy weight has been lifted.

    Have a beautiful month of October.

    ~Sheri

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  5. Hi!
    Recognizing mistakes is wise, so learn from them. Forgiving is divine - someone already said that :)
    Kisses,

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  6. O perdão torna-nos mais tolerantes e humanos. Muito inspirador o seu texto.
    Uma boa semana com muita saúde.
    Um beijo.

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  7. it is really true that he manages to forgive he lives in a better dimension of life.
    Greetings, silvia

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  8. Forgetting is a good help too

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  9. Learning from our mistakes is the best step to not asking for forgiveness.

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  10. Lo bueno seria no tener que pedir perdón nunca por hacer las cosas bien ;-)))

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  11. Wonderful thoughts written. However, I have to agree with Yessykan. :)

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  12. Todos aprendemos de nuestros errores.

    Mil besos,
    Celia | 1000 LIBROS blog.

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  13. o perdao so depende do qué pois nem sempre é facil pois dependo do mal que nos ao fé bjs saude feliz semana

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  14. Hay que aprender a no cometer errores para no tener que perdonar, pero si lo haces, es de humilde pedir perdón

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  15. Not all people accept that they are wrong.

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  16. "Forgiveness is that surface of the mind, where..." Amazing!!

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  17. Concordo plenamente!

    Desejo uma semana feliz
    Beijinhos
    MARIAZITA / A CASA DA MARIQUINHAS

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  18. Hi, Rajani! Both giving and receiving forgiveness are hard. Sometimes it's hard to forgive when someone has deeply hurt you or someone you love. Forgiveness is hard to receive when you feel ashamed and full of regret for treating someone badly. But if you can summon the strength to forgive or to accept forgiveness, your soul feels lighter. You feel an amazing grace.

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  20. Me parece muy bien saber perdonar, aunque a veces cueste, depende del daño que te hayan hecho, pero siempre el perdón nos reconforta el alma, el rencor no es buena cosa, destruye.

    Besitos desde España. Gracias por pasar por mi página,

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  21. Aprender a perdonar es la melhore coisa
    http://retromaggie.blogspot.com/

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  22. Perdoar é muito difícil, mas quando acontece lava a alma!

    bj

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  23. Perdoar é esquecer, mas é muito difícil esquecer a pessoa que te magoou.
    Seria bom se pudessemos perdoar, só assim o coração não guardava mágoas.

    Votos de feliz semana.
    beijos

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  24. That is best forgiven.
    Especially for yourself.
    It gives peace inside

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  25. forgive first that's the main thing. Thanks For share it

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  26. Perdono = il dono di dare pace.
    La pace è il dono più grande che il nostro cuore può avere perché in quella parola c'è una sensazione di libertà personale c'è il valore dell'umanità e della condivisione dell'esistenza propria e quella a cui abbiamo porto la mano Grazie della visita da me fa piacere leggere contenuti così belli lontani dai monti Abbi cura di te

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  27. Totally agree, there are times when you have to have the courage and courage to ask for forgiveness, but honestly then the feeling of well-being that remains and the inner peace is worth it.
    Greetings.

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  28. Tudo o que diz é verdade, quando esse perdão é sincero e verdadeiro.
    Abraço amigo.
    Juvenal Nunes

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  29. Ciao ! Sono d'accordo con la tua riflessione !! Ciao

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  30. Sto proprio scrivendo una scena del mio romanzo sull'importanza del perdono nei confronti degli altri, ma anche di perdonare se stessi. Un grande abbraccio.

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  31. En total acuerdo.

    Saluditos.

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  32. Rajani, Love the wisdom in this post! Thank you for sharing! John

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  33. Por supuesto hay que saber perdonar. Un placer leerte. Abrazos

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  34. O perdão é uma forma de evoluitmos

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  35. Per favore non scassare zebdei.

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  36. A veces no es tan fácil perdonar, pero es necesario hacerlo

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  37. Lighten our mind as well. Good one

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  38. Perdonar, sense cometre els mateixos errors cada dia, és ser persona. Però perdonar perquè et trepitgin, no val la pena per el temps.
    Jo perdono, i dic els meus errors a la cara, però no oblido aquells que m'hagin fet passar-ho malament.

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  39. Sono diventata anziane e sono stufa che Caino non si debba toccare mentre Abele deve sempre soccombere. Basta. Il perdono è una scelta, ma perdonare non è sinonimo di giustificare, dimenticare o riconciliarsi, è qualcosa che va oltre..

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  40. Reconocer un error es un acto de grandeza.
    Besos.

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  41. Fantástico, amiga!
    Um beijo,

    www.purestyle.com.br

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  42. Amazing post
    Thanks for sharing!

