Accept what needs to be changed.
Once something is accepted, our attention shifts away from it. Therefore, learn to accept.
Accept everything you have. Accept your addictions too. Stop paying attention to them.
A misguided ascetic develops habit of penance, fasting and suppressing anger. When you fast, your mind is preoccupied with food all day. So don't create such habits. Try to transform your attention.
This is the right way to be free from addictions.
In my opinion, we can't all agree on everything. Not everything is acceptable.
ReplyDeleteMy friend, I send you greetings and wish you a good weekend!
Temos que ponderar, questionar, examinar e se possível, onde erramos, mudar...
ReplyDeletebeijos, tudo de bom, chica
Thank you for the reminder.
ReplyDeleteGracias por el consejo. Te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteL'accettazione è importantissima, nel corso della nostra vita, ci insegna ad essere completamente partecipi a nuove esperienze.
ReplyDeleteBuona giornata
Acceptance isn't always easy. Every situation is different.
ReplyDeleteAngelika
Olá. Independentemente da publicação que vi e li com todo o gosto, aplaudo e elogio, passo a fim de desejar um NATAL MUITOS FELIZ, para si, família, e a quem mais residir em seu coração.
ReplyDeleteBOAS FESTAS.
.
“ Natal, haja bondade no coração “ .
.
I'm not going to accept everything. That's not really reasonable to consider.
ReplyDeleteOne more thing to consider. You might get more readership to your blog if you made more of an effort on others blogs rather than just, "Great blog, please read my post" Just a thought.
Buena reflexión. Felices Fiestas. 🎁✨🎄🎅
ReplyDeleteWe can all do our part.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the reminder. Happy Holidays to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteMy friend, I wish you and your loved ones a Merry Christmas!!! I wish you health, happiness, joy, and many beautiful moments with your loved ones! I wish you the blessing of the newborn Lord Jesus!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Rajana! It's impossible to get through life without change. 😂. All the best to you in the new year! ❤️
ReplyDeleteWesołych Świąt!🎁🎅 Dużo odpoczynku, uśmiechu i pięknych chwil 🎄
ReplyDeleteAngelika
Сердечно поздравляю вас с Рождеством и с наступающим Новым годом! Пусть сбудутся ваши желания и мечты, здоровья!
ReplyDeleteGood reminder. It's very important to accept reality, even if we need to work to change that reality. We can't change anything through denial.
ReplyDeleteGood reminder indeed.
ReplyDeleteOlá, boa tarde: Passando, vendo e relendo, elogiando, e também, a fim de desejar continuação de boas festas, Que a Saúde, a Paz, e a boa harmonia. marquem residência no vosso lar e no lar da vossa família e amizades.
ReplyDelete.
Deixo votos das maiores felicidades.
..
“” Poema: - Corações em Chama “
.
🖤🖤 douce soirée ! Kiss 🖤🖤😈
ReplyDeleteRajana querida,
ReplyDeleteUma publicaçáo pertinente
e que pode somar nos objetivos
para o novo ciclo.
Obrigada por compartilhar e
por ler no Espelhando.
Bjins
COM AFETO ESSES SÃO MEUS SINCEROS
VOTOS DE FELIZ ANO NOVO E QUE O NOVO
CICLO LHE SEJA FAVORÁVEL.
BASTA OBSERVAR OS
SINAIS.
CatiahôAlc.
entre Sonhos e Delírios
Accettare è una delle cose più difficili da fare, ma forse quella che ci alleggerirebbe le giornate
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely agree <3
ReplyDeleteThank you very much! 💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteAcceptance is not often the answer to where one is in life. Too often it it becomes a denial of the reality of life, an acceptance of a bad place to be. Acknowledgement of our situation marks a starting point for change. We cannot move on from a negative place by accepting it.
ReplyDeleteBlessings
Thanks for sharing!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your recent visit to the low carb diabetic blog.
ReplyDeleteGood wishes for the coming New Year.
All the best Jan
belated merry christmas!! wishing you much happiness in 2026!!
ReplyDeleteGuter Beitrag! Ich stimme zu, es ist hilfreich, wenn du erklärst:
ReplyDelete„Akzeptiere, was sich ändern muss …“ Lasst uns voller Zuversicht und frei von alten Strukturen ins neue Jahr starten.
Good post! I agree, it is helpful, when you explain:
"Accept what needs to be changed....."
Lets go encouraged and free from old structures into the coming year.
Bom dia e uma excelente terça-feira. Passando para desejar um grande abraço do seu amigo brasileiro.
ReplyDeleteI wish you a happy new year, kindly greetings, Karin Lissi
ReplyDeleteThank you everyone for visiting my blog.
