How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?

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How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?  Emotions arise from thinking, but emotions are deeper and more effective than thoughts and resolutions. To keep the mind happy and life successful, always having good feelings and good wishes towards everyone is the best management of emotions. In practical terms, no matter what feelings someone has, we should behave with good intentions towards him. His behavior or conversation should not influence , rather we should behave with him in such a way that our good conduct becomes effective on him. It is possible that his behavior may change,  because positive energy is more powerful than negativity. If we are disturbed by the unfair behavior of others and misbehave with them, then understand that our positive power has been defeated. 

If asked are you happy with your life, what would be your answer??

If asked are you happy with your life, what would be your answer? For most of the people the answer is 'NO'.
There is a lot in our life which we do not like and which we want to change.
What is that thing that increases our distance from happiness.
The biggest mantra to live the life you want is to do whatever you say. Whether it is a promise made to someone else or a promise made to oneself. In fact, when we are serious about keeping our promises,we actually start getting serious about life.This habit not only strengths relationship but also takes you closer to your dreams.
Promise what you have the ability to deliver deliver. If the sailor does not know which way he is going , the direction of the wind doesn't matter.It means that you should know in which works to put your energy.

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  1. I am happy to be alive.
    (by the way - blogger will put your comments in spam if you repeat them - so try to put a smiley after beautiful blog, or a hi :*)
    I really like to read your thoughts!
    Hugs :)!!!

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  2. I am also happy to be alive. And I enjoy every day, with the small and big joys 🌞

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  3. Yes I know that some days could be better but I must to say that I found a good balncewith myself and my life!!!

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  4. I think gratitude leads to happiness. Sure, there are things that might not be the greatest, and there are times that are tough. But finding things to be grateful for brightens the spirit.

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  5. Soy feliz con mi vida, y desde siempre, pongo empeño y soy alegre. se valorar lo que tengo. Un abrazo

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  6. There are so many things to be grateful about! So, the answer is a big YES!
    And I really love your thoughts!
    All the best! Hugs! ❤️😘

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  7. Y prometernos cosas hermosas a nosotros mismos, por supuesto, cumplirlas. Besos cariño :D

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  8. Ciao Rajani! Anche per me è un si!Nonostante i momenti difficili! E sicuramente ci sono ancora, e ci saranno, cose che non vorrei o che non vanno bene, ma se mi si presentano si affrontano nel migliore dei modi possibili. Del resto è la vita che è fatta di esperienze varie, altrimenti non sarebbe la stessa cosa.
    Come ti ha suggerito Copilarim nel primo commento, anche nel mio blog molti tuoi commenti sono finiti nello spam! Un caro saluto!

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  9. Commenta il mio blog, è bellissimo.. anche il tuo però.. ma se commenti scrivendo qualcosa magari sei più felice anche tu.. :)

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  10. Sí, soy feliz con mi vida, el listón lo pone cada cual donde quiere, las cosas sencillas son las mejores para mí.
    Un beso.

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  11. Uno de los motivos para ser feliz es no poner el listón de nuestras aspiraciones demasiado alto.
    Yo creo que lo he conseguido.
    Cariños.
    Kasioles

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  12. I am mostly content with my life.

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  13. Ser feliz a tempo inteiro é uma utopia. Temos momentos felizes e temos que aprender com eles e aproveitá - los.
    Um grande beijinho!
    💞💞💞 Megy Maia

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  14. I am fortunate to be happy and content with my life.

    All the best Jan

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  15. Some days could be better but on the whole i am quite okay. Interesting question. :)

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  16. Overall I would say I am mostly happy with my life. :)

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  17. Boa tarde de sábado e bom final de semana."viver e não ter a vergonha de ser feliz".

    Luiz Gomes.
    viagenspelobrasilerio.blogspot.com

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  18. Happy to hear, see, walk, eat... Enjoy life.

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  19. Muito bom texto!
    Paz e bênção para você!

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  20. Each day or month or year that has come or will come my way is a gift.

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  21. Life is a gift and we should always be grateful and happy with what we get.

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  22. At first, I'd be tempted to say "no." But, upon further reflection, I'd have to say "yes'." Interestingly, I have a post ready to pop on Tuesday (my 65th birthday) which answers why.

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  23. I think to be happy we need to be thankful and to also try to think of others before ourselves. Yes, I am happy.

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  24. I'm happy with my life. What about You?

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  25. Profunda reflexion. Genial semana te mando un beso

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  26. Dear friend of mine, I love your deep reflections, you leave me thinking a lot.
    I am happy and i live fully and sincerely hope that you are too.
    Big hugs.

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  27. I think I'd say I'm grateful for everything I have and those I'm yet to receive. So yeah, I am happy because gratitude is the secret to happiness. :) I love how your short posts are so thought-provoking.

