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Where there is love, there is no place for expectations!

Having expectations is a normal human nature.  Having expectations from others is not a bad thing.but one should be prepared for its consequences. Even a child has expectations from his parents that his hunger and thirst will be taken care of. As his life progresses,his expectations from family, society and government also increase. Not everyone can live up to our expectations, and when these are not fulfilled, it can have a negative impact on our quality. It can also change our outlook towards life. A person wants the best in every situation. And when this doesn't happen, disappointment arises. It is necessary to bear the pain of expectations being broken, and this should be seen as the result of karma of destiny. It is natural to accept that where there are expectations, there is suffering. Yet it is not difficult to adopt an open attitude towards the world. Before having expectations from others, we need to take care of our strength, ability and limitations. It is also true that...

Expectations increase dissatisfaction !!

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You must have often heard someone around you saying that such a person did not live up to their expectations or he is very disappointed with such a thing. There are some people who start expecting from themselves beyond their capabilities and then when they are not able to fulfill expectations then they start being unhappy with themselves. It means to say that the heavy burden of expectations snatches away the happiness of human beings. Whether those expectations are from someone else or from yourself. But when we set our expectations with reality in mind , disappointment is rarely encountered. In fact , the happiness that suddenly happens when something good happens,it doesn't meet the expected things, because on the occasion of sudden happiness, you would not have set your expectations. Don't expect impractical things from anyone.