How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?

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How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?  Emotions arise from thinking, but emotions are deeper and more effective than thoughts and resolutions. To keep the mind happy and life successful, always having good feelings and good wishes towards everyone is the best management of emotions. In practical terms, no matter what feelings someone has, we should behave with good intentions towards him. His behavior or conversation should not influence , rather we should behave with him in such a way that our good conduct becomes effective on him. It is possible that his behavior may change,  because positive energy is more powerful than negativity. If we are disturbed by the unfair behavior of others and misbehave with them, then understand that our positive power has been defeated. 

Trying to make others smaller also makes us smaller!

When we lift someone up from the bottom, we also get up slightly.  Those who help others in their dreams, their dreams are never incomplete.  However, this habit does not come easily.  Most of us are engaged in degrading others or pulling their legs.  Trying to make others smaller also makes us smaller.

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  1. É uma grande verdade.
    Abraço, saúde e bom fim de semana

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  2. Precisamos refletir antes de julgar e tentar degradar qualquer ser humano .Bem verdade o texto.
    Obrigada pela visita. Abraço

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  3. I came to repay the visit you made to my blog and I really enjoyed yours. Very good vibration

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  4. La nostra società è competitiva e difficilmente si aiutano gli altri.
    Ciao.

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  5. Olá Rejane!
    Sem dúvida alguma, semeámos paz viveremos na leveza
    e no amor . Uma belíssima mensagem. Gostei imenso.
    Beijinhos
    Luisa

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  6. Que gran verdad dices.Nunca hay que degradar a nadie.Besicos

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  7. uuuuff certera reflexión , creo que a todos nos ha pasado mientras podamos aportar, bellas letras te sigo, gracias por tu huella en mi blog, te invito a mi blog donde estoy publicando ahora, gracias un saludo cariñoso desde mi brillo del mar

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  8. Estoy de acuerdo con tus palabras, muy reflexivas y geniales, gracias por tu visita y comentario en mi blog, saludos

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  9. graceful and able to accept everything sincerely makes us comfortable in life

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  10. Thanks for reading my blog to all of you

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  11. Peccato che io scrivo solo in italiano, cara amica.
    Tomaso0

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  12. Hi Rajani, thanks for visiting my blog.
    What we do to other people, we do to ourselves, is a wise truth

    Un beso desde Madrid, España

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  13. Well... my english is poor. Congratulations

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  14. ¡Hola! ^^
    Al ayudar a los demás, conseguimos ser mejores personas :)
    Besos!

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  15. Mi piace il tuo blog e condivido i pensieri che esprimi. Le persone che cercano di denigrare gli altri sono solo esseri inferiori che invidiano tutti e tutto.
    Felice settimana.
    enrico

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  16. Tienes toda la razón del mundo. Un saludo

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  17. I do like the image you've used.

    All the best Jan

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  18. ¡Hola!
    Me ha encantado la reflexión, y creo que es muy importante ponerlo en práctica a nuestras vidas.
    Gracias por pasarte por mí blog! Me quedo en el tuyo. Un beso!

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  19. Much better to help others 🌻

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  20. True words. I like your profile picture. Our squirrel just came by to get his daily walnut :-)

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  21. Thank you so much for reading my blog to all of you 😘

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  22. Palavras cheias de lucidez e fraternidade.
    Uma boa semana com muita saúde.
    Um beijo.

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  23. Wise words!!
    xoxo

    marisasclosetblog.com

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  24. Visitei o seu blogue e gostei das mensagens expressas nos seus textos. Voltarei. Obrigado.

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  25. Concordo com os princípio que enuncia. Na vida, devemos ser tolerantes e solidários.
    Abraço.
    Juvenal Nunes

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  26. há aquela máxima chinesa de que um pássaro não deve piar,
    pois se o faz, pode pensar que vem a águia para da merda o
    retirar e ela só pensa em o agarrar.
    olhar o outro, por vezes, e’ esperar o melhor de nós no outro
    reflectido. fazer o bem tem sempre um retorno. mais que não
    seja, a nossa consciência em paz.
    gostei muito deste pensamento.
    abraço especial

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  27. Si queremos ser mejores como personas y alcanzar algo de sabiduría, no hay otra forma que siendo generosos con con todo lo vivo. Todo lo vivo merece respeto, entendimiento. No vinimos a ser jueces, sino a aprender de la vida. Muy hermosa reflexión. Gracias.

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  28. Me gusta tu reflexión. El que quiere brillar no necesita apagar la luz de quienes lo rodean. Gracias por visitar mi blog. Un abrazo.

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  29. It better to push someone up. The pull them up.

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  30. Hola, afortunadamente no todos/as somos así. Hay personas que disfrutan de ver bien a los demás y no le ponen trabas en su camino.
    Gracias por tu visita a mi blog.
    Saludos

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  31. WOW, so much wisdom in these words!! I totally agree, with all my heart ❤
    Such a beautiful picture too 😊😊

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  32. B oa tarde
    Obrigada pela visita no meu blog, gostei muito. Postagem muito interessante, precisamos tratar os outros com igualdade. Um forte abraço.