ReplyDelete🌟 Such wise words! Acceptance truly brings peace and clarity—your insight is inspiring. For anyone looking to explore new perspectives and create meaningful travel experiences, Nanajee Travels can help plan unforgettable adventures: https://travel.nanajee.com/ ✈️🌍
ReplyDeleteGreat post! Thanks for the reminder!
ReplyDeleteHappy Holidays! I wish you all the best in 2026, a happy and healthy New Year. Take care, have a great day!
ReplyDeleteLovely flower pic. I think addictions are probably a bit more complicated than that. but I did watch a very beautiful young lady taking selfies and then slump in disappointment when she looked at the pic in her phone. I did think if she stopped examining her face so closely, she might see it's beauty....
ReplyDeleteInteresting thoughts
ReplyDeleteThanks for inviting me to your blog, Rajani
Hope the Holiday Season was joyous.
Best Wishes for a happy 2026
🎄much love
I love living my accepting what I cannot control or change. And knowing the one thing I can always control is my response to it. Blessings to you. :)
ReplyDeleteBeautiful!
ReplyDeleteHappy new year,Rajani Rehana!
I wish you a happy and healthy 2026
ReplyDeleteI wish you a joyful and happy New Year 2026!!! I wish you all the best!!! Health, happiness, joy, prosperity, fulfillment of dreams and God's blessing every day!!!
ReplyDeleteHappy new year, Rajani! Keep up! Stay well!
ReplyDeleteMay your home be filled with laughter, love, and warmth throughout the year.
ReplyDeleteMay you find success in your endeavours, both big and small.
May good fortune shine upon you, bringing prosperity and peace.
May the spirit of mateship strengthen your bonds and bring you closer to those around you.
May you always have time for a yarn with friends, a good cuppa, and the simple joys that make life so special.
Good advice! Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year🎉🎊 everyone!
ReplyDeletehappy new year
ReplyDeleteWishing you a very happy and fulfilled 2026. Thankyou for visiting my blog last week.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year!
ReplyDeleteThere are just some things I won't accept. Acceptance requires acknowledging reality without resistance. I do agree on self improvement we should accept ourselves for who we are and if we don't like what we are consciously make changes. I understand what you are trying to say and I respect your thoughts. Wishing you the best 2026.
ReplyDeleteGreat advice!
ReplyDeleteCOUCOU RAJANI MERCI POUR LA VISITE SA FAIT PLAISIRE BONNE ANNEE 2026
ReplyDeleteTRES BEAU BLOG EXCELENT CONSEILBONNE SOIREE BISZ THERESE
Auguri di buon anno carissima
ReplyDeleteCiao Rajani. Buon 2026.
ReplyDeleteThats a nice post, thanks a lot for sharing your advice.
ReplyDeleteBonne année 2026
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteDaniela @ ~ My little old world ~
Yes, it is right.
ReplyDelete你好，新年快樂！
ReplyDeleteAprendí hace tiempo.
ReplyDeleteY me ayuda.
happy new year
ReplyDeleteThe concept of accepting one's lot in life is too broad. I could not tell someone living in an abusive relationship to accept her life as it is. I could tell someone who is obsessing over not being model thin to accept herself as she is.
ReplyDeleteThanks for visiting Buttercupland. Wishes for a very happy and healthy new year.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful blog.
ReplyDeleteGreetings Irma
That's the right way to do it, good advice.
ReplyDeleteRegards
Just seen your comment on my blog Rajani, and I think you should take note of the comment by an earlier subscriber....'I'm not going to accept everything. That's not really reasonable to consider. You might get more readership to your blog if you made more of an effort on others blogs rather than just advertise by saying 'GREAT BLOG PLEASE READ MY POST'.
ReplyDeleteRegards
This comment has been removed by the author.
DeleteVery true :-D
ReplyDeleteOlá, amiga.
ReplyDeleteExcelente texto. Gostei de ler.
Votos de uma feliz semana, e a continuação de um bom 2026, com tudo de bom!
Beijinho.
Mário Margaride
http://poesiaaquiesta.blogspot.com
https:/soltaastuaspalavras.blogspot.com
thanks
ReplyDeleteI've always lived my life by not sweating those things over which I have no control.
ReplyDeleteFeliz año, te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteTrue. With acceptance, we can move forward with change.
ReplyDelete💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
ReplyDeleteBonjour, Merci de votre passage sur mon blog. Belle journée à vous. M@rie
ReplyDeleteBeautiful post 😊 Have a nice day 😊
ReplyDeleteHola amiga la libertad es un regalo que la vida nos da para poder elegir lo que te gusta y lo que no,
ReplyDeleteNunca aceptaría algo que no sea de mi agrado, nu tu debes hacerlo.
