If you lose yourself, what will you win?

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The ability to live life the way you want, with the people you choose and in the circumstances you choose,  doing only the things that make you happy. when you decide on your definition of success in every area, you will immediately see what things you need to do more or less to make your life ideal.  Usually the biggest thing stopping you from moving forward in the direction of your dreams are you favorite excuses and lack of self-discipline. it's not that you don't know what to do.you know this very well.  But what you should do, whether you feel like doing it or not, you don't do it because you don't have the discipline.  Success is possible only when you over come your natural tendency to choose the easy path.  Lasting success is only possible if you discipline yourself to work hard for a long time, because without self-discipline, hard work is directionless. 

it is important to set your own limits, but it is not right to imprison yourself in too many limits!

It is important to set your own limits,but it is not right to imprison yourself in too many limits. Avoiding always socializing with others or considering entertainment as a waste of time, alienates us from others and leads us to loneliness. Many things may be really unnecessary, but finding meaning in everything was not needed. it is better that we move from a calm mind to a balance.

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  1. This is so true. Good thinking :-D

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  2. Establezco mis límites pero siempre dejo un margen por si hay que variarlos. Un abrazo

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  3. Muy cierta tu reflexión. Un saludo.

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  4. Hola Rehani, tal cual ponerse limites para algunas cosas pero no prohibirse relacionarse con los demas compartir buenos momentos.
    Un abrazo!!

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  5. Me encanta el tema. Yo estoy aprendiendo a poner límites. Gracias por compartir ^.^.

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  6. Completamente de acuerdo con tu entrada, como todo en la vida los límites son necesarios, pero sin abusar de ellos, porque se pueden convertir en aislamiento.
    Un saludo.

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  7. It's always good to have your boundaries clear and not let anyone cross
    xo
    https://www.dearlytay.com.br/

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  8. Thank you for your inspiring posts
    xx

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  9. Llevas razón, establecer límites pero sin cercarnos la vida. Besos :D

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  10. El equilibrio es absolutamente necesario en todos los actos de nuestra vida, esa es la forma de ser justos cuando valoramos cada cosa o a otras personas, un placer leerte amigo Rehana
    Un abrazo
    Carmen

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  11. ¡¡Hola!! Muy de acuerdo con todo lo que dices. Importante el equilibrio. Besitos.

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  12. Totally agree! Good to see you back with a new post :)

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  13. Truth in these words m'dear

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  14. You are right - though sometimes that balance is hard to achieve.

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  15. What you say is a great goal. It is not always achieved, but you have to try.
    Greetings from Spain :)

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  16. Great advice! I agree with you.

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  17. Balance is so important. Thanks for the reminder.

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  18. IOur boundaries play a critical role in our happiness.

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  19. True. Flexibility is important. It allows us to have spontaneous experiences that can turn out to be some of the best in our lives!

    Susan
    www.blogginboutbooks.com

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  20. Sì, ci vuole sempre l'equilibrio giusto!

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  21. Interesting blog.

    Thanks for visiting my post about The Incredible Journey this week.

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  22. The picture on the swing made me think of an old poem, a favorite from my childhood. Oh I should like to go up in the swing, up in air so blue, oh I do think it's the pleasantest thing ever a child can do. It's a Robert Louis Stevenson's poem. I might not have remembered the lines exactly; but the freedom that poem always made me feel, and the imagination. Somehow the balance of freeing yourself and creating came to mind for me.
    Sandy's Space

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  23. Linda entrada <3

    Un beso desde Plegarias en la Noche.

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  24. Good words and beautiful photo showing how to feel free.

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  25. Certera reflexión.
    Cordiales saludos.

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  26. Aunque el equilibrio es algo personal, siempre hay que buscarlo.

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  27. Hey great blog! I really like this post.
    I am following you and I invite you to my place :)
    https://milentry-blog.blogspot.com/

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  28. So true. We shouldn't put unreasonable limits on ourselves. Let make reasonable goals and strive to reach them.

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  29. Muy buena reflexión, hay que aprender a hacerlo.

    Saluditos.

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  30. Limits are only governed by the ability to dream. Dreams are only limited by what we are able to live. Thanks must be given for the things we are blessed with and move on from those things we can not live. Thought provoking post.

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  31. Balance ourselves in believing in God daily! Helps us through life. Good idea of what you wrote. I enjoyed swinging years ago. Every once in awhile I swing which is fun which brings back memories of childhood! Have a blessed week! Thanks for your comment on my blog! :-)

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  32. Thanks for visiting my blog. Soon!

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  33. Se conhecemos os nossos limites não é sensato ultrapassá-los, concordo.
    Desejo um Natal cheio de Amor e um ano de 2022 com saúde, paz e conforto.
    Um beijo.

