How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?

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How to control the good and bad thoughts and emotions going on in the mind?  Emotions arise from thinking, but emotions are deeper and more effective than thoughts and resolutions. To keep the mind happy and life successful, always having good feelings and good wishes towards everyone is the best management of emotions. In practical terms, no matter what feelings someone has, we should behave with good intentions towards him. His behavior or conversation should not influence , rather we should behave with him in such a way that our good conduct becomes effective on him. It is possible that his behavior may change,  because positive energy is more powerful than negativity. If we are disturbed by the unfair behavior of others and misbehave with them, then understand that our positive power has been defeated. 

Bitter memories do not let us be happy!

Bitter memories do not let us be happy. The more bitterness for others with in us, the deeper the layers of sadness. The joys can be found even in small things,but we lose them only in getting irritated by others. To be happy is nothing better than good health and bad memory. If you want fun in life,then it is necessary to keep doing something new. When you thrust yourself,then there is fun in life. And when you are cool,then you do amazing things.

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  1. kesinlikle katılıyorum yazdıklarına

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  2. Gostei...Não podemos nosdeter nas recordações feias e amargas.Há muito pela frente! bjs, chica

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  3. Wow, very good. Have a nice weekend.

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  4. That is so very true. Hope you are well :-D

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  5. Buena reflexion se debe dejar las amarguras y seguir viviendo . Te mando un beso

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  6. I try to live this. Seeing your icon... we lost a squirrel yesterday, so sad.

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  7. The entry title is apt !.
    Better to forget the bitterness, life is only short.

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  8. life is bundle of thorns and flowers dear friend
    to be calm or happy it is good to leave bad memories behind and stay with good ones only because i believe even bad memories that are result of something terrible can bring some positive change in your life ,it completely depends how you deal with this ,there is a quote that WHAT HAPPENS TO US IS ONLY 5 PERCENT ,BUT HOW WE FACE IT IS 95 PERCENT OF OUR LIFE '.
    BLESSINGS!

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  9. I`m a poet and I really, really love what I do!

    Be happy too! :)

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  10. Olá, amiga!
    Muito Obrigado, pela visita ao meu blogue.
    É verdade. Memórias amargas, só nos causam desgosto e tristeza.
    A vida continua. Temos que pensar nas coisas boas que a vida nos pode proporcionar.

    Beijinhos e bom fim de semana!

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  11. Estou de acordo mas... a memória é muito necessária à poesia.
    Um abraço

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  12. This is one hundred percent true, in my life, at least. Thank you for putting it out there so eloquently.

    Thanks, also, for visiting me over at Marmelade Gypsy. It's lovely to "meet" you.

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  13. Muita saúde pra você,
    grande abraço daqui de longe!!
    Obrigada pela visita.

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  14. ¡Cuánta verdad dicen tus bellas palabras, Rajani!! ¿de qué sirve amargarnos si estamos en este mundo de paso? es mejor para nuestra salud física y espiritual, llevarnos bien con todos y tener pensamientos apacibles. Gracias por visitar mi blog. Voy a seguir el tuyo....te invito a mi otro blog JOYAS DE MI ALMA....allí estoy escribiendo todos los días. Un saludo desde Lima Perú.

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  15. Muy interesantes tus palabras. Saludos

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  16. I enjoyed reading your post, thank you.

    When one is bitter towards others, it eats away like poison.

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  17. I enjoyed your post, thank you.

    All the best Jan

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  18. Memórias amargas não se guardam porque nos tornam tristes. Cheio de motivos de reflexão este seu texto.
    Uma boa semana com muita saúde.
    Um beijo.

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  19. Boa tarde. Parabéns pela excelente matéria.

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  20. Sabias palabras, una reflexión hermosa.
    Un abrazo

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  21. A felicidade e a simplicidade dão cor à nossa vida!
    Um beijinho recheado de gratidão e luz!
    Megy Maia❤👄❤

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  22. YEA! we must enjoy everything beautiful that life has to offer us and live every minute as if it were the last.

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  23. gostei do que li.
    agradeço a visita.
    boa semana com paz e saúde
    beijo
    :)

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  24. Very interesting post. I think challenges keep our lives interesting.

    Greetings from London.

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  25. The image of that woman with those stars is really unique!

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  26. an inspiring post full of positive energy. we have to learn to see and enjoy beauty.
    thank you for visiting my blog.

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  27. Yo procuro enterrar los recuerdos amargos y vivir la vida lo más alegremente que puedo. Creo que es lo más sensato.

    Un beso lector.

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  28. inspiring story!
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    http://www.rosetinz.com

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  29. WOW...this is wonderful!!
    And so true...feeling bitter towards another person only brings pain and unhappiness back to us.
    "To be happy is nothing better than good health and bad memory" ...I really like that...and I love the picture!! 😊😊

    Have a lovely day and stay safe, my friend...I have heard how serious the Covid rate is in your beautiful country. So very sad 😢

    Hugs xxx

    Hugs xxx

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  30. The past can be a recipe that we can season with drama and failure or with humor and wisdom. If it is past, it means that we are no longer in those moments and now we have in the present all the elements of triumph and improvement.
    Greetings!

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  31. Very true, I will try to bring your words to mind when I am struggling with negative memories xx

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  32. I like a lot what you say about our experience along life. I enjoyed a lot your text. 😊

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  33. Um bom texto para reflectir, memórias amargas são para esquecer, viver o presente feliz.