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  43. Lovely post. It's hard to forgive, but forgive we must.

    Greetings from London.

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  44. Beutiful post!

    Boa semana!


    Jovem Jornalista
    Instagram

    Até mais, Emerson Garcia

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  45. I like the image you've used here.
    Good words.

    All the best Jan

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  46. Blessings, interesting, i would add that there is a level of acceptance how has to attain of ones own flaws to bring forth the open willingness to even entertain forgiveness.

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  47. Plenamente de acordo. Se a humanidade se perdoasse mais, seríamos de certeza uma sociedade mais feliz.

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  48. "Forgiveness makes us better." You're absolutely right. Bye :))

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  49. Good post!
    Forgiveness can make us a better person.

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  50. nice reflection, much success and health

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  51. El perdón nos hace humanos, si ser humano significa alguna vez algo bueno.

    Un saludo.

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  52. Exactly, who does not forgive, never manages to be happy, cordial greetings from my dear Guatemala

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  53. Some things are difficult to forgive. Just the same it is worth the effort (except where deliberate cruelty is involved).

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  54. Saber perdonar nos libera de una pesada carga. También es bueno pedir perdón cuando la ocasión lo requiere.
    Un saludo.

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  55. Perdonare fa bene allo spirito....

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  56. Sí que nos hace mejores pero también depende de que sea ese perdón. Un abrazo.

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  57. Wise reflection. Pardon really makes us better people.

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  58. A very good text.
    Have a nice weekend.

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  59. La vita a volte è molto difficile, accettare i nostri sbagli e quelli altrui non è sempre facile . Un saluto, Daniela.

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  60. El perdón nos hace mejores personas, es una cura para el alma.
    Excelente reflexión y texto.
    Gracias por tu visita.
    Feliz fin de semana.
    Abrazo

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  61. "forgiveness makes us better"
    always :-)

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  62. Well written. We need humility to apologize and grace to forgive.

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  63. I couldn't agree with you more :)

    Shoot for the stars | ☆ ☆ ☆ | Facebook page | ☆ ☆ ☆ | Instagram

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  64. It is very difficult to achieve though.

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  65. El perdón es necesario.
    Un abrazo.

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  66. I totally agree with the title of your post.
    Forgiving others is the best thing one can do for oneself.

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  67. transcendent point. And an essential question; Is an apology the same as forgiveness?
    I feel like forgiving is greatness.Apologizing, an act of respect but to be released from its burden.
    Namaste.🙏🏻

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  68. So true. Unfortunately not everyone can forgive..

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  69. Qui no perdona s'està castigant a si mateix.
    Poques paraules i ben dites, Rajani! Una abraçada.

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  70. Absolutely! Thanks for sharing.

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  71. Perdónanos como perdonamos, así reza el Padrenuestro.El perdón libera.

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  72. Il perdono ci rende migliori ma solo se fatto con il cuore.
    Se il perdono non è sentito fino in fondo, ma è solo di facciata, allora il nostro io interiore ne risente negativamente.

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  73. Non è facile perdonare, ma farlo ci fa stare meglio!

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  74. Come non essere d'accordo? Perdonare è difficile ma sicuramente ci fa stare meglio!

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  75. El perdón debería estudiarse como una asignatura en el colegio 🙂. Saludos Rajani desde España.

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  76. Seguro que sí. Aunque hay muchas personas que no lo crean, pero claro ahí llevan su penitencia.

    ¡Salud!

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  77. Es un placer pasar por tu blog Cuídate mucho Saludos

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  78. Forgiveness can be hard but we always feel better, I think

    Be well!

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  79. Grazie del passaggio da me Buona domenica Qui sole e tanto freddo e il mio gatto ha portato in casa un topolino ancora vivo con gli urli delle mie donne Hai paura dei topolini?

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  80. It's not easy but it's true. Who forgives makes his life better.

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  81. That is so true, because when we forgive we feel better and left past behind us.

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  82. An important part of life is forgiving. Great writing and an important message.

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  83. Giustissima questa rilessione. Un abbraccio

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  84. Very interesting post!
    Thanks for sharing 😍😍
    Regards:)

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  85. Hello!! Wow i love it !!
    You are totally right
    See you!
    Nev💞

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  86. So true, we should not hold on to bad experiences.

    Ann
    https://roomsofinspiration.blogspot.com/

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  87. Yes, it paves the way to peace.

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  88. Estoy totalmente de acuerdo contigo.

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  89. nice post and beautiful photo
    http://www.mosaictrends.com/

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  90. Beautiful image, looking passion.

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  91. Thank you =)

    Cute picture and true words =)

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  92. Hello!! Besutiful post, thanks for sharing.

    Blessings!!