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  34. I agree, about that of limits!
    Great reflection! :)

    https://www.heyimwiththeband.com.br/

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    1. Thank you Rejani, very good advice! From DeniseinVA at https://www.anenglishgirlrambles2016.blogspot.com

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  35. This is so true. If we imprison our self in so many limits we cut ourselfs from so many beautiful things and experiences.

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  36. Very true, balance is essential for a good happy life.

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  37. For you and your family I wish Happy Holidays.

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  38. Boa tarde. Obrigado pelo carinho. Desejo um feliz natal com muita paz e saúde, que em 2022 você realize novos sonhos e projetos.

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  39. Molto belle le tue pagine
    Un caro saluto, silvia

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  40. Sempre estou nesta busca do equilíbrio, as vezes é muito difícil...seguimos tentando!!! bjs

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  42. Coherente apreciación...
    Un cordial saludo.

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  43. Have a lovely Christmas! God bless you.

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  44. good insight about limits and boundaries. My husband felt that I limited us too much during Covid. Not sure I agree but during regular times it would have been too much.

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  45. A luminous mind will be calm, still, and balanced. Mindfulness and liberation is acheived by practice. It starts by finding the path for you and remaining diligent in practice on the path.

    Nice site. Thgabks for visiting mine.

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  46. Hola gracias por tu reflexión, a veces le damos importancia a las cosas. Que pases una Feliz Navidad mis mejores deseos, un abrazo desde mi brillo del mar

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  47. Balance is important! Lovely visual. :)

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  48. Estou dando uma passadinha pra te desejar um Natal Feliz e um abençoado 2022 pra você e os teus, que a chegada de um novo ano seja um presente de Deus repleto de amor, esperança e otimismo.
    Um Abraço!

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  49. I agree with you. It's important to keep everything in balance:)

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  50. You are right. Balance is very important for everythink. Very nice photo. Bye😊🤚

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  51. O seu pensar é inquestionável, caríssima Rajani.
    Aplausos e que o Natal lhe seja abençoado e feliz.
    Fraternal abraço.

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  52. Depende de cada cual... Pásalo bien en estas Fiestas de Fin de Año!!

    Abrazo hasta allá.

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  53. Thank you for sharing these words.

    All the best Jan

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  54. I liked your text and I very much agree with it.
    A balance is the best in everything.
    Keep healthy and happy.
    I wish you a great New Year!


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  55. Me gustó esta reflexión. Felices Fiestas.

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  56. desejo umas lindas e felizes festas bjs saude

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  57. Totalmente de acuerdo con tu spot, un placer leerte
    Felices fiestas

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  58. Los límites tienen que ser racionales, de tal modo que no pongan una barrera a los demás. UN abrazo desde Colombia. Carlos

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  59. Plenamente de acordo, amiga.
    Votos de um Feliz Natal e próspero 2022.

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  60. The balance is achieved with the measure of things.
    Your concept is correct.
    The good is the middle ground.
    Peace and harmony, health and beauty be with you this Christmas. Cheers for a New Year.🌟🕊️

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  61. Agradeço a visita no meu blog. Gostei da reflexão. Abraço

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  62. Muy interesante tu reflexión.

    Gracias por invitarme a tu blog.

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  64. It is important to keep everything in balance.
    Greetings Irma

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  65. Moving on to wish you a good Christmas
    and a good New Year's entry next to yours.
    Hugs
    janicce.

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  66. Merry Christmas to you and to your family!
    May 2022 will be full of joy, health and love, for you and you loved ones.
    Best wishes

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  67. Passing, seeing, reading, praising such wonderful publication, and leaving wishes for a MERRY CHRISTMAS, extended to family and friends.
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    Christmas greetings.
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    Poetic Thoughts and Daydreams
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  68. Yes. Doing what makes you happy is so important!

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  69. Te mando un beso y te deseo una feliz navidad para y tu familia.

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  70. Good points. It's important to balance one's life and not go to extremes if they can be avoided.

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  71. We must never avoid the human race. Merry Christmas and happy New Year.
    Lynn and Precious

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  72. Miło i serdecznie pozdrawiam. Interesujący blok, wiele ciekawych i znakomitych fotografii. Postaram się tutaj częściej zaglądać. Pozdrowienia.

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  73. Cool post! I like it!

    https://www.biigthais.com/

    Kisses ;*

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  74. Muy cierto.

    Feliz Navidad 🎄🎄🎄❤❤

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  75. Gostei; muito bom! Espero que seu Natal tenha sido feliz, e lhe desejo um ótimo Ano Novo!

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  76. Lo mejor siempre es buscar el equilibrio para la vida. Me encantó leerte.