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  34. Gostei! E concordo: é bem mais fácil caminhar à brisa perfumada das boas lembranças, do que contra o vento das memórias amargas! Meu abraço, boa semana.

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  35. Hello,

    I don't Know your name, but you are from India. Your country is bad, very bad, because Covid-19
    You are reason. Bad things don' t let us be happy. It's necessary to forget a little bit and love the life.

    Kisses and health.

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  36. Our journey is short and to forgive and forget may let the bitterness go. Sometimes life is tough, we get hurt and betrayed but our journeys together are too short. I always like your pictures, they tell so much without the need for words. Keep safe

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  37. Boa tarde. Parabéns pelo seu trabalho excelente.

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  38. La novedad, salir dela rutina, dejarnos avasallar por la creatividad y el ingenio, cuánto nos hace ser. Un brazo. Carlos

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  39. As I read through the titles of some of your posts, I thought you would make a good coach. Bitterness is always looking to self, woe is me, this has been done to me so I have a reason to be bitter. But bitterness will eat one life up and all that remains is an empty shell with nothing good to give to anyone else. It's easy to become bitter unless one learns to forgive. Not forget for our memories is there to serve as a reminder of our need for something bigger then ourselves and others. For me that would be Jesus, the perfect Lamb of God. He who had every reason to be bitter chose on purpose forgiveness for us all. Thanks for the visit to my site.

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  40. Bitterness in the soul is like a poison affecting all around us.

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  41. Olá, muito obrigada pela visita ao meu blog!
    O seu também é muito inspirador e com temas interessantes.
    Voltarei! um abraço

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  42. Being bitter against someone is like swallowing poison and thinking it will hurt them, not you. Jesus Christ taught us to forgive one another. True joy comes only from having Him in your heart, no matter what the circumstances. God bless you,
    Laurie

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  43. I love your picture too.

    Forgiveness is God's medicine for bitterness. The original Greek word "forgive" literally means to let go. This meaning means that you can forgive by praying God to give you the strength to let go of what has happened, regardless of how the other person feels about it. That gives real freedom.

    Thank you so much for visiting my blog https://kostbaar.blogspot.com/

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  44. we can reach the stars with our dreams -
    bring them into existence with our hands ...

    marzeniami możemy sięgnąć gwiazd -
    rękoma powołać je do istnienia...

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  45. That was beautiful. Thanks.

    Greetings from London.

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  46. Deixemos as memórias amargas p/lá e vamos curtir as mais agradáveis!
    Uma semana muito abençoada p/vcs é o que eu desejo

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  47. Forget the bad memories and remember the good memories. There is no point in suffering for what you have been through. Ahead is the way, The current Pandemic has destroyed the world. With faith and the vaccine we will be able to overcome this terrible phase.
    .
    Beginning and a very happy week… hug
    .
    Poetic Thoughts and Daydreams
    .

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  48. Lo triste y lo genial, suele anclarse en ti de manera similar y has de saber gestionarlo para que en ninguno de los casos te amordace.
    Un abrazo

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  49. Olá!
    As memórias tristes passadas, são isso mesmo, passadas.
    O que interessa é o presente. Porque a vida continua.

    Beijinhos e feliz semana!

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  50. Olá, Rajani!
    Gostei do que li e concordo consigo "To be happy is nothing better than good health and bad memory".
    Obrigada pela visita ao meu blog.
    Beijo, muita saúde.

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  51. Hola, muy buena reflexión. Saludos.

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  52. I agree with you. Your words wholy correct ! Thanks

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  53. Hola Rajani, ayer te dejé un saludo después de leerte, hoy veo que algo debí hacer mal porque no lo veo, quiero darte las gracias por visitar mi blog, te aseguro que seguiré leyéndote, me gusta como plasmas los sentimientos

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  54. It's true. You have to be positive and forget your bitterness. I agree with you.
    Greetings from Spain

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  55. I wanted to visit your publication. Reciprocity, which is called. Living is a matter of attitude. Living is looking for the meaning of each one. It is what will give us fulfillment.
    Thanks for generating the reflection.

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  56. You're right. Joys can be found even in small things.
    Greetings

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  57. As memórias são fundamentais para a nossa aprendizagem.
    Não podemos é ficar arreigados e dominados pelos traumas do passado. E para isso, nada melhor do que uma boa disciplina espiritual.
    Abraço amigo.
    Juvenal Nunes

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  58. I agree! Have a nice day.

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  59. It's as trude what you write. Thank you.

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  60. I agree with you. True words

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  61. Los recuerdos pertenecen al pasado, hay que vivir el aquí y el ahora, y ser feliz.
    Saludos.

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  62. Palavras de grande ensinamentos. São verdades que nos remete a reflexão.
    Bom mês de maio.

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  63. It is a wise and magnificent advice, I wish it were easy to put them
    into practice. your blog is a magical place to calm our soul.
    Many hugs and kisses • ₊ ° ✧︡˗ˏˋ❤ˎˊ˗

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  64. Great article. Stay happy and stay healthy

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  65. Sin duda, una buena reflexión.
    Un abrazo.
    Muchas gracias.

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  66. Great! Can i follow your social media?

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  67. I learned a long time ago that feeling bitter gets nowhere! As for learning new things - essential! x

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  68. Uno no sabe de lo que es capaz, hasta que se lo propone.
    Saludos.

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  69. Memory is so necessary to poetry
    It keeps it going
    Liked it very much

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  70. That’s what I want for my life, I try to keep my mind busy.
    💐

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