How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?

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How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?  Emotions arise from thinking, but emotions are deeper and more effective than thoughts and resolutions. To keep the mind happy and life successful, always having good feelings and good wishes towards everyone is the best management of emotions. In practical terms, no matter what feelings someone has, we should behave with good intentions towards him. His behavior or conversation should not influence , rather we should behave with him in such a way that our good conduct becomes effective on him. It is possible that his behavior may change,  because positive energy is more powerful than negativity. If we are disturbed by the unfair behavior of others and misbehave with them, then understand that our positive power has been defeated. 

The more we blame others for our condition, the more we wallow in feelings of anger,fear, despair, or pain!

The more we blame others for our condition, the more we wallow in feelings of anger,fear, despair, or pain.
Cursing others weakens that power, that energy, which is our own. When you get rid of the habit of blaming yourself, normally all the problems start getting resolved and you start moving forword in life. In fact, your needs are the energy that drives life forward.
And when these needs are fulfilled, our body and life become energetic.
So be gentle with yourself. It is possible that during this time you become emotional or start felling completely empty. But there is nothing to panic as this is a normal process. When you accept that you are not the only one responsible for the unpleasant things. that are happening in your life, then your power remains.

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  1. Bom Artigo. Grato pela disponibilização.


    Abraço
    SOL da Esteva

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  2. Culpar a los demás no soluciona los problemas, al contrario, los empeora y vuelve más oscuros. Una reflexión preciosa. Besos :D

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  3. Dear friend
    Thank you for visiting A NOSSA TRAVESSA and for your comment.
    Life is a series of events that must be used to live better. I liked your text. I'll be back when I can.
    Hug
    Henrique

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  4. Sempre bello leggerti, buon fine settimana

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  5. Blame is never helpful, though sometimes taking responsibility is.

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  6. Quejarse no sirve de nada, mejor tener una actitud positiva.

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  7. Very well written and so true :-D

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  8. Absolutelly Blame is never helpful!

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  9. Thank you for your compliments ☺️

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  10. Es una estupenda recomendación, Rajani, quererse a uno mismo y aceptar que somos a la vez responsables de lo que nos ocurre, por las decisiones que libremente vamos tomando en la vida. Y aceptar a los demás sin más. Un saludo,

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  11. E proprio vero quanto scrivi, la chiave per una vita migliore sta dentro di noi non nel prossimo.
    Buona domenica

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  12. Lovely and wise words! Thank you very much!
    I wish you Merry Christmas and many inspirations! ❤️

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  13. Sicuramente hai ragione quando affermi che la chiave per una vita migliore sia dentro di noi, nel senso che deve partire tutto da noi stessi. Ciao e Buona nuova settimana in arrivo

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  14. Muito verdadeira essa reflexão! Gostei muito.
    Um Feliz Natal para você e seus queridos.
    Grande abraço

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  15. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
    Thanks for visiting my blog.
    Kiss.

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  16. En total acuerdo contigo Rajani.

    Un abrazo.

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  17. Ha sido muy grato leerte y de paso desear que tengas junto a los tuyos una FELIZ NAVIFDAD
    Abrazo

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  18. Una gran reflexion, saludos y felices fiestas que vengan llenas de salud y felicidad

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  19. leggevo tempo alcune massime del saggio
    " Non dubitare del potere della bontà, sebbene sembri che tutto stia contro di te."
    Basta pensare in negativo
    Diamo fiducia al nostro futuro





    So



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  20. In my opinion, there is something true in your words!

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  21. It is very beautifully and truthfully written.

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  22. Excellent and wise reflection.
    I take the opportunity to wish you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, full of health, joy and love.
    Greetings
    Maria

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  23. "When you accept that you are not the only one responsible for the unpleasant things. that are happening in your life, then your power remains". What a beautiful post! Thank you for sharing!

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  24. Affermazioni molto veritiere!

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  25. I believe in the force of energy, the energy that we send to the universe, will coming back to us, like a boomerang.