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  28. La coherencia nos hace libres, somos lo que pensamos y disociar estos verbos solo trae sufrimiento en mi opinión.

    Gracias por tu visita, besos!!

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  29. Lo mejor de la felicidad plena es esperar a que llegue con paciencia.
    Saludos, Rajani.

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  30. La felicidad siempre es efímera mientras se busque afuera de lo que se es. La felicidad creo, es innata en el ser humano, pero por ser tan fácil, nos resulta difícil encontrar. Una dicotomía. Muy buena reflexión, Rajani.
    Saludos cordiales.

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  31. thank you for you visit to my blog, the life is beatiful and write is wounderful experience, i say hi from my dear Guatemala

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  32. I'm cautiously optimistic.

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  33. a vida ela nos joga muitas voltas um post muito entresante bjs saude

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  34. Um texto cheio de esperança, onde reina a felicidade.
    Beijos.

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  35. Creo que en ocasiones hay personas que intentan amargar la vida.

    Saludos.

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  36. Sim, é um estado de alma.
    Quase sempre, feliz!
    abraço, e bons dias

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  37. Great advice. We all have the power to change our direction I guess.

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  38. Overall I am happy with my life and grateful. Take care, enjoy your day!

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  39. Good question, I would say 'more or less'

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  40. Not really, but I do feel blessed.

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  41. A nossa vida só faz sentido vivida na busca da felicidade.
    Para tal, devemos saber o que queremos e envidar esforços para alcançarmos o objetivo pretendido.
    Abraço amigo.
    Juvenal Nunes

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  42. No me puedo quejar , tengo lo necesario para tener una vida cómoda, ya que la felicidad cada uno la interpreta a su manera.Hay quien necesita muchas cosas materiales para tener felicidad y otros en cambio le gusta más tener una vida en orden y con afectos, que no faltetrabajo y que gocemos de buena salud.
    Un placer pasar por tu blog

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  43. I’m thankful that I feel happy with my life. Life is natural progression including some sad incidence and oneself trying to be better every passing day.

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  44. The answer is "Yes". There is too much doom and gloom in the present day world. The biggest villains are the press, TV companies and governments trying to make us do what they want rather than allowing people do do and say as they themselves would like.

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  45. Thanks to all of you for kind words and concern.

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  46. Życzę powodzenia i radości z życia

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  47. It's wonderful to be able to enjoy life and appreciate the little moments.
    X
    https://www.dearlytay.com.br/

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  48. I'm happy. But the life is too complex.
    Have a great week my dear friend Rajani.
    Hugs.

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  49. There's no full happiness in life. Whatever happy bit comes my way, I should be grateful and enjoy it. Good health is a very important step towards happiness.

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  50. Thank you for your beautiful ideas.

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  51. La vida es un continuo aprendizaje. Se aprende sobre todo del dolor, hay que gestionarlo, también hay que gestionar el tiempo para no desaprovecharlo. La felicidad son instantes. Un saludo.

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  52. I'm happy with many things about my life, and not happy about some. But for the most part, I am at peace, and that peace fills my heart. I read one time that grateful people are the happiest people, and I believe that is true. So, I try to have a thankful heart always. I appreciate you asking the question, thank you.

    ~Sheri

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  53. I am very grateful for my life and for the people in it. Great post.

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  54. Jag är otroligt nöjd med mitt liv - förutom dom sista åren när jag har fått lite allvarligare sjukdomar. För det är inte kul...
    Kram-Susie

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  55. Wise words and an important message! Few promises and few good habits build small happiness, and fulfilling many promises and introducing many useful habits build great happiness 😃

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  56. Estou feliz sim, temos que ser gratos por tudo que temos!
    🌸 Beijos nas bochechas! :)

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  57. I'd say yes, I'm surprised most people would say no. I work hard at being happy (or content, which is harder in a lot of ways). It's the focus on the little things that makes all the difference. A wealth of small pleasures, easily accessible every day (walking the dog, smelling great flowers, warm sunshine on your face in winter...) make a huge difference.

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  58. Mi respuesta sería que tengo momentos de felicidad..

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  59. Beautiful blog right back my Friend. And I believe if you have gratitude in your heart you will always find a way to be happy. ;)

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  60. I am grateful to be here and still enjoying life. Thank you for this thoughtfull post. Have a lovely weekend.

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  61. Έχω άποψη και θα σου την γράψω όταν πάω σπίτι Τώρα είμαι στη δουλειά και δυστυχώς δεν μπορώ να διαβάσω προσεκτικά αυτά που γράφεις

    Σε ευχαριστώ που επισκέφτηκες το blog μου

    Καλή Σου Μέρα
    Από Ελλάδα με Αγάπη

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  62. Everything changes from time to time
    It is impossible to be happy all the time
    We can never be happy all the time Happiness is often hard to find,
    and when we find her.. she doesn't stay with us forever

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  63. Yes and no, sometimes happy, sometimes no.