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  93. Ótimo post! Meu abraço, boa semana.

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  94. Great post !
    Have a happy new week !

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  95. This is deep. And it definitely encapsulates what it means to be human. I love that you included this Little Mermaid pic. That's my favorite Disney movie (actually, one of my fave movies ever). The art is perfect for what you say because Ariel seems so contemplative.

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  96. If the other party doesn't do anything with it, you're left in the same situation.
    Forgiving yourself gives much more peace of mind is my experience.
    And in our situation, the relationship we broke up with our daughter-in-law is the best thing we've done.

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  97. Tu blog es muy interesante, enhorabuena.

    El débil no puede perdonar.
    El perdón es un atributo de los fuertes
    (Mahatma Gandhi)

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  98. Affetmek bizi daha iyi yapar.Kesinle çok doğru...

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  99. Hola! me gusto mucho el post, es muy cierto lo que dices. Besos

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  100. You post is pure wisdom, thank you.

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  101. Hola, Rajani! Pienso que todo lo que dices sobre perdonar es muy cierto.
    Perdonar nos hace mejores y nos libera de una carga negativa emocional sin sentido.
    Muchas gracias por tus interesantes reflexiones. Un cordial saludo.

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  102. Agreed, I just need to remember it and apply it xx

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  103. Sono passata a salutarti. Ciao e buona serata.

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  104. Praise God for His forgiveness! God bless you.

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  105. Gostei de ler. Eu concordo. 🌿🌸💚

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  106. I can only forgive when I see real repentance.
    All the best
    Traude
    https://rostrose.blogspot.com/2021/10/babybauch-shooting-und-die-farben.html

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  107. Your thoughts are great. Sometimes forgiving is very difficult. But when the time comes and the work in the mind is done in forgiving, a great freedom opens. I agree with you. Beautiful picture!

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  108. Hola! lindo texto, el perdón llega incluso a ser liberador cuando se otorga pero tampoco creo que todos lo merezcan 🤷‍♀️ saludos❤

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  109. Llevas toda la razón. Así es. Besos :D

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  110. En ese proceso anunciado, la dicha es compartida y vivifica.
    Un abrazo

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  111. Forgiveness makes us better, indeed.
    Sometimes is difficult, but trying this is an important challenge!
    Thank you and a fine week!

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  112. Sometimes we need forgive ourselves

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  113. Great post.

    www.paginasempreto.blogspot.com.br

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  114. I liked the text.
    Forgiveness from the heart, really, is not an easy thing, but it does us a lot of good, when we can.

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  115. Eu concordo plenamente. A mágoa cria laços com nossos desafetos...

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  116. hello, thanks for stopping by. have a nice day!

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  117. I could`n agree more, but it`s not easy! Thanks for the great content! xoxo
    Home Chic Club

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  118. belle philosophie !!
    bonne journée

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  119. Somente quem tem pureza de sentimentos e o dom
    da docilidade igual a você pode exteriorizar tão magnânimas
    palavras, Rajani.
    Aplausos.

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  120. Olá Rajani
    Linda postagem, o perdão liberta, deixa o nosso interior leve, um forte abraço.

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  121. I agree 'the one who forgives wins.'

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  122. Yes, especially if the forgiving person is really right.
    Then have to tell a lie to forgive the wrongdoer.
    People do that around here every now and then for a relative's killing.
    Thanks for peeking in on my blog.
    ..

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  123. Thanks for the words of wisdom. Much appreciated.

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  124. Aquí en Colombia, ante el proceso de paz, andamos en ese dilema: perdón y olvido, y solo perdón. UN abrazo. Carlos.

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  125. You just have to make sure that the request for forgiveness is sincere. Pretty words. A pleasure to visit you.
    Greetings from Spain

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  126. Perdoar nos liberta, acho isso!
    Abracos apertados.

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  127. Perdona a los demás,
    no porque merecen el perdón,
    sino porque tu mereces paz.

    Un abrazo

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  128. Boa noite. Parabéns pela matéria.

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  129. Al perdonar quien más gana es quien perdona

    Paz

    Isaac

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  130. thank you!
    Very beautiful this post

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  131. tienes toda la razón, es bien dificil tanto perdonar como pedir perdón!

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  132. Thank you so much for visiting my blog. Your words are well said and so true.

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  133. Well said. It is often the only way to move forward.

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  134. No siempre es fácil olvidar, mucho menos perdonar.
    Suerte,
    J.

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  135. I agree in everything with you
    A big hug and kiss

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  136. Affetmek... bize insan olduğumuz hatırlatan zarif olma hâlidir. Hayatı çok daha güzel, çok daha mutlu kılar... sevgiyle kalın.

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