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  26. Tem muita razão. Devemos começar por acreditar em nós próprios.
    Abraço solidário.
    Juvenal Nunes

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  27. Thank you. Some days accepting our responsibility is a way to move forward.

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  28. wise words...thank you for the visit!!

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  29. A la belleza de la imagen, se une la realidad de tus palabras.
    Gracias por visitar mi blog.

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  30. Tem que colocar o tradutor. Obrigada
    Desejo que todos tenhamos saúde e paz. Que nunca nos falte a alegria de viver, o bom senso, a humildade, a solidariedade, a compreensão e a união, etc..
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    É outra vez Natal ...
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    Um beijo/abraço fraterno a quem de direito. Sejam muito felizes hoje e sempre. Um 2023 cheio de positividade.

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  31. Un articulo muy interesante que nos muestra una gran verdad.

    Saludos.

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  32. Si no te quieres a ti mismo, tampoco querrás a nadie.
    Un saludo muy cordial

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  33. Buen post, me ha gustado mucho. Saludos desde el norte de España.

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  34. Mi trovo perfettamente d'accordo con ogni parola che hai scritto, ciao e un abbraccio!

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  35. So true! Great advice! Thank you for your visit, I enjoy coming to your blog.

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  36. Good to read your words.
    Blame is never helpful, accepting our responsibility is.

    All the best Jan

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  37. Being gentle with yourself is something my dr. tells me often.

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  38. Que la Navidad sea un camino hacia la paz!
    Qué aflore lo mejor de la especie humana.
    Querernos y perdonarnos para querer, perdonar y tolerar a los demás.
    Fraterno abrazo!
    Feliz Navidad querida Angie!

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  40. Tantissiami auguri di un sereno Natale
    Maurizio

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  41. Así es, debemos perdonar y perdonarnos, feliz navidad y un excelente año nuevo, lleno de cosas buenas. Un abrazo

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  42. Sono passato per farti gli auguri e per rileggere le tue righe che sono proprio sagge
    Nel 2023 facciamo dei propositi seri cerchiamo di pensare alla nostra spiritualità che è l'equilibrio importante per una vita sicura e felice

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  43. Buone feste !!! Interessante post !!!!

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  44. Ho letto il tuo post e mi è piaciuto.
    Felice2023 con i tuoi cari.
    Un abbraccio
    enrico

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  45. Grande verdade! Somos responsáveis por nós mesmos. Belo texto. Bom ano novo, Rajani.

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  46. Uma reflexão com a qual não me poderia identificar mais! Uma grande verdade!
    Votos de um excelente 2023, com saúde, paz, muita Luz, equilíbrio e bondade, para si e todos os seus! Tudo de bom para o Novo Ano!
    Cumprimentos
    Ana

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  47. Mucha razón hay en lo que has escrito. Es muy normal culpar a los demás de nuestra situación porque no nos detenemos en ver si el motivo no somos nosotros mismos.
    Que tengas un fabuloso año 2023.
    Un abrazo.

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  48. Stunning header!
    Yes, I agree with the following: be gentle to yourself, blaming oneself and others weakens our energy.

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  49. Wise advice, I enjoyed reading your blog. Thank you for stopping by mine.

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  50. Beautiful and very true thoughts, our desires, plans and intentions drive our lives, give us strength for everyday duties.
    Regards.

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  51. good vibration!!! See you soon

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  52. Sagge parole Rajani! Dovremmo esser più gentili con noi e con gli altri. Ci sentiremmo sicuramente meglio! E la vita è fatta di alti e bassi. Bisogna affrontare tutto finchè si può con serenità.
    Buon anno e buon tutto! :)

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  53. Uma reflexão pra refletirmos sobre alguns sentimentos, passando pra desejar um feliz ano novo.

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  54. Wise words. Happy New Year!

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  55. Auguri auguri, sinceri auguri di un brillante 2023.
    Non manchi mai un sorriso sulle tue labbra

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  56. Mi vida es mi vida
    Así lo decidí
    Y no necesito de nadie

    Existen personas toxicas
    Que le traen problemas a la gente
    Y echarle una maldición
    No me quita nada
    Al contrario
    Aumenta mi poder
    Al cumplirse la maldición

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  57. A very wise advice. Happy new year!

