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Accept what needs to be changed.

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Accept what needs to be changed. Accept its nature. Don't fight against it. When we accept something,we stop paying attention to it.  Once something is accepted, our attention shifts away from it. Therefore, learn to accept.  Accept everything you have. Accept your addictions too. Stop paying attention to them.  A misguided ascetic develops habit of penance, fasting and suppressing anger. When you fast, your mind is preoccupied with food all day. So don't create such habits. Try to transform your attention.  This is the right way to be free from addictions. 

Where there is love, there is no place for expectations!

Having expectations is a normal human nature.  Having expectations from others is not a bad thing.but one should be prepared for its consequences. Even a child has expectations from his parents that his hunger and thirst will be taken care of. As his life progresses,his expectations from family, society and government also increase. Not everyone can live up to our expectations, and when these are not fulfilled, it can have a negative impact on our quality. It can also change our outlook towards life. A person wants the best in every situation. And when this doesn't happen, disappointment arises. It is necessary to bear the pain of expectations being broken, and this should be seen as the result of karma of destiny. It is natural to accept that where there are expectations, there is suffering. Yet it is not difficult to adopt an open attitude towards the world. Before having expectations from others, we need to take care of our strength, ability and limitations. It is also true that...