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  64. Thank you for coming and read my blog.

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  65. La felicidad es relativa. Y a partir de este principio se puede se feliz, un abrazo. Carlos

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  66. Si claro que soy feliz, la vida no necesita
    de grandezas para lograrlos, a veces las
    cosas mas sencillas me hacen saltar de
    alegria, un placer leerte y feliz de hacerlo.

    Besitos dulces

    Siby

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  67. Te mando un beso y te deseo una buena semana.

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  68. Saya harus pandai bersyukur dengan apa yang sudah Tuhan berikan pada hidup saya, susah dan senang adalah bagian dari perjalanan hidup, tak ada manusia yg sempurna...terimakasih dengan ulasannya😘

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  69. Happiness is difficult but it's worth trying it

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  70. May you have a wonderful life journey

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  71. Everyone tries for it, i guess:)

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  72. Intento ser feliz¡¡¡ a veces la vida te abofetea un poquito. Uno se levanta y vuelve a ser feliz. Saludos.

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  73. A pesar de las trabas que a veces la vida nos pone, acepto el reto de aprender y...si..soy feliz
    Un abrazo

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  74. My life is bitter and not happy, bot sometime I felt the kind of good people, funny and beautiful thing that I feel comfort!

    Usually I don't express my sorrow but just calm and find something common that can share among the people I know!

    But time is changing ...

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  75. I'm very happy with my life the way it is right now, so the answer is yes.
    Greetings Irma

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  76. I am deeply grateful for my life. Aloha

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  77. If everyone is happy, we can be happy too. Thanks..😊

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  78. En muchas ocasiones cuando nos ponemos a reflexionar sobre nuestra vida pensamos que alguna determinación que tomamos fue errónea, pero pudo suponer que nuestra vida no fue tan mala.
    Eso es mas o menos cuando vamos a ir a un lugar determinado al que tenemos dos caminos y de pronto tomamos la segunda opción y encontramos algo con lo que no esperamos encontrarnos pero nos gusta.

    Saludos.

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  79. Gracias por compartir, saludos desde el norte de España.

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  80. Only those who are contented will answer yes to your question.

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  81. Yes. Thank you for visiting my blog.

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  82. Sì sono felice. Grazie per essere passata da me :)

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  83. Hi,
    I’m happy that I’m alive, my parents and we are healthy and safe.
    Am I happy with my life?
    I some things I would change. I’m not satisfied with some things. If I could live my life again - I would do things differently in some things.
    My friend, I salute you!

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  84. I'm happy and grateful most of the time.

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  85. Hello i am a new visitor and comes from a friend For every day I am thankful that I am still allowed to be here despite my illness. I live with the day and enjoy the beautiful little things that come my way in life.

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  86. Hola Rajani Rehana: Siempre deberíamos ser capaces de con nuestro capaz trazado, de llegar a la meta soñada en la tangible realidad que se pueda alcanzar…
    Un abrazo

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  87. Hope you are doing well. Thank you for your comments!

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  88. Yes. Very thought-provoking post. :)

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  89. Many things in my life could be better, but I think I'm lucky in any case and I'm happy for it

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  90. Enjoyed the read. I will be returning periodially, as well as adding you to my blog & news list.

    Namaste

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  91. Non sempre siamo contenti di dove stiamo andando ma dobbiamo ricordarci che cambiare rotta è sempre possibile, indipendentemente dall'età

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  92. Not happy all the time but nicely balanced

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  93. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

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  94. I am content and happy with my life. No regrets.

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  96. Thank you for your kind support 😊

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  98. Abraham Lincoln said this more than 150 years ago, "Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be," and it's as true today as when he first said it. Even when we are in the midst of daunting circumstances, there is still so much to be happy about and grateful for. :--)

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  99. On most days.. yes.. thankfully.. blessed.

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  100. Não somos felizes ou tristes o tempo inteiro, isso não existe, temos momentos
    que se alternam entre felicidade, tristeza, saudades, mágoas etc.
    Boa semana, paz e esperança!
    bjs

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  101. Kalau ditanya seperti ini sih, saya bisa katakan bahwa saya cukup bahagia dengan Hidup saya sekarang.

    Karena kebahagiaan dapat kita raih dengan syukur yang besar hehe. Terima Kasih ya

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  102. Malgré des peines immenses, la vie est là, il faut avancer, je m'efforce de suivre un chemin droit et généreux, sans promesses mirobolantes !

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  103. Hallo ,Yes,my life is now happy! Beautiful blog.

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  104. Człowiek nie wie co jest dla niego tak naprawdę dobre cyt. nauczyciela Bon. Tym samym wybierając kierunek nasza karma nie zawsze pozwala Nauki z Tybetu

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