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  58. https://www.france.tv/france-2/candice-renoir/4422916-chacun-dirige-l-eau-vers-son-moulin.html

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  59. ¡Qué gran verdad! A veces somos nuestros peores enemigos.
    👏🏼

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  60. Verdade nessas palavras. Feliz 2023. Bjs

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  61. So true! Thank you for the visit at my page.

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  62. Anger, fear, despair, and pain : scary combination.

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  63. Très belle image.
    Merci de ton passage chez moi..
    Passe un bon weekend.

    Very beautiful picture.
    Thank you for visiting me..
    Have a good week-end.

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  64. We certainly do need to learn to take responsibility for our action and ask God's forgiveness when we mess up.
    Blessings!

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  65. Lovely photo. Powerful words to live by.

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  66. This is truly a special and wonderful post. Thank you for visiting our blog, and for sharing your words today. And I love that photo also! Have a bright new year!

    ~Sheri

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  67. Beautiful new year 2023 Rajani.

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  68. I love this! I really wish more people were open to reading this post. Thank you for sharing. I hope the year is off to a great start!
    PerlaGiselle | iamperlita.com
    ♥ | INSTAGRAM

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  69. Estupendo post , me ha gustado mucho, un abrazo y gracias por vsitarme.

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  70. Voir la vie du bon côté c'edt déjà un grtand pas en avant !

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  71. Well written.
    Letting go of problems with others is very important, so you live much more relaxed.
    Greetings Irma

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  72. Wisdom well said! Happy New Year Rajani!

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  73. Happy 2023, to you and yours! All the best!
    Ana

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  74. Bom dia, Rajani
    Linda postagem, ser gentil consigo mesmo é um ótimo aprendizado, um forte abraço.

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  75. Boa noite, Rajani
    Parabéns pela partilha e obrigada pela visita ao Profetizando.

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  76. I agree with your message, thank you for the kind words you left on my blog last year and I wish you a very happy year 2023.
    My best greetings.
    ~~~~~~~~

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  77. Thanks for dropping by my blog Rajani
    All the best for 2023

    Much❤love

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  78. Bom dia! Gostei muito da reflexão que nos trouxe. Culpar realmente é muito negativo.
    Obrigada pela visita em meu blog!

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  79. Nuestra vida es fruto de nuestras decisiones. No debemos culpar a los demás. Gracias por tu visita.

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  80. Temos que ser gentis conosco sempre.❤
    Beijos!

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  81. Good reflection on how conflicts and difficulties can affect the human being.

    Thank you for visiting my blog.

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  82. Very beautiful blog. We often know judge the other persons and not ourselves. I'ts necessary to learn to look inside our mood, our weaks. We became stronger and free to consider our life in the right way.

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  83. ¡HOLA, HOLAAAAA!

    Totalmente cierto.

    ¡SE MUUUY FELIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIZ 🤭📖!

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  84. thank you for sharing this and reading my blog!

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  85. Right. It's sometime surprising how often we'll dump guilt on ourselves unnecessarily.

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  86. No juzguemos los actos ajenos en estado de ánimo alterado, dado que seguiremos estando errados y se incrementará nuestro mal estar...
    Un abrazo

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  87. Bonsoir,
    Merci pour le partage de ces bons mots... Bisous

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  88. Ciao, è sempre un piacere leggere i tuoi post.

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  89. La mejor actitud es la acción. Un abrazo.Carlos

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  90. Hola, hay que saber reconocer nuestra culpa en la justa medida y tener en cuenta que hay cosas que no podemos controlar. Besos.

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  91. Sometimes you just can't change things.
    Accepting that makes a person calm inside.

    Have a great time in 2023!

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  92. Toda la razón. Son muy inteligentes tus palabras.
    👏👏👏👏

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  93. Totalment d'acord amb les teves paraules.
    Bon Cap de setmana

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  94. You are right, if you can turn tears to laughter, hate to love , war to peace , then misery and suffering will words to be forgotten forever.

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