    Te espero en mi blog.
    Besos 😘

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  77. Hola! tienes mucha razón, me gustó mucho el post. Besos

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  78. In everything, there should be a balance.

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  79. Yes, being around people is important, but too many activities and happenings clouds the mind. So many people have to keep moving, rushing, doing. That would leave me a bit frazzled. It's good to find balance, as you said. I hope the new year brings you many good surprises. And thank you for your lovely words every time I come over and visit.

    ~Sheri

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  80. Thank you for your words of wisdom. This is very true, but sometimes it can be hard to find the balance xx

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  81. You have a really lovely blog and you are right about setting limits but not being imprisoned by them. It's very good advise for the New Year because limits are important but if we set too many limits and make them unrealistic they will be impossible to follow.

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  82. Great text.
    Thank you for the company in this year that is now finishing.
    I wish your new year who is about to begin arrives with great health and courage, because that way we already will have the enough to do the rest, namely peace, happiness, love and wisdom. An enlightened and blessed year.
    Happy New Year, my dear friend Rajani.
    Kisses.

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  83. Thank you for this post. I really needed to hear it. Happy New Year! :)

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  84. so true...balance is so important!!

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  85. May the New Year be full of joy, health, love and bring you a universe of stars to light your way. Happy New Year!

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  86. Te mando un abrazo y te deseo un genial año para ti y tu familia.

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  88. ... """finding meaning in everything was not needed""" ... that's true!

    Wishing you a happy and healthy new year !! 🥂

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  89. Too many limits can create bondage. Happy New Year!

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  90. muy interesante, te deseo feliz 2022!

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  91. I am in total agreement with you! Wishing you a most Happy New Year!

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  92. . I hope you had a great Christmas and New Year ..xx

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  93. You always find the right things to say. Wishing you a very Happy New Year xXx

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  94. This is so true, especially the second part.... it is not right to imprison yourself in too many limits. I visited someone recently and found that the person is lonely basically because of following the "too many limits"
    Have a Happy & Safe New Year.

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  95. Amei a reflexão.
    Beijos.


    https://www.parafraseandocomvanessa.com.br/

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  96. Beautiful pix with an even better sunset. We have to let things go and NOT to SWEAT the SMALL STUFF. Happy New Year

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  97. Wise words and beautiful imagery. Thank you for sharing.

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  98. I miss you!
    Your reflections and thoughts are missed.
    The important thing, that you are well.

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  99. Inspiring words. Thank you for your kind words on my blog. Happy New Year.

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  100. Interesting way to approach it, and I agree. Don't stay a hermit, but set limits when you do have to go out.

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  102. This is so true. I always believe that we are our own limit.

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  103. Muy feliz año amiga mía eso lo primero y por supuesto estoy totalmente de acuerdo una mente equilibrada y tranquila hace que funcione mucho mejor nuestro cuerpo gracias por tu entrada porque realmente beneficia a quién las leemos un beso muy fuerte y te deseo lo mejor para este 2022

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  104. Auguri infiniti per un radioso 2022

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  105. Equilibrio es lo que se necesita. Un fuerte abrazo.

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  106. Hermosas palabras llenas de reflexión.
    ¡Feliz Año Nuevo!
    Un abrazo.

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  107. wishing you a great month
    http://retromaggie.blogspot.com/

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  108. I am back and commenting after a short break, lovely to see your gorgeous work again. xx

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  109. I agree! Free moments just to talk with a friend or watch a funny movie can be just what we need to feel better. :)
    Have a nice day! :)

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  110. Enjoyed this post. Hugs and blessings, Cindy

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  111. Perfect advise, especially going into a new year...everything in moderation!

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  112. Dear friend, your blog is wonderful. With a lot of wisdom and phrases that make you reflect. It is a pleasure to meet you, I leave you a hug.

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  113. Nice post... Beautiful blog...

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  114. Uma reflexão pra refletimos, abraços.

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  115. Horrible blog! I hate this blog so much and you are very annoying!

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  116. Everything needs balance. Setting boundary is good.

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  117. Llegar es lo principal :-)))

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  118. I liked the text and the image. Happy New Year.

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  119. i think knowing one's limits is the key. :)
    thanks for the post.

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  120. Great words and very true. Sorry I'm late but Tuesday is a busy day for me. Hugs, Angela xXx

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  121. Totally agree! It's always good to have your boundaries clear and not let anyone cross..

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  122. Rajani.
    Antes de nada. Feliz Año.
    Demasiondos límites puede bloquear nuestro equilibrio.

    Abrazos.

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  123. So true

    Kisses
    www.pimentadeacucar.com

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  124. This really seems like what was stated for my situation.

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