Myexperience

Our lives are shaped by the choices we make.  We must take responsibility for our choices.  Our thinking is a choice.Happiness is a choice.  Optimism is a choice.Compassion is a choice.  Cooperation and respect are choices. We become what we choose. So, whatever you choose, choose wisely.  Life doesn't move forward even a single step without trust.  When we don't trust ourselves, the trust of others comes in handy. And when we don't trust others, we move forward with confidence.  But lack of trust increases our problems.  The root of many of our difficulties lies in our lack of trust, specifically in ourselves. 

Expand the horizon of your expectations so wide that there is no room left for trivial resolutions. Broaden the scope of your commitments and dedicate your intentions to eliminating things that are against humanity.  Understand the importance of making your short life a poem.  There are many ways to change the world, and they are within your reach.If you do this, you will feel that your short life is quite significant.  Thinking big and dreaming big doesn't cost anything,and the world needs it. I believe we should only read books that wound us or strike us.  If a book doesn't have the power to shake us. then why are we reading it.  Books should be like an axe that can break the ice within us. 

Accept what needs to be changed. Accept its nature. Don't fight against it. When we accept something,we stop paying attention to it.  Once something is accepted, our attention shifts away from it. Therefore, learn to accept.  Accept everything you have. Accept your addictions too. Stop paying attention to them.  A misguided ascetic develops habit of penance, fasting and suppressing anger. When you fast, your mind is preoccupied with food all day. So don't create such habits. Try to transform your attention.  This is the right way to be free from addictions. 

Humans often live under the illusion that their lives are influenced by external circumstances. However, life is driven not by external circumstances, but by thoughts arising within the inner self. Before any action, the mind undergoes a long process of contemplation.  This contemplation gives birth to thoughts that then take the form of behavior.  Thoughts process immense power, infinite energy, and the ability to change circumstances. Every thought of love or hate that arises in a person's mind returns to them forcefully. No force can stop it. This means that thoughts are never wasted. They are reflected and affect the person who gave birth to them.  Therefore, whatever a person thinks, so is what they experience. The entire universe is a manifestation of thoughts. Thoughts connect the soul with the divine. 

We are always entangled in memories of the past and imagination of the future.  Disturbance comes from the past and the future. The present is the truth, where there is peace and happiness. Therefore it is better to live in this moment... No one except humans is living in the future. That is why only this humans are troubled. Trees are not troubled. You do not see trees going to psychologist. Animals and birds are also not troubled. Have you ever seen lines of tension and restlessness on the face of any animal or bird? Have you ever heard of any animals or bird going mad in the natural state of the forest?  Yes, sometimes circus animals go mad because of humans. The responsibility for this lies with humans. No animal is made to live in a circus.  Imagine if there is a world of animals and man is locked in it, then what will be their condition?  Animals come to see and man is roaming around in the cage. In such a situation, man goes mad. Madness doesn't oc...

Having expectations is a normal human nature.  Having expectations from others is not a bad thing.but one should be prepared for its consequences. Even a child has expectations from his parents that his hunger and thirst will be taken care of. As his life progresses,his expectations from family, society and government also increase. Not everyone can live up to our expectations, and when these are not fulfilled, it can have a negative impact on our quality. It can also change our outlook towards life. A person wants the best in every situation. And when this doesn't happen, disappointment arises. It is necessary to bear the pain of expectations being broken, and this should be seen as the result of karma of destiny. It is natural to accept that where there are expectations, there is suffering. Yet it is not difficult to adopt an open attitude towards the world. Before having expectations from others, we need to take care of our strength, ability and limitations. It is also true that...