Gracias por tu huella.
✨️♥️✨️
Va bene accettare ma ci possono essere anche cose che non si possono accettare. In questo caso è giusto cambiare. Buon anno.
ReplyDeleteMy best wishes for you in 2026: love, joy, happiness, and good health!
ReplyDeleteThanks =)
ReplyDeleteOh this is an really inspiring post, thanks for posting it.
Te deseo todo lo mejor para este Año Nuevo que acaba de comenzar, un fuerte abrazo desde España.
ReplyDeleteExcellent Post
ReplyDeleteNo siempre somos acertados con nuestras decisiones, pero está el don de corrigir.
ReplyDeleteFeliz 2026 con un abrazo
Pertinente e de considerar.
ReplyDeleteBeijo,
SOL da Esteva
TFS!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the tips!
ReplyDeletegood
ReplyDeletethanks again
ReplyDeleteThis is a powerful reminder that fighting ourselves often makes things stronger. Acceptance softens the grip.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful flowers!
ReplyDeleteAcceptance is such a key to inner freedom. This is very well put.
ReplyDeletesuper ton billet et bien écrit, de retour après les fêtes et la grippe qui s'est invité au programme je te souhaite un bon Mardi ,bises
ReplyDeleteSuch a powerful reminder. 🌿 Acceptance really does change everything—once we stop fighting what is, we create space for growth and peace. Reflections like this always make me want to slow down, reset, and maybe even step away for a while. When that feeling turns into travel inspiration, travel.nanajee.com is a lovely place to search for flights and hotels.
ReplyDeleteif it good, we should accept it
ReplyDelete👍
ReplyDeleteBeautiful blooms.
ReplyDeleteTu post me lleva a la reflexión, la aceptación es importante, tendré q trabajarla más.
ReplyDeleteThank you for visiting my Pictorial Tuesday so I could come and visit your experiences blog. Good thoughts on accepting when a change is needed and to act on it. True, once it is resolved, and we are happy about it, it is forgotten and we move on.
ReplyDeleteLooks like these are problems I don't have anyway 😉
ReplyDeleteWarm winter greetings ❄️☃️ and wishing you a wonderful 2026 too, Traude
https://rostrose.blogspot.com/2026/01/reisebericht-2025-vogelbegegnungen.html
Accept need to change - true words :-) All the best in New Year 2026
ReplyDeleteAccept it... and just know when to stop... sometimes extraa absorbing do nothing but harms you...
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year 2026 my friend
ReplyDeleteI think that, above all, we should learn to accept what we have no control over. We live here to shape our character.
ReplyDeleteBest regards, and I invite you to view my new painting :)
Thank you so much everyone for visiting my blog.
ReplyDeleteRejane, teu texto é um convite sereno à reconciliação consigo mesma.
ReplyDeleteHá nele uma sabedoria que não grita, apenas permanece.
Aceitar, como você diz, é uma forma delicada de liberdade.
Ler suas palavras aquieta e orienta, como quem aponta o essencial.
Que 2026 te acolha com clareza, leveza e atenção bem direcionada.
Que sua escrita siga sendo esse lugar de verdade e cuidado.
Feliz 2026, com paz no gesto e profundidade no olhar.
Daniel
https://gagopoetico.blogspot.com/2026/01/saudade.html
Hola Rajani. Una entrada que invita a la reflexión. La adicción no es una buena consejera. Te roba tu tiempo y te esclaviza. Hay que saber dominar los impulsos.
ReplyDeleteUn abrazo.
Thanks so much for your visit to my blog, Rejani, and the invitation to visit yours. Have a happy and healthy new year..xxoJudy
ReplyDeleteMusím souhlasit s komentářem ze dne 6.1. 1926, protože to co jsi uvedla je nedostatečné a vypadá to že jsi článek ani nečetla. Věřím, že příště to bude lepší. Hezký den a vše nejlepší v roce 2026.
ReplyDelete👍🏻
ReplyDeleteQue flor bonita! Qual o nome dessa flor?
ReplyDeleteNão gosto muito de mudanças.
Abraço,
Thank you for the visiting of my blog.
ReplyDeleteOlá, realmente precisamos aceitar o que precisa ser mudado e encarar a nova realidade e sermos felizes, abraços e boa semana!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your reflections.
ReplyDeleteKisses
Thank you, for the reminder...
ReplyDeleteÉ preciso estar sempre atento a cada ato. Repassar o que se fez , revisar passos e seguir com a alma leve nesta travessia.
ReplyDeleteAbraços e feliz semana.
Muito bom ,texto.
ReplyDeletejanice.
Te mando un beso.
ReplyDeletegreat post
ReplyDelete