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  33. That's so true!

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  34. Muy buen mensaje. Somos lo que sembramos. Saludos desde Argentina

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  35. Quan intentem ajudar els altres , també en sortim beneficiats , sobretot si els ajudem a complir els somnis...Si humiliem algú , acabarem sent els més humiliats nosaltres! Hi ha una dita que diu : "fes el bé i no miris a qui"

    M'agrada aquest bloc, és molt filosòfic...
    Bon vespre des de Catalunya.

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  36. Hola Rajani ; un placer leerte!!
    Muy cierto esa frase; tratar de opacar a otros para brillar mas es muy ridiculo. Siempre hay que ser uno mismo con defectos ; virtudes y tratar siempre de ayudar a los demas.
    Ya te sigo.
    Buena semana!!

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  37. La humildad creo que es de las cosas más importantes que existen. El que da, el que ayuda, el que apoya... se hace gigante.
    Saludos.

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  38. Eu também queria a palavra
    para dizer qualquer coisa, mas,
    infelizmente não sobrou nada
    a ser dito.
    Um beijo e boa noite.

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  39. Words of truth and wisdom. Have a beautiful day.

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  40. Lovely image and your words are very true.

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  41. Good and bad people exist in all parts of the world. Let's try to be among the first at all times.

    Greetings from the spring of Argentina!

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  42. Hello, Rajani!

    Thank you for your friendly visit to my blog!
    I really liked this thought. I often say that, we should do to others what we would like them to do to us: be good!

    Regards
    Liliana
    Ideias Recicladas e... não só!

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  43. Pois é! O mundo está cheio de gente dessa qualidade! E a pandemia agudizou as relações humanas. Se não existisse lei, as pessoas matavam-se umas às outras. Assiste-se ao terror social...
    Agradecida pela visita.

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  44. Hello!! you're so right, what you just wrote is true! Thanks for sharing.

    Blessings!!

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  45. Your text is a great thought.
    Have a good weekend.

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  46. Painfully true. it is a pity so few people understand this.

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  47. Gracias por tu visita a mi blog y me alegra que te guste.

    Lo que nos dices es una gran verdad.

    Saludos.

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  48. No hay que herir los sentimientos de nadie y tratar a los demás como nosotros esperamos que nos traten.

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  49. Very wise!. I also have no respect for people who like to look down on others as well as to people who like to find loopholes and blame others.

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  50. dear Rajni thank you for kind visit and word on my urdu poetry blog

    you have beautiful blog and lovely thoughts !
    i agree that when we try to make other fall we just reveal to world how fallen people we are

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  51. Great quote and I agree with your opinion

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  52. Grande verdade e pena que nem todos assim pensem! bjs, chica

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  53. Un blog davvero interessante e intelligente. Solo un animo sensibile può trattare certi argomenti con tanta delicatezza. Complimenti. Un sorriso e un saluto.

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  54. Muchas gracias por tu visita. Espero seguirte y te mando un saludo desde Madrid.

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  55. Ser humilde é o melhor remédio para vencer qualquer barreira!
    Abraço recheado de gratidão!🌻🌹🍂
    Megy Maia🌈

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  56. Thank you so much for reading my blog

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  57. Una reflexión preciosa en la que coincido contigo. Gracias por visitar mi pequeño mundo. He ido a hacerme seguidora tuya pero no he visto cómo. Seguiré buscando porque me ha gustado mucho tu blog. Besos :D

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  58. Often times, what people need is simply for someone to listen to them, without judgment.

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  59. Olá, que tenha tido um boa tarde. Nada nesse Mundo é do jeito que a gente quer. Precisamos aprender conviver com as adversidades.
    Obrigada pelo carinho
    Beijos
    Lua Singular

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  60. Words of wisdom
    It is true that if we pull people up from below, our life will also be full of blessings.
    Meanwhile, if we lower people, pull their feet then our lives will also get smaller and meaningless.
    Have a nice weekend
    Regards

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  61. Molto speciali le pagine del tuo blog
    Cari saluti,silvia

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  62. I do agree with you. When we put others down or humiliate them, we also humiliate ourselves. It is never good to be jealous and judgmental. Nobody has it easy.

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  63. Gran reflexión, te deja pensando...
    Saludos!

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  64. Muy ciertas tus palabras. Sería bueno que llegaran a quienes las necesitan, a quienes realmente no obran tan bien en pos del otro.
    Muy bonitas todas tus publicaciones. Muchas gracias!!

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  65. Beautifully said and such a pretty drawing.

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  66. Questa è una società cannibale, non comprende il valore della pace.
    Ciao

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  67. Ciao, hai perfettamente ragione, sono d'accordo con te. Saluti e grazie per essere passata da me. Ciao

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  68. That's true, I agree with you. Never do to others what you don't others do to you,
    Bye

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  69. Concordo inteiramente, amiga! E vou um pouco mais além: este é um raciocínio que devemos ter sempre presente! Meu abraço, boa semana.

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  70. Hello, thanks for visiting I loved it
    know your blog;
    These words certainly make a lot of sense;
    Every first day of every month has post
    new in the house, welcome;

    Olá, obrigada pela visita adorei
    conhecer seu blog;
    Com certeza essas palavras fazem muito sentido;
    Todo o dia primeiro de cada mês tem post
    novo lá na casa, seja bem vinda;
    janicce.

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  71. Beautiful painting and very interesting post.
    Have a wonderful day :)

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  72. Great picture and true words.
    All the best
    Gerda

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  73. I see you have visited a lot of blogs, and left a lot of "visit my post/read my post" comments, and people have politely visited you back. I'm interested to see if you will actually try to engage with any of these other bloggers, and build a relationship with them.

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  74. Beautiful image for such wise words!

    Happy Wednesday, Rajani!

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  75. La mejor forma de sentirse bien con uno mismo, es respetando a los demás.
    En España, tenemos un refrán que dice así: "Si deseas el mal para tu vecino, el tuyo viene de camino".
    Me ha gustado mucho tu entrada y tu reflexión.
    Un cordial saludo, desde Sevilla (España)

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  76. Thank you for visiting my blog and leaving a nice comment. I love the style of your blog. The illustrations are beautiful and the thoughts are so true in our lives.

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  77. Beautiful written and awesome image!
    A nice blog!

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  78. Thank you so much for reading my blog

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  79. Great words and if only everyone would think that way. Thanks for the visit. Keep safe Diane

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  80. Hola guapa, muy buena reflexión. Me ha gustado mucho tu blog. Feliz día. Besos

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  81. That is unfortunately the case. There are many areas in which attempts are made to make the others small or to keep them small. I experienced that myself. There are areas in which you don't encourage others and keep them small so that they stay where they are.
    Unfortunately this is not an isolated case.
    Greetings Eva

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  82. Thanks for visiting my blog. It's my pleasure to return the favor.

    You are absolutely right. It's incomprehensible and more than a little sad that some people think they can elevate themselves by denigrating others. It's far better to concentrate on elevating others. instead. In bringing joy to others, we also lift ourselves.

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  84. Good thoughts and live the photo

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  85. "Trying to make others smaller also makes us smaller."

    You are so right!

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  86. Una reflexión llena de humanidad y bondad.
    Felicidades.

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  87. Es cierto lo que dices, coincido con tu forma de ver la vida.
    Un abrazo.

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  88. That is human nature. The lower the intelligence and the degree of civilization, the less people help each other.

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  89. Muchas gracias por visitarme en Demonios. Es verdad que cuando empequeñecemos a los que están alrededor solo estamos mostrando una parte oscura de nosotros mismos, que nos vuelve a llevar a la oscuridad mas profunda. Nada como hacer brillar a los otros para brillar con mas luz, nada como alegrarnos de verdad con los logros de nuestros semejantes. Te deseo felicidad!!!

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  90. Hi, I think helping others is a duty.
    Unfortunately, the human being lives in contradictions
    Good evening
    Rakel

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  91. "Fazer o bem sem olhar a quem", aprendi desde Menina. E a fazer pelos outros o melhor de mim.
    Belos pensamentos que aqui tem. E cada vez mais necessários neste mundo tão egoísta e narcisista.
    Um abraço

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  92. Ressalvo o poema anterior. A redacção é a seguinte:
    "Fazer o bem sem olhar a quem", aprendi desde Menina.
    E a fazer pelos outros o melhor de mim.
    Belos pensamentos que aqui tem. É cada vez mais necessário neste mundo tão egoísta e narcisista.
    Um abraço

    As minhas desculpas pelo lapso.

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  93. Muy cierto. Al final somos el fiel reflejo de nuestros actos.

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  94. Agradezco tu visita en mi blog.
    Te dejo un abrazo y todo mic ariño y respeto.

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  95. Yes I learned that when I was a teen. My best friend dumped me when I was 12 years old. She wouldn't talk about it, and I was hurt. But I decided not to reciprocate the bad feelings... I didn't push myself on her but treated her kindly whenever we interacted. Three years later we started becoming friends again, and she told me why she had done it...she was jealous of me because I had a family. Her mother had died when she was 11 and she had nothing in common with her father. I grew a lot because of the way I had behaved, and I learned not to take attacks/rejections personally. The other person was probably hurting, so why would I add to it?

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  96. Door je leven te verkleinen ontstaat er ruimte
    Ruimte voor ingevingen, creativiteit, inspiratie,
    ontspanning en liefde.

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  97. This is so true. I really love your blog, each post is like a piece of life's wisdom.
    Thank you so much for visiting my blog.
    ✌️

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  98. Important words of wisdom. Good end of year.

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  99. Dearest Rajani,
    Yes, those are wise and valid words!
    Hugs,
    